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Posted: 6 years ago

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Children go through depression, disturbed childhood and they grow into criminals. Mishti needs a parental guidance. But unfortunately her bio logical parents are busy sorting their own life. Bio Father is on mission to make good life for ex wife. Bio Mother is re discovering her hidden love for ex husband and how to accept a love less marriage. Her god father is lost in his own romantic escapade. So her issue is not taken as a priority.

Mishti is a phsycological patient and she needs a counsellor. The kid needs help but there is no one to help her. If grown up are busy with their own life kids suffer. Simple parents running after career, money with little time for kids make them go to drugs, drop outs and spoil their life.

Per ITV drama Kunal will be the counsellor to prove he is the best dad. Mauli already high on praises and when she gets to know of Kunal's sacrifice she will be just WOH JANA.

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I'm sorry, but I personally think that the elders (including Mauli) have been too soft with her.

In today's world, we have become so overly dependent on psychiatric help and stuff, and this is causing us to forget the traditional parenting ways. If I or my friends did anything remotely close to this, I'd get the thrashing of my life that I'd never forget. More than counselling, what Mishti did needs a few tight smacks across her face and back.

Achhe se maar parni chahiye. Maar maar ke chamdi utar deni chahiye for this heinous act of hers. Let her whole body ache with pain along with some severe ignoring from the elders, she'll be back on track.

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Originally posted by: krystal_watz
I'm sorry, but I personally think that the elders (including Mauli) have been too soft with her.
In today's world, we have become so overly dependent on psychiatric help and stuff, and this is causing us to forget the traditional parenting ways. If I or my friends did anything remotely close to this, I'd get the thrashing of my life that I'd never forget. More than counselling, what Mishti did needs a few tight smacks across her face and back.

Achhe se maar parni chahiye. Maar maar ke chamdi utar deni chahiye for this heinous act of hers. Let her whole body ache with pain along with some severe ignoring from the elders, she'll be back on track.

Raising hands on children is a reportable crime. You cannot beat kids in school. Teachers will loose their job. In India also kids can lodge police complaint against parents. Beating makes kids more adamant - social rules are changing. Even violent adults needs counselling.

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Originally posted by: IDO20

Raising hands on children is a reportable crime. You cannot beat kids in school. Teachers will loose their job. In India also kids can lodge police complaint against parents. Beating makes kids more adamant - social rules are changing. Even violent adults needs counselling.

Then 99% of parents will go to jail. Parents have every right to beat their children as long as it does not fall under the category of abuse.

We all got beaten by our parents when we did mistakes as kids. And I thank my parents for bringing me up the right way. So did all my friends and acquaintances. It normal to joke about one's childhood where parents used to beat the crap out for doing mischief. Parents cannot be mellow and understanding all the time, they're humans too.

Not every new thought is valid; nor is every old thought to be discarded.

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There are very few human beings on the planet who can say that their parents never raised hands on them EVEN ONCE in their lives. And it is usually for good reason.

You have to raise your hand when your child is going out of control; you cannot run to the counselor every other day of your life and for every petty reason.

Our parents, with all their flaws, want the best for us. Let's not make them criminals for doing so.

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Mages

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Posted: 6 years ago

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I have got beaten too for doing nasty thing on my cousin...it was real nasty...mom beat me...i thank her for that i grew up being a responsible person

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Kavyaaa

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Posted: 6 years ago

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Originally posted by: krystal_watz
I'm sorry, but I personally think that the elders (including Mauli) have been too soft with her.
In today's world, we have become so overly dependent on psychiatric help and stuff, and this is causing us to forget the traditional parenting ways. If I or my friends did anything remotely close to this, I'd get the thrashing of my life that I'd never forget. More than counselling, what Mishti did needs a few tight smacks across her face and back.

Achhe se maar parni chahiye. Maar maar ke chamdi utar deni chahiye for this heinous act of hers. Let her whole body ache with pain along with some severe ignoring from the elders, she'll be back on track.

Please never do that thing to any kid or suggest this to any parents...I know earlier this was the method but not now, this world is far more different than those times..she is just five year old kid...Now world is more liberal, have more psychological issues and people are concerned about them..

I know as kids we all have tasted one or more slaps but now children are more sensitive...earlier families were big, siblings were more in number and parents were not that attentive to their kids because household chores and financial work was not easy before...

But now we live in a different world, problems can't be solved by beating your kid, your neighbours can report you, children can leave home and can be traumatised forever.

what she done was wrong like hell and she should be punished but not like you mentioned...I may be wrong but i don't support raising hand on children.

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chicksoup

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Posted: 6 years ago

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Very real question!

I feel only Kunal can help her.

I actually thought she might run away when Pari got hurt, scared her mother would scold her and Kunal would find her, reassure her and build up her trust. Guess it is too soon.

What they are doing with her is pathetic, actually . I hope they don't up the tactics. Mishti staying stuck to hatred is okay, but making her evil is nasty.

In a way, Kunal deserves to know all this and Mauli should be spared. He owes the child a big apology too. He actually said if he had known about Mishti , he would have given up Nandini. It is his fault he didn't know about his own child. I hope he regrets it again and again, before he finally impresses Mishti and she feels loved.

Every time Mishti does something wrong, I blame Kunal more than even Mishti herself. He should know how traumatised his child is and how she needs to be healed! How can he not know!!!

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prettywomaniya

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Posted: 6 years ago

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Originally posted by: krystal_watz

Achhe se maar parni chahiye. Maar maar ke chamdi utar deni chahiye for this heinous act of hers. Let her whole body ache with pain along with some severe ignoring from the elders, she'll be back on track.

what did i just read.. 😕😕

do u realise what u have written??

and @mages girl i didnt expect u to agree to such statements..

this comment has shocked me to the core..

raising hand on kids is no big deal.. we all must have gotten some slaps. but what u have written is extreme..

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Kavyaaa

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Posted: 6 years ago

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Originally posted by: krystal_watz

Then 99% of parents will go to jail. Parents have every right to beat their children as long as it does not fall under the category of abuse.

We all got beaten by our parents when we did mistakes as kids. And I thank my parents for bringing me up the right way. So did all my friends and acquaintances. It normal to joke about one's childhood where parents used to beat the crap out for doing mischief. Parents cannot be mellow and understanding all the time, they're humans too.

Not every new thought is valid; nor is every old thought to be discarded.

We are not discarding the old thought its just that it doesn't fit in today's scenerio.

According to traditional views divorce shouldn't happened and mauli and kunal should live together forever at any circumstances...our parents fight a lot but they don't leave each other..we are sure that we will see both of them together under one roof and that gives us kind of security.

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