How Can Mishti Be Helped - Page 3

Originally posted by: Kavyaaa

Please never do that thing to any kid or suggest this to any parents...I know earlier this was the method but not now, this world is far more different than those times..she is just five year old kid...Now world is more liberal, have more psychological issues and people are concerned about them..

I know as kids we all have tasted one or more slaps but now children are more sensitive...earlier families were big, siblings were more in number and parents were not that attentive to their kids because household chores and financial work was not easy before...

But now we live in a different world, problems can't be solved by beating your kid, your neighbours can report you, children can leave home and can be traumatised forever.

what she done was wrong like hell and she should be punished but not like you mentioned...I may be wrong but i don't support raising hand on children.

Originally posted by: prettywomaniya

what did i just read.. 😕😕

do u realise what u have written??

and @mages girl i didnt expect u to agree to such statements..

this comment has shocked me to the core..

raising hand on kids is no big deal.. we all must have gotten some slaps. but what u have written is extreme..

Originally posted by: Mages

I don't support this...but i have got beaten up in my childhood..how can u say i support this..never.

i am sorry i saw ur "like " to the comment..

so i said that..

..i won't hit my kid but yes mom did beat me for doing something nasty...she just slap me but than after a while she loved me...she had tears and advise me...what i did was nasty and it should not be repeated at all...i thank her for the advise...its my experience i shared...we all had got at least beaten up once in life by our parents but at the same the warmth of their hug and love made us forget the beat and after the experience we learn life lessons...

nowadays kids are rebel...we shoukd handle them carefully...beating them...hitting them..i never support it at all...parenting have different techniques what our parents used for us will not work on our kids...

yaar don't MU...

Originally posted by: prettywomaniya

i fully support giving tight slaps to kids when they dont listen.. thats a different thing i m an unmarried girl and havent ever hit a kid .

but that doesnt mean i am questioning people how can they slap kids. no!!

but saying "maar maar k chamadi udhed deni chahei " and ... read that line again.

its not a personal view..

its actually a crime..

Originally posted by: krystal_watz

You are suggesting an ideal world with ideal human beings. Sorry, but it does not work that way. Psychological issues were always there; its just the we're aware of them today.

And let me tell you, children are never traumatised by beatings when they know it's for a good reason. Children are not robots; they have enough instinct and intellect to tell the right from the wrong in basic matters.

Also, it is not possible to raise a child without ever raising hand even ONCE. I haven't met not heard of anybody (this includes young parents of today with little kids) who never hit their children even once. Kids routinely get beaten up even today; and they don't get traumatised because of it.

And please remember what Mishti has done is NOT normal child misbehaviour.

Originally posted by: krystal_watz

Prettywomaniya:

I know what I've written. And I stand by it. Any child who attempts anything like Mishti did today, will get a sound thrashing from their parents.

I know that for a fact.

Originally posted by: prettywomaniya

what mishti did is wrong.. she should be punished or counselled..

no! i guess u dont realise u are supporting a CRIME..