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Posted: 6 years ago
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There are no female teacher's in boy's school, that's why. 😆😆

But you were saying that women dress in short clothes only to attract men. Then why do they wear backless blouse in girls' school where there are no men?
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Posted: 6 years ago
#12

Originally posted by: krystal_watz

There are no female teacher's in boy's school, that's why. 😆😆


But you were saying that women dress in short clothes only to attract men. Then why do they wear backless blouse in girls' school where there are no men?


I havent said women wear dresses to attract men.You must have hallucinated that.
And there are 80% female teachers in boys school.
You just couldnt asnwer this...why they dont wear backless blouses in boys school/co aid schools or co aid colleges.


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Posted: 6 years ago
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In boys' school 80% teachers are females? Which school is that, pray tell?
https://www.india-forums.com/forum_posts.asp?TID=5035419&PID=148682761&#p148682761

Please read your last post in this thread, see for yourself what you said.

Who said that women teachers don't dress with sleeveless or backless in co-ed school. I myself studied in a co-ed school where teachers could wear anything (limited to saree and salwar). Many of my younger teachers wore sleeveless and backless.
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Sorry to butt in .

Clothes are not the reason any girl gets raped. But it does attract undue attention from men ...that has something to do with biology .. ...Girls may or may not be comfortable with it . If they can deal with it , they must . For example when i had male servants around , i wasnt comfortable wearing shorts , but now i do since i have a maid. Similarly , i get scared when my teenaged daughter steps out wearing shorts ..sometimes. i never make her conscious but i make sure i pick and.drop her for her safety . Its not the clothes but many factors leading to rape . Eg vulnerability , or just an unfortunate presence at some place . Like girls travelling alone , back from work during night time , predators are on a lookout..school girls i have seen walk back to their homes alone in small towns and villages . At home by some relative ..at workplace . The clothes debate has been started by some foolish statements by the uneducated politicians. Lets not pay heed to them and generalize that the entire nation thinks that way .


A woman may.choose to dress up to attract their men . Or they may not ..its their choice ..many women do it . We cant judge them . I dont know about you but dont you dress up to the occassion ? Like the clothes you wear for college are the same as weddings? Clothes for shopping and market are the same as night outs ?like mauli doesnt feel like dressing up ..for whom she says ? Quite understandable . Wives love to do it for their husbands. For the sake of fighting and arguing , we can debate on whether nandini dresses up for herself or kunal.
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Charu: She dressed that way much before she felt anything for Kunal, right?
Of course, women dress for their husband/boyfriends all the time. But my point was that dressing in skimpy clothing doesn't imply that a woman enjoys unwanted attention.
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: krystal_watz

In boys' school 80% teachers are females? Which school is that, pray tell?

https://www.india-forums.com/forum_posts.asp?TID=5035419&PID=148682761&#p148682761

Please read your last post in this thread, see for yourself what you said.

Who said that women teachers don't dress with sleeveless or backless in co-ed school. I myself studied in a co-ed school where teachers could wear anything (limited to saree and salwar). Many of my younger teachers wore sleeveless and backless.

You must have studied in different time...some years ago.
I m a teacher.So i now that.Yes 80 % teachers are females even in boy's school.Every school has banned backless blouses...its banned even in girl's school.I live in a very developed city not a village.
Simple reason is no student should feel you are fashion parading in school.This was not the case some 10 years ago.
Teachers used to wear jeans,short skirts and all types of dresses some years ago.Students never eyed teachers.Everything has changed now.
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: krystal_watz

Charu: She dressed that way much before she felt anything for Kunal, right?

Of course, women dress for their husband/boyfriends all the time. But my point was that dressing in skimpy clothing doesn't imply that a woman enjoys unwanted attention.


Women dont enjoy unwanted attention.Its cringeworthy.
Not all can deal will it. Even elderly men of families feel uncomfortable sitting with people whose body is exposed...the list is never ending.
I have seen boy students getting all distracted with girls wearing boxers and cold shoulder dresses.




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Posted: 6 years ago
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No wonder this show getting sooo much hate!
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: chirpyhapibird


Women dont enjoy unwanted attention.Its cringeworthy.
Not all can deal will it. Even elderly men of families feel uncomfortable sitting with people whose body is exposed...the list is never ending.
I have seen boy students getting all distracted with girls wearing boxers and cold shoulder dresses.





You obviously don't know all schools. Many schools allow wearing of stylish clothes.

But that's not the point. Men should learn to control themselves. I lived in a co-ed Paying guest where everyone was close friends, and all the girls used to wear shorts and tank tops in the common room. Everyone chatted till night, even drank together. Nobody molested or touched any girl without consent.

So, kindly stop blaming women for incidents of molestation and rape.
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: chirpyhapibird

You must have studied in different time...some years ago.
I m a teacher.So i now that.Yes 80 % teachers are females even in boy's school.Every school has banned backless blouses...its banned even in girl's school.I live in a very developed city not a village.
Simple reason is no student should feel you are fashion parading in school.This was not the case some 10 years ago.
Teachers used to wear jeans,short skirts and all types of dresses some years ago.Students never eyed teachers.Everything has changed now.


LOL this is biology. Nothing has changed. Male hormone are the same.

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