How is this not glorification of ema? - Page 5

Originally posted by: Silpa91

@kiransgirl-your topic was about glorification of EMA but kya chal raha hai yaha pe.

When the debate is lost ,slander becomes the tool of the loser.

Originally posted by: chirpyhapibird

When the debate is lost ,slander becomes the tool of the loser.

Originally posted by: kiransgirl

Hi shilpa. Help me. Translate your last sentence. My hindi is rusty..lol. Plus i respond from my phone so i keep getting kicked off

I said what's going on here.your topic was glorification of ema

Originally posted by: Silpa91

I said what's going on here.your topic was glorification of ema

Originally posted by: kiransgirl

The writers have been rightfully criticized for injecting God into this disgusting affair, sanctioning kundani lust as divine love. But we know there have been denials from said writers that they are not glorifying the sin of adultery. Yet their words ring hollow. I present the current track of the other woman, thirsty side chick, sacrificing their eternal, divine love so the cheater husband can settle for a loveless marriage with wife and child as an example. What exactly is the message here? The affair is exciting. He will always dream of it. The mistress is pure, 🤢a saint sacrificing her true love. They have only amplified the affair, presenting it as pure love. The marriage in contrast is seen as a noose around these lovers necks. The wife is the harpie who can only keep the man by burdening him with their child. I will be surprised if kunalji doesn't say to nandani

: woe but it was a baby with you I wanted not mauli😕 Just tell me how this doesn't elevate this sick, immoral affair as pure and divine?

I would also like to know why the wife has to be painted as so clingy and resistant to her own future happiness by taking back such a man whom she knows does not love her. I would think all those supporters whining about the regressive nature of the storyline in regards to nandani would also now cry out just as vociferously about the regressive nature in which the wife is presented.

If any character has a chance to be shown as independent and strong, it's mauli. She is financially independent, has familial support, is beautiful and strong. If the writers really wanted to be original, bold and progressive, presenting this character as strong would have been the perfect opportunity. Mauli moving on with her life, getting counseling and finding and thriving in a new life WOULD have been truly bold.

But this shit, it's typical drivel..

Take heart though, supporters of righteousness, today's mistress is tomorrows wife, looking behind her bare exposed back at the New side chick👏

This show is still in one-month period until the divorce is formally done.

Chirpihapibird:

A sad fact of EMA is that the betrayed wife suffers tremendous self esteem loss . Her husband wants another woman. Often these women don't see their cheating husbands for what they are ...immoral selfish people who have no regard for the feelings of others apart from their own desires. Rather these women feel that they are lacking in something. They don't see their worth ..that they are educated beautiful , wonderful women who have so much to offer..rather they want to hold onto those cheating husbands . Often these wives only finally leave their cheating husbands forever when the husbands have had multiple affairs and they realise that these men are not going to change, . But I think the makers should show Mauli to be different ..they should show her to be strung, leave Kunal and start a new life without him. Even if she has a baby..they should show that she can move on..because that's the message that needs to come across for women..that eve; if their marriages fail because theur husbands had affairs, they can still rebuild their lives and move on.

Originally posted by: Indira1211

A sad fact of EMA is that the betrayed wife suffers tremendous self esteem loss . Her husband wants another woman. Often these women don't see their cheating husbands for what they are ...immoral selfish people who have no regard for the feelings of others apart from their own desires. Rather these women feel that they are lacking in something. They don't see their worth ..that they are educated beautiful , wonderful women who have so much to offer..rather they want to hold onto those cheating husbands . Often these wives only finally leave their cheating husbands forever when the husbands have had multiple affairs and they realise that these men are not going to change, . But I think the makers should show Mauli to be different ..they should show her to be strung, leave Kunal and start a new life without him. Even if she has a baby..they should show that she can move on..because that's the message that needs to come across for women..that eve; if their marriages fail because theur husbands had affairs, they can still rebuild their lives and move on.