Kunal's good qualities - Page 5

Originally posted by: FruitToasty

1 Kunal is a man who wouldn't take money over his patients, he left his job because his boss asked him to write more tests to every patient that comes to him
Kunal takes money from his patients...or else how will a Doctor live his life?😲 He was against extra tests given by the hospital. But his way was very strange. He talked with the front officer and quit. This just open more extra bad qualities in him.
1) He is an unprofessional man who doesn't whom to ask. You have something to say against the rules of your institute ...talk to the proper authority. WHo is that front desk officer? Just a junior clerk.
2) There is a proper way to protest. Call other Doctors, make plan, take signatures and send that to authority. If doesn't work...call for strike, go to media...he doesn't know how to protest or make a plan. Once again a very unsocial guy...who has no clue of how the society runs.
3) He just quit his job without asking his partner. How will the family run, who will pay the bill? Charity at outside and at home torture the poor wife. Where will she get money ?
4) A man with imbalanced "Khwaish" Pocket mein paisa nehi hai...sochne chala ek personal clinic hoga. On basis of who? Biwi. Useless pati once again.
5) Babbles about a clinic...he should work on that...but no. Rest at home ...bekar asmi. No work so fulfill the lust with pattni's best friend. You see all the evils was started for this bogas "mahan " plan of quiting the job.

6) Many Doctors are against this unusual tests. There are good Doctors too. When they see those unnecessary tests, they cut those secretly. You don;t have to quit your job ...you can still help your patient by doing this. You quit your job ...just think who will help those patients? New Doctors willl cut their throats. No he was not a good Doctor. Good Doctor don't leave his patients alone and helpless this way.
Dr. Kunal was a bad and irresponsible Doctor.

2 Kunal gave Mauli her space and respected her profession, he did have problems with Mauli not spending as much time with him but he didn't really fight over it, he was very understanding...
It's actually opposite. She gave his time and space. She didn't ask when he suddenly left his job. She cooked, she entertained him. All he did was complain. I know Doctor couples. Doctor husbands are usually very understanding to their Doctor wife. He was a pathetic Doctor hubby...he never said no when she came back at late night from clinic and did the mujra dance. No Doctor hubby will demand this from his wife. They are super hygenic and will send wify to shower first and as they know what is a gwany Doctor's duty ...they will never ask what Kunal asked at that late hour. Not all men are ass holes. Some are practical men.

3 Kunal wasn't an insecure husband, Mauli and Kunal share same profession and Mauli was obviously more successful, if you could look up the record you'd see many husbands are insecure when their wives earn more than them.. But Kunal celebrated Mauli's success

He was gaining those insecurity problem and that is the reason why he choose that house wife Nandu...his type. Loser. Or else he would go for a powerful strong woman. Cowards usually run for damsel in distress.

4 Mauli helped her friend best friend Nandini... How would she do that if her husband didn't allow her to bring her best friend in their home? Kunal supported her then too

Yes! I ahree here. Not all hubby will do that ...sp who cares about wify's best friend? But now we know why he did that...so his good quality is ruined. If he helped her and come clean we could see...wow Pati ho toh aisa.

5 Kunal helped a stranger Nandini... Remember that scene when they were in goa and Rajdeep threw Nandini out of the room, Kunal passed that Corridor where Nandini tried to hide herself in shame, he lowered his gaze and moved past her to make sure she doesn't feel ashamed, later when he saw her come under a car, he saved her...

Yes! He is always nice to Nandu. There is no objection to that. She is the one who made him moran to man. All these credit goes to Nandu. 👏

6 Mauli got Nandini home, but who was the one given responsibility of Nandini? Kunal, right? It was always Kunal who had to take Nandini here or do something for her, when Nandini had to go to bank, Kunal helped her gain her confidence, he didn't have any ulterior motives at that time, he was simply helping his wife's best friend, do watch the scene where he helps Nandini open a bank account
Once again I agree with you. He was always the best choice for Nandu. And here I will blame Mauli. THis is the reason why she failed. This is a lesson for her...never trust your hubby so much. Your best friend...your best friend. Don't involve your pari in it. It is not his headache to take care of your best friend. Mauli was wrong here and she got her punishment too.

He was absolutely insensitive and inhumane during EMA but wasn't he the one who told Mauli that - "I am sorry Mauli, mai tumhara gunehgar hu, jo saja dogi wo manjur hai?"

After slapping ...who cares about sorry. You slapped . Can you take it back? No. This doesn't make him great. As he never told that to her just after the day he slept with Nandu. He came home, probably slept with her too and kept continujing the deceiving two women. I am not understanding why are you thinking him good here? Is this simple teenage love story? Shadi shuda admi . Shadi? Do you know the meaning of shadi? That is a life long commitment in front of God. You are deceiving God. Breaking a comitment you told God and your partner that you will fulfill. This is no ordinary "dhoka". It's a crime...a sin. Once upon a time the punishemnet of parakiya was "death" that is considered as equal to "rape" .

Later on he was very insulting and doubted her pregnancy, blamed her for Nandini's absence

Post leap -
1) His rushing in to Mauli's engagement day to ask why she hid Mishti's secret showed the moron still didn't change. He could control himself for that day...2/4 ghanta idhar udhar ho jata toh duniya badal nehi jaate.
2) Rushing to Mauli's house middle of night and shouting so loud that Mishti woke up ...was a proof that he is same old irresponsible jerk who left a pregnant mother to die in the street.
3) Before he went to Mauli's house he made sure his Pari gets sleep. Once again proved that he is that selfish guy who never thought of his commitment in shadi when he thought only about his lust with Nandu.
4)Once again sending Mauli out at night in the name of reunion of Ishali ...just proved he is still not ashamed of what he did to Mauli at the night when he took her to his mistress's house and kicked her out alone in the street. He was her husband at that time. A husband promises in marriage as long as they are husband and wife he will protect her. Naa toh tab responsibility nibhaya na aaj. He is still that irresponsible guy as he was.

Originally posted by: Sabhayata

So I finally saw the episode. Dida said that because of Kunal's one mistake we can't forget all his good qualities. As a statement I agree , every person is flawed . But what are Kunal's good qualities I would really want to know. Now being a good father etc is not really a quality it is what is expected from any decent human being. Like if I get married to some one I am expected to be a good and loyal wife. If i give birth I should be a good mother. The fact that Kunal wasn't a good husband or a son to some extent goes to show that he didn't even have basic human qualities. So what are his actual good qualities . Like Mauli , she is a great and selfless friend the way she helped out Nandini , its not something most people would do. After the revelation though she had a chance to keep Kunal with her self she choose to be a strong woman and didn't tell him about her pregnancy since she realised he didn't want her and the baby. Post leap despite all the trauma she was still a beautiful person she forgave Nandini and even found love in her heart for Pari. It shows no matter what she went through her heart is still made of gold. Now these are actual good qualities . Qualities you don't expect in an average good person. Same with Ishaan. He didn't care about the social norms of a divorced woman and loved Mauli selflessly . Shows he is progressive and selfless . He was able to love some one else's child as his own. Again a big heart like Mauli. Where Kunal left his mom and grand mom for a woman Ishaan made them their own for the woman he loves. Shows the depth of his love. Now again he is patiently waiting for Mauli and constantly thinking about her happiness. Selflessness in love. These are some actual good qualities. So what are Kunal's? I came up with one that he is a good doctor , gives medical treatment to those in need which shows he isn't greedy for money like most doctors would be so for that a big thumps up. But other than that what are his actually good qualities because of which we should forgive his lies, betrayal and inhumanity towards Mauli ? Also Dida said he has been punished for his mistake. First does Kunal even consider it as a mistake? Second what was the punishment that he lost Nandini ? Is that it or something else. Losing Nandini would have been hard but how is that Karma he had a beautiful married life with Nandini and had a beautiful child with her. Yes it was short but a beautiful journey he got everything he wanted all the while when Mauli was alone and broken . So basically what are his good qualities? And how has he been punished?

Originally posted by: jhalak7

But if it comes to Nandu as a wife. He is 100% perfect husband for her. He fulfilled all his duty for her( as per we are seeing though don't know the whole truth). Pari also he is good father.
This is why saying he should stay with Nandu's memory as that woman only makes him a good man.
Well for this Mauli is not responsible. There are two types of women- Damsel in distress and strong woman. Strong woman(Mauli) needs strong man(Ishan) who can handle her. Damsel in distress women( nandu) needs a man like Kunal. If we change the jodi wohi hoga jo idhar hua. E MA.

Originally posted by: sweet_tania

As per this case , kunal was loyal and loving husband for nandini till she died and after her death too that means his love for nandini was true that's why he doesn't left her in her biggest tragedy time of life.

If he loved his second wife so dearly that he never left her cancer patient wife's side during that phase and after that phase too than how come he fall in love with mauli again after post leap? In which situation and circumstances, his love for mauli rekindled after post leap?

Since post is only about kunal, I am focusing only on kunal and his feelings.

Originally posted by: FruitToasty

That's what I am saying that this Kunal is not the Kunal they showed us initially, they are butchering him for the other guy...

This is nothing about the EMA, if Kunal was always like this you'd wonder how come Mauli stayed with this person for 7 years? The fact is that Mauli didn't stay with this man, she stayed with a different Kunal but Gajra loves degrading one character to show others in good light

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Originally posted by: sweetzzz

Pre EMA Kunal was a good person. He had a lot of good qualities, no doubt. That is why we all liked him initially. But if someone does injustice to his wife and run an ema under her nose, disgust her, accuse her in front of his mistress, spit everything that comes out of his mouth, do we forgive him? Do we even say it's ok to cheat your wife since you have all the good qualities under the sky? No right!

Coming to saying EMA isn't a crime - for a min I agree EMA isn't a crime but that's only if you are really having a tough marriage, or being abused or accused or whatever. But they were a happy couple, so come what may, EMA isn't accepted in this case.

EMA Kunal was good to his second love, but a lot of injustice to mauli. Which again isn't accepted.

Post leap Kunal - no doubt he is a good father. That's thet least expected out of him since he is said to be at least loyal to his second wife, and since she is no more, Pari is his world. He giving ideas to Ishaan, making mauli leave the house so she can unite with ishaan - i don't get this whole tyaag ka murthi out of him. He is not a teenage guy, nor is mauli, neither is ishaan. I mean when people are grown up enough to understand what they want, is his interference really required? If he didn't interfere everything would have been better, may be? What's with the gift idea and all? Seriously, do we think that matured women fall for such gifts? I don't think so. Women like mauli need to feel secured to fall in love for the second time. They need confidence from the partner. It's not gifts, they are all monetary.

No doubt he is a good doctor, but it doesn't mean we forgive him for what he did to mauli irrespective of how many ever good qualities he has

Originally posted by: FruitToasty

Anyone who has watched this show from episode 1 will know that the Kunal, they are showing right now is not that Pre leap Kunal, he is being butchered again as usually to show how Ishaan is better for Mauli, but you have to watch episodes to know what I am talking about...