Cyber bullying & some hard hitting questions - Page 4

Originally posted by: Jess_Ru

Wat about them calling mooli, mata mouli ...woh bolray why so much hatred for reel character tho y so much hatred for real people

After MB DD has stopped working with famous male leads.

Originally posted by: shamil

wow really?/ so do they also get warning letters? Nahin? acha teek hain

I am seriously sorry to hear this. Silsila forum has really been an eye-opener in so many ways. Previously, the forum used to be a place where people could have constructive criticisms and debates without it turning into a battle ground but here its completely different.

Seriously the MODS r biased . Its like we r forced to talk only the good stuff evn if it is not . The show is downhill hw cn we jus appreciate wen its nt evn watchble. Mayb tis forum shd be more like nandani prasing rathr than sbrk. I hve been to bb forums n trust me thr is so much negativity . Members bashing each other n making personl comments bt i hvnt seen such moral policing as much its here. Its an irony wen i think abt tis . A show based on ema n so much for double stndrds of mods.

I think you have to look at the proportions of how many people are opening topics merely to bash and mock characters instead of criticizing them in a respectful manner. If you were to count the posts or even comments, Nandani hate is exponentially larger than Mauli hate in this forum. And since Nandani's characterization keeps getting worse, people get more angry hence posts regarding just her surface behaviors and actions. I am at the point where I have stopped watching the show but come here to check what people are saying. However, I don't make too many comments anymore because if I don't like something, I can just ignore it and walk away. I feel like sometimes the audience in this forum can be quick to react. And being reactive about a character you dislike, you're not going to be mindful about whether it follows forum/IF rules or not. Yes these are fictional characters, but who they are, the experiences they've gone through, and what they do have real implications. And additionally, there are potentially going to be readers that get influenced by the things discussed here. I don't know if you remember, but someone had made a post about how a friend of their cheated on someone and they had referenced Nandani being an influence of it. So when you have those kinds of post regarding one aspect of her character, you would also think people relate to other aspects of her character, (not that the cheating occurred because of KuNan but the point is they are thinking it did) like her mental illness. I just wanted people to be more aware of how they speak about the symptoms of Nandani's anxiety (crying, shivering, absentmindedness) because if someone on the forum presented those symptoms, and saw that others were making fun of it, that would be hurtful.

Originally posted by: music_l0ver036

I think you have to look at the proportions of how many people are opening topics merely to bash and mock characters instead of criticizing them in a respectful manner. If you were to count the posts or even comments, Nandani hate is exponentially larger than Mauli hate in this forum. And since Nandani's characterization keeps getting worse, people get more angry hence posts regarding just her surface behaviors and actions. I am at the point where I have stopped watching the show but come here to check what people are saying. However, I don't make too many comments anymore because if I don't like something, I can just ignore it and walk away. I feel like sometimes the audience in this forum can be quick to react. And being reactive about a character you dislike, you're not going to be mindful about whether it follows forum/IF rules or not. Yes these are fictional characters, but who they are, the experiences they've gone through, and what they do have real implications. And additionally, there are potentially going to be readers that get influenced by the things discussed here. I don't know if you remember, but someone had made a post about how a friend of their cheated on someone and they had referenced Nandani being an influence of it. So when you have those kinds of post regarding one aspect of her character, you would also think people relate to other aspects of her character, (not that the cheating occurred because of KuNan but the point is they are thinking it did) like her mental illness. I just wanted people to be more aware of how they speak about the symptoms of Nandani's anxiety (crying, shivering, absentmindedness) because if someone on the forum presented those symptoms, and saw that others were making fun of it, that would be hurtful.

well i made a post on it abt the refernce thing n it was true bt evn in tat post i wasnt using degratory remarks abt the charcter . The post was hw ppl smetmes get encouraged by it n tat cvs shd be more careful abt wat they r presnting . I jus dnt c hw tat is related to tis post

Angels and to all those who are angry, yes the previous posts were closed, but that's because topics questioning moderation are not allowed in public as we cannot discuss every aspect or answer every point you raise. Additionally sharing private messages in public is also not allowed.