Who is Mishti's advocate ???? - Page 4

Originally posted by: sandiab

this is a beautiful post and on point.

its frustrating seeing how the adults are behaving towards her in this show.

i feel like dadi and radhika would prefer if mishti wasnt around so that they can spoil pari as much as they want. she is a hindrance to their happiness.

mauli is a pathetic loser who should not be forcing these people to always choose her. kunal is their son and it will always be that way.

while these adults life revolves around kunal and his child Mishti is being left alone.

the way the truth was revealed to her was not right. the truth needs to be told to mishti as is and for her to decide what she wants to do.

she needs to be told the truth in its entirety. that her father had an affair with her moms best friend and that he came back but mauli lied to him. Kunal did not leave the child. mauli forced him out of her life. both parents are wrong.

mauli turmoil is going to be detrimental to her child coz she is not focusing on her. i wnt be surprised if mishti runs away to her popsi.

So damn true!

Originally posted by: Rosh4rose

True
The day she knew the truth she changed in her attitude towards Pari
For that a young child being called spoiled brat or jerk is not right .
Children must be respected
A child's point of view is different than adult
Look at the difference in the tiny bodies
Children are small , they don't see what we see normal visual field itself !
What about complex realities of life .
Adult must respect children
Being born to us doesn't mean we must smack them...
Violence might get the result but long run it does no good.
We must respect own children
Many European countries "parents will go to jail if they smack or slap their children!

Radhika as a mother, saas and grandmother is a very gentle lady.
When she saw Pari she first took care of her.
Then she called Mishti and scolded her that she should never repeat this again. I was saying she deserves a clap.👏
3/4/6 year old kid is a very small child. She is new to this world. Has no experience as she is new to this world. What they do is called "mistakes" as they are doing that for the first time. When mistake is done ...warning is needed ...not punishment.
Punishment is needed for crimes. Which is done by Kunal. If Mishti deserves 3-4slaps. Kunal then deserves "A crucifixion". or hang till death. According to history from India to middle east and in rest of the world "EMA" was considered as huge crime , almost like "rape". The punishment for this crime was either "chop the head or stone throwing till death". At that time children were severely beaten too for all sorts of mistakes. We now call them barbarians.

Spanking is banned in 43 countries now. Looks like people are not aware of latest laws .

Originally posted by: krystal_watz

Nobody goes to jail for smacking their kid. You go to jail if you engage in child abuse.

Yes , They do if the child complains to any authorities
It can be "school teacher or any one "
Even neighbours can complain
In 2017 one Malaysian Mom who was on expriate visa in Sweeden wnt to jail because she smacked her son often as most of asians do.
She served 12 months jail terms and was deported back .
Children were sent back to Malaysia eatlier
If the child complains , parents will be separated first child will be taken away by authorities and later the parents will be charged .
We have no right to beat a child , in the name of correcting them.
have no interest to further explain
What happens around rest of the world you can search yourself .
I don't and won't smack my daughter
I was never once slapped or smacked my parents ...
Rest is individual choice

Poiu123: Laws are not always correct. Indian law allows marital rape, is it correct? Many countries consider homosexuality criminal, are they correct? We cannot blindly follow laws. It is simply not possible to have so much patience when your child is exceptionally naughty or problematic. You cannot always be "Awww baby, you're so small, let me make you understand with chocolates every time you do a mischief". Sometimes slaps are needed to bring them in line. We have brains for a reason, we cannot follow any law blindly. 😆

Originally posted by: jhalak7

Radhika as a mother, saas and grandmother is a very gentle lady.
When she saw Pari she first took care of her.
Then she called Mishti and scolded her that she should never repeat this again. I was saying she deserves a clap. 👏
3/4/6 year old kid is a very small child. She is new to this world. Has no experience as she is new to this world. What they do is called "mistakes" as they are doing that for the first time. When mistake is done ...warning is needed ...not punishment.
Punishment is needed for crimes. Which is done by Kunal. If Mishti deserves 3-4slaps. Kunal then deserves "A crucifixion". or hang till death. According to history from India to middle east and in rest of the world "EMA" was considered as huge crime , almost like "rape". The punishment for this crime was either "chop the head or stone throwing till death". At that time children were severely beaten too for all sorts of mistakes. We now call them barbarians.

Originally posted by: krystal_watz

Poiu123: Laws are not always correct. Indian law allows marital rape, is it correct? Many countries consider homosexuality criminal, are they correct? We cannot blindly follow laws. It is simply not possible to have so much patience when your child is exceptionally naughty or problematic. You cannot always be "Awww baby, you're so small, let me make you understand with chocolates every time you do a mischief". Sometimes slaps are needed to bring them in line. We have brains for a reason, we cannot follow any law blindly.😆

Rosh4rose: Did you see the way Mishti behaved today? If I or anybody talked to our parents in that tone, then we'll definitely get 3-4 slaps. You know that. Let's not be unrealistic.

That's your opinion. Not a fact. I have seen parents discipline their naughty child without raising their hand. So let's just disagree on this,

Originally posted by: poiu123

That's your opinion. Not a fact. I have seen parents discipline their naughty child without raising their hand. So let's just disagree on this,

Originally posted by: poiu123

That's your opinion. Not a fact. I have seen parents discipline their naughty child without raising their hand. So let's just disagree on this,