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Angels11

@Angels11

Rocker

+ 5

Posted: 6 years ago

#11

Originally posted by: _charu_
Dunno any of this but if you are not here , i wil also quit 😭 plz dont give into this bullying and continue as our voice of reason .

I am not quitting. I am being forced to QUIT. Every single post of mine is being reported. Below r some of the posts tat ve been reported

KASH SPARK SE USKI DIMAAG KI BATHI JALEN

YAWN...

Can u believe this? Above r the posts for which I ve got WLs. I ve a 40% WL already. By tomorrow they ll cook up some excuse & permanently ban me.

I am being forced to quit. That's y I am raising my voice bef I am banned. I want every1 2 learn frm my experience. I dont want these bullies to win. Even if I am banned I want the rest of the members to continue to make posts. Continue to criticize the show & their holy character. I want even the silent members to start posting. By speaking up u r sending a message to these bullies. BULLYING IS WRONG AND THIS FORUM & IF IS NOT THEIR PERSONAL PROPERTY!

Every1 here should be allowed to speak & speak freely!

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Rinnks

@Rinnks

Voyager

Posted: 6 years ago

#12

Nandini is a pathetic character n DD acting sucks.. and that's the fact.

Let them be biased, we are with u Angels.. Your posts were always to the point n funny as well.. loved those KOSTINS..

Yes, There is big time partiality! U can't utter a word against Nandini it seems..
so basically jus puja karo actress ki toh everyone wud be happy..

I m gonna speak out till they ban me.. I don't like that character n not liking acting either.. and if someone guides me how to contact of Vijay, I will contact him..

They can't bully us into not voicing our opinion. Such a biased forum omg.. unbelievable...

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Vani. J

@vani.jug

Explorer

Posted: 6 years ago

#13

As a neutral viewer I think the issue here is that this forum has actually become a battle zone. The mods are trying to clean it up. I think there are modifications of the rules for each forum. So the rules for ipkknd or any other show might be slightly different than the rules for this show...due to circumstances. As you mentioned, freedom of expression exists in India, as well Canada (where I live), however; there exists limitations and conditions to that freedom too. For an example, defamation or incitement do not constitute as part of this freedom. In this forum there has been a lot of DD bashing, which is not allowed. I think constructive criticism is allowed though, and that makes more sense tbh. I agree that a lot of DD/ Nandini fans may have crossed the line but you gotta agree that a lot of Aditi/Mauli fans have also crossed the line. As you said, this is just a fictional show!!!! It's so tiring to see all this unnecessary baat ka batangar everyday no? Why is there so much fighting over a show?? Some people like Kunan and some don't but both should be allowed to safely express their opinion here. I agree that if people don't like something being presented in the show then they should express it (in a civil way), but it's so much toxicity every day. Maybe the frustration thread would be a better idea. Best of luck!!!

Edited by vani.jug - 6 years ago

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Angels11

@Angels11

Rocker

+ 5

Posted: 6 years ago

#14

Originally posted by: arshi_asya

While the article should have been on "Why DD should not be hated?", the article maker clearly blurred the line of real & reel & made the article on "Why Nandini should not be hated?"

Never in my years on forum, I have seen an article to defend a character like that even though there have been pretty horrible characters on TV till now. There have been characters that have been hated with passion & I don't think there have been any justifications or articles to defend them. (Amrapali was so hated for playing Tanveer in the QH forum & the women bared it all & no one came to defend her & then there are so many examples of it)

Even Kunal deserves one such post since Shakti too has to endure a lot of criticism on his accounts about his character as well. Why shouldn't he be provided the same thing? (In no way, I am die-hard fan of any actor, but equality must exist for everyone).

This is my question to the admins & mods. Why is this show so special & this character Nandini so special. Its just a fictional show & a fictional character. Why r ppl being handed WLs like candies. Why are words like RUDALI & MASTERCHEF banned. How the hell r these 2 words derogatory? That too MASTERCHEF! And since when is sarcasm a sin. This is social media. Ppl ll troll. Ppl will be sarcastic. Deal with it. If u dont ve the stomach for it then u s'd not b on social media. I ve written articles for Femina. I ve written articles for Frustrated Indian. Ppl ll bash u & ur views left, right, center. They ll target u if they find out tat u r a woman. We ve 2 deal with it like a mature adult!

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Abhiya

@abhiya_12

Achiever

+ 7

Posted: 6 years ago

#15

I know it's going to be hard for us, seriously mods aren't being subtle in their biased nature. Come on this is platform to discuss not to worship but looks like that's not the case in this forum.

I will really really miss you and your posts, I don't want to ask you to be here because I know what you must be feeling, but I will be happy if you stay back I really enjoyed your threads and discussions on it.

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Rithu0203

@Rithu0203

Voyager

Posted: 6 years ago

#16

I agree with TM. Was following her posts in this forum, as she mentioned after receiving the first WL, she sticks to the rules and refrained the banned words from her posts.

Before you, earlier also there was on more member, who was repeatedly targetted like you, just that she had a different opinion about the character Nandini in this forum, I forgot her username.

So now if we should not use the words shiver and vibrate, means that what should we use to mean that?? If the words other woman or mistress should not be used for character Nandini, then what should be used? It's not an exaggeration, it meant what is shown in the show right?

Want to escalate this issue of biasedness and unfairness, how to do that?

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nissi or jesi

@Jess_Ru

Sparkler

+ 2

Posted: 6 years ago

#17

Hey glad ur back ?

D double standards here are exactly like d characters of dis show ...haila are they really getting influenced by d oh so God blessed couple

Just now was discussing with some friends nd in our college we were targeted ridiculed mocked for talking against their fav actor or not seeing d said fav actor movie ...freedom of speech ya it's there but me thinks not so much

You've seen nd been part of many shows and ur feeling dis new but some of us have seen such biased treatment especially from d people who moderate our posts ...although not to dis extent ...like If moral policing people to not hate nandini d hell was all dat about

Show he aisa dhikaray dat any sane person would critize ab Kya gud mrng gud night bolthe rahe everyday or gush about d same emos nd ya people who act personally are making a criminal offense as it comes under cyber crime ...d internet which hides them only will expose them when they are reported

Hatersji as you've read my comment pls listen to wat I gotta say ...I really didn't wanna hurt you'll but aisa hogaya consider my Niagara tears

On a lighter note I love love love ur kostins posts

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Angels11

@Angels11

Rocker

+ 5

Posted: 6 years ago

#18

Originally posted by: Ruhi122
Nandini is a pathetic character n DD acting sucks.. and that's the fact.

Let them be biased, we are with u Angels.. Your posts were always to the point n funny as well.. loved those KOSTINS..

Yes, There is big time partiality! U can't utter a word against Nandini it seems..
so basically jus puja karo actress ki toh everyone wud be happy..

I m gonna speak out till they ban me.. I don't like that character n not liking acting either.. and if someone guides me how to contact of Vijay, I will contact him..

They can't bully us into not voicing our opinion. Such a biased forum omg.. unbelievable...

I ve sent an official complaint to VIJAY. VIJAY is his user id. I suggest everyone who feels strongly about the bullying & bias in this forum to send a PM to him. At least he should be made aware of wats happening in this forum!

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Angels11

@Angels11

Rocker

+ 5

Posted: 6 years ago

#19

Originally posted by: vani.jug
As a neutral viewer I think the issue here is that this forum has actually become a battle zone. The mods are trying to clean it up. I think there are modifications of the rules for each forum. So the rules for ipkknd or any other show might be slightly different than the rules for this show...due to circumstances. As you mentioned, freedom of expression exists in India, as well Canada (where I live), however; there exists limitations and conditions to that freedom too. For an example, defamation or incitement do not constitute as part of this freedom. In this forum there has been a lot of DD bashing, which is not allowed. I think constructive criticism is allowed though, and that makes more sense tbh. I agree that a lot of DD/ Nandini fans may have crossed the line but you gotta agree that a lot of Aditi/Mauli fans have also crossed the line. As you said, this is just a fictional show!!!! It's so tiring to see all this unnecessary baat ka batangar everyday no? Why is there so much fighting over a show?? Some people like Kunan and some don't but both should be allowed to safely express their opinion here. I agree that if people don't like something being presented in the show then they should express it (in a civil way), but it's so much toxicity every day. Maybe the frustration thread would be a better idea. Best of luck!!!

1st I ve never bashed DD. Even the MODs ve clearly mentioned tat I am being banned for mocking the fictional character Nandini & because I replied to DD fans who abused me. Even my response 2 them was not abusive. But still they reported enmass & the MOD banned me. So basically they ll abuse, i reply but not abuse but still I get banned. Hope u agree tat this is ridiculous!

And I dont agree bt the new rules. I ve given eg of DSDT which is a v new show! In fact the same members r now coming here & crying foul which is sheer hypocrisy. Bollywood forum is another eg!

Right here most of the posts & AT by DD fans mock the members & Mauli/Aditi supporters. If the show is obnoxious ppl ll call it out. If the CVs r presenting a masterpiece no1 is going to keep ranting & whining.

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Trija

@Trijha

Navigator

Posted: 6 years ago

#20

Originally posted by: chirpyhapibird
Most of my IF friends got banned as they bashed DD.
Nobody wants to return,bcoz there is no freedom here.
The forum sucks.
Even calling DD a glycerine was not allowed.
I had got my first WL in MB forum for calling madhu fans as crying buckets.
The rules have tightened around this forum bcoz DD is playing a bitch mistress here.
Remember how IF gave an article on why nandini should not be hated.

That was one BS article. I laughed hard reading it 😆

What a lame excuses!

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