Mauli has her own flaws too!!!! - Page 4

Originally posted by: arshi_asya

As stated earlier, Kunal's actions and current behavior has no excuse and he is most flawed out of the three as he is the driving wheel of this whole complicated situation. And the whole silsila began from him in the first place. If couples have disagreements, then talk out of it and that doesn't work then they take can separate but cheating emotionally is never a right thing to do. And this marriage is likely to fail because of Kunal majorly and not because of Mauli but I had to talk about how Mauli has flaws as well well knit into her character.

The marriage break apart slowly with everyone's flaws coming to fore and putting themselves in line to reach the deadend.

Originally posted by: *Reemz*

All those points you've written out are exactly why the writers have NOT made her perfect unlike you said. That is not their intention. She's not meant to be perfect, it's that she's genuinely a very NICE person. She's very very well intentioned and pure at heart.

She herself admitted that Kunal thinks she's too bossy. Her flaws are that she doesn't always include others in her decisions BUT if someone points it out she takes it in her stride. She doesn't have an ego about her flaws.

Her pure intentions and her unconditional love for the people she cares about add what resonates with the audience, not the fact that she is perfect' because I don't think that's ever been the intention from the writers.

Originally posted by: Rosh4rose

It is so funny
Every time people want to grade Mauli
She is getting always ...assessment
... Not perfect
... Is she right
... She is controlling
Why must she or Nandini must be judged ? Even the Jerk Kunal

Why can't them leave as they are !
For me Mauli is the Hero
Even if she turns negative
Even if she turns crazy
Even if she throws them out

At this point there nothing much to blame Nandini
But when she end up with Kunal, it is nothing less than stabbing Mauli , that to right in the heart
It will be through the heart of the friend
Who stood by her
Who fought for ger
Who disappointed own mom for her

Trust once broken can never be restored
Worst , when it come from best friend and husband

Mauli has flaws ..that is why helped a friend as she does !

True Mauli has flaws but it is from her heart which of gold
Other woman can't be compared to her

True that . Mauli with all her flaws is better than any morally degraded character . she should have minded her own business . But wait..then she may be called selfish ? Bottom line is, you are damned if you do and you are damned if you don't, if you are "mauli". I kinda understand nandinis emotions too, as she would crave naturally for something which was missing in her life, a supporting partner . But at what cost..I reserve my judgement for her ...it's maulis side of the story which I am interested in.just that...

Originally posted by: pamk06

You gave a very good analysis on Mauli and I agree with you on everything but there is one thing that I had a different view on and its Kunal.

See, before Nandini, Kunal had a perfect life, he was perfect husband, son and grandson.If he didnt agree with Mauli which were multiple times and mostly with their "Me" time, he conveyed it to her and he was happy.

But then life intervene and his feelings for Nandini came out of nowhere, and he did not know what to do with them. He could not talk to Mauli, because how can you talk to your other half about feelings for someone else when you yourself do not understand them. But he did.try, asking her to not leave, be always with him, find him when he was lost, trying to spend some "Me" time with Mauli. He also tried staying away from Nandini but alas his wife kept pushing him and he had to spend time with Nandini even after multiple refusals to Mauli insistence/requests. I mean if he would have flatly refused, everyone would start thinking in his house on whats going on.

Once he accepted his feelings, he could have discussed it with Mauli but again he does not know how she would react and at that point he did not even know if Nandini reciprocates them, if he wants to separate from Mauli, if he wants to hurt her or make it a visible crack in their marriage especially when he knows how important Nandini is to Mauli and how Mauli had yearned for her when they were separated.

Even now, he kinds of knows that Nandini reciprocates his feelings, he is still not sure because after every major moment between them, she is gone silient or in denial or away from him. He currently wants that verbal confirmation and even after that I think he will be at crossroads because on one side would be honesty with Mauli and on other side Nandini's insistence that Mauli should never know as separation from kunal would break her

In my opinion, there are some things that you just cannot talk to your other half with. You might be able to talk to a friend but even that is difficult after a certain point of life and especially in our society. If you decide to separate from your partner, its a different ball game altogether but when you know that something might break your relationship or would be irreparable, would you do it? I do not know, its a personal decision but it so easy to say that you should tell or discuss but so difficult to actually do. If you decide not to tell, you do stew in guilt and create your own personal hell just like Kunal but will you call that a flaw in your character? I cannot. If he was a person who would fall in love and out of love with other girls, then it would be flaw but right now, I think he is normal human being trying to deal with unusual circumstances and emotions with no preparation or guidance. A man who is confused, hurt and scared and who can see this perfect world crumbling all around him

Also, I have always maintain that you can never be perfect but the path you choose is what defines your character and till now he has been trying very hard to stay on the right side of the line. I do not know what the future holds but if these emotions keep growing , then I do think that only Mauli has the right and should be the one to decide if she wants to stay with Kunal or not.