Nandhini is not rape victim - Page 3

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Posted: 6 years ago
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WRONG!!!!!! Not because he is your husband it's not considered rape!!!! NO means NO in ANY situation!!!! Nandini was abused in every way: physically, mentally, and verbally!!!!!!! No one should ever be treated like that!!! I know this is impossible, but in my world NO means NO!
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Agree with TM. It looked like she still consented to sleep with Rajdeep those days she was still married to him. Wasn't she happy when she got pregnant? It's not like she didn't want a life with Rajdeep. Also Rajdeep was wrong to attempt to rape her after their separation. He was also wrong before but Nandini didn't oppose much which gave him the thinking that she will be okay with it. Also a real rape victim do not move on so quickly and sleep with other men readily and trust others. If Nandini is able to do that, only shows that she was not so affected by the so called torture she went through. The way episodes seemed to have shaped, it's like she couldn't wait to have sex with Kunal and move on. Cos from what I heard she was the one who initiated the sex. It's not my fault that I cannot accept Nandini's so-called justification, either the Writers have made Nandini that way purposely or Drashti is unable to sell her role.
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Nandani is a rape victim because she was raped. That is it.
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Hi. Sorry. What kind of topic is this? Marital rape is still being debated in some countries because we live in ugly, sexist, patriarchal societies filled with ignorant people. It's worse when the society is filled with uneducated people like ours. There is no grey area in rape. It is black and white. If a woman doesn't want to have sex with you, then don't put your pen*s in her body. You have no right to violate her body without her consent.
RAPE IS RAPE

RAPE IS RAPE

RAPE IS RAPE.

Saying marital rape is not same as gang rape is so damn idiotic. Obviously getting raped by one person is most likely a lot less physically brutal than getting raped by 10 men. You especially compared it to a scenario where a woman's body was literally mutilated. Getting shot in the head with a single bullet must be a less painful way to die than getting hacked by a knife 50 times but doesn't mean at the end of the day it wasn't murder.

Nandini has been abused. Nandini is a victim. But her being a victim does not justify her actions. You can criticize her or hate her without taking away her right as a victim of sexual and domestic abuse.
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Posted: 6 years ago
#25

Originally posted by: evenjleena28

This is one of the most ignorant and silliest post I have come across- aren't you lucky that a social media platform allows your misguided thoughts to be opined?

Any kind of sexual relations where one party is not consenting is RAPE!!!!!! PERIOD!!!!!! Indian laws are archiac and regressive that's why they do not recognise martial rape as a criminal offence. The other countries you speak of will cut a person's hand for stealing so that's not much to hold in terms of examples.

Developed first world countries define this perfectly- even sex workers mid sex can say no and that's it. Anything beyond that is rape. Some people enjoy being dominated and role play, which is fine. Two consenting adults can do what they want but when stops that consent then it's rape.

Rape can take away a person's confidence, being raped by s stranger is horrifying but imagine your own husband raping you? You have to live with your rapist - that's worse than anything.


This person Varuni had previously argued that rape and cheating are the same as they have similar effects on victims. To quote him/her, "Rape victims develop trust issues, so do victims of EMA".
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: krystal_watz



This person Varuni had previously argued that rape and cheating are the same as they have similar effects on victims. To quote him/her, "Rape victims develop trust issues, so do victims of EMA".



I noticed that this TM has a strange persona and makes random nonsensical posts but to even think that a rape victim is not a rape victim because they were married or are cheating is beyond stupid.

No matter what and I am not justifying Nandini or her actions but a rape is rape. It is rape the minute one party stops the consent!!!! Sometimes certain posts here baffles me - perhaps I am used to a decent argument but this is ridiculous even for the ignorants, don't you think?
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Posted: 6 years ago
#27

Originally posted by: evenjleena28



I noticed that this TM has a strange persona and makes random nonsensical posts but to even think that a rape victim is not a rape victim because they were married or are cheating is beyond stupid.

No matter what and I am not justifying Nandini or her actions but a rape is rape. It is rape the minute one party stops the consent!!!! Sometimes certain posts here baffles me - perhaps I am used to a decent argument but this is ridiculous even for the ignorants, don't you think?


Yeah. I mean, there's only a certain limit to which you can adjust your thinking.

Thanks to Nandini's despicable actions, now we have W*F posts which claim bizarre things like "Nandini is worse than Rajdeep because he only raped her body whereas she raped Mauli's life". True story.
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Posted: 6 years ago
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I said marital rape us not a rape bcos Indian laws won't support it
I called nandhini not a rape victim bcos no rape victim wants sex with in weeks with bff husband
It's my opinion trauma in marital rape entirely different from random guy raping you

Yes for me nandhini us not a rape victim bcos she dies not behave like a rape victim and rape equals cheating except in special cases like gangraped child rapes and brutal rapes
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Posted: 6 years ago
#29

Originally posted by: VARUNI2014

I said marital rape us not a rape bcos Indian laws won't support it

I called nandhini not a rape victim bcos no rape victim wants sex with in weeks with bff husband
It's my opinion trauma in marital rape entirely different from random guy raping you

Yes for me nandhini us not a rape victim bcos she dies not behave like a rape victim and rape equals cheating except in special cases like gangraped child rapes and brutal rapes




I generally don't engage with nonsensical comments- but you literally take the cake.

For your sake I hope and pray that you don't get to experience marital rape. You can think what you want you are entitled to your opinions but don't ask others to listen to agree with your ignorant ideas. Jesus!!!!! You are truly clueless!!!!!

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Posted: 6 years ago
#30

Originally posted by: VARUNI2014

I said marital rape us not a rape bcos Indian laws won't support it

I called nandhini not a rape victim bcos no rape victim wants sex with in weeks with bff husband
It's my opinion trauma in marital rape entirely different from random guy raping you

Yes for me nandhini us not a rape victim bcos she dies not behave like a rape victim and rape equals cheating except in special cases like gangraped child rapes and brutal rapes


I had told you previously not to comment on a subject you have ZERO knowledge about. Please follow my advice and stop embarrassing yourself.

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