Mauli has her own flaws too!!!! - Page 2

Originally posted by: mango_pudding1

(sorry, just cutting to keeping it short as I just wanted to respond to point#1)

there is this tamil movie called "santosh subramanium" (which is a remake of a telgu movie) and in it the conflict is about an over-possessive/controlling father who does everything. he on the other hand wants to start his own business without his father's help and marry someone of his own liking -- he basically wants to make decisions himself. when he finally confronts the father, he says "you ask me to join in playing carom game but before I can make the move, you hold my hand and do it yourself. then why should I play if you are going to be making all the moves yourself?"

now that was a parent-child conflict but that sentiment and frustration would still apply here as well. mauli thinks she is helping but she is actually stealing kunal's dream and destroying it. part of the joy in realizing a dream is the hard work that goes into it. if he had asked for her help and asked her to take care of the logistics, it is different. but he didn't. so by doing it herself, she is also indirectly showing that kunal is incompetent when it comes to these matters and that is a real punch that will tear their relationship. if kunal is the type of man who likes being gifted and getting things easy, then he would appreciate it. but he seems the opposite and so he is bound to take offense. she in a way not only butchering his dream but butchering his self-respect.

Is Mauli pregnant already?
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Ha haha

He is pushing her away right !
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Agreed ...Mauli is most flawed

Really
She is destrying Kunals life by giving him the "clinic"
But hasn't given yet ... Like EMA starts when they end up on bed physically
According to my religion if men or women look at another person with lust ...other than married patner it is a "sin"
if the person has commitment it shouldn't happen
I am a married person .when want to grade characters and justfy ... Other woman is always other woman I am a christian
Even though not religious person , i think that is true

Mauli is at fault because she brougt a friend to her married life our of blind trust
Mauli is at fault because she can't cook and pamper her husband
Mauli is at fault because she is a working woman not a cry baby
Mali is at fault because she never thought people who trusted most in life will long for each other BR]
See Mauli has too many flaws
True

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Originally posted by: Rosh4rose

Is Mauli pregnant already?
😆
Ha haha

He is pushing her away right !
😆

Agreed ...Mauli is most flawed

Really
She is destrying Kunals life by giving him the "clinic"
But hasn't given yet ... Like EMA starts when they end up on bed physically
According to my religion if men or women look at another person other than married patner it is a "sin"
I am a christian
Even though not religious person , i think that is true

Mauli is at fault because she brougt a friend to her married life our of blind trust
Mauli is at fault because she can't cook and pamper her husband
Mauli is at fault because she is a working woman not a cry baby
Mali is at fault because she never thought people who trusted most in life are trust worthy

See Mauli has too many flaws
True

Originally posted by: evenjleena28

Thank you for a wonderful analysis.

It is been a while since I have watched an Indian series and this one attracted me because of the concept. I love how real emotions are depicted. Whilst I totally understand and do believe that emotions and feelings can change and it is truer when it comes to partners. Our relations with our parents, and siblings is something that is connected by blood; however, when it comes to life partner the possibility of perhaps being involved with someone else is not that far-fetched. It can and does happen.

I have watched this series and I have the same questions as you for a wife Mauli is amazing and she unconditionally loves her husband as she should. What I am not able to understand though is that with so much love she makes decision without consulting him. Having a child is not a minor thing and anyone whom has children will know that. It should always be a joint decision (there are exceptions of course) when possible. When there is a couple such as them I honestly am unable to fathom the reason for "surprising her hubby. I mean if they were actively planning and then she found out she was pregnant then yes the surprise makes more sense but why would you want to surprise your husband when you are wishing to get pregnant?

The possessiveness bit? It depends. I am assuming that she thinks Nandini is like her sister so she trusts her like one would their sister. I know if my husband was talking to my sister all the time it will not bother me but yes if he was talking to my best friend all the time, then it's time to have words ;) Again, at times I find that she is pushing him towards her (again it could be that she considers N as her sister and in that scenario it kind of makes sense).

I honestly feel bad for her because no matter what the minute you emotionally feel anything more than platonic towards other then you have emotionally cheated and that worse than physical cheating (again in my opinion). The way the bond between Kunal and Mauli is shown I think them having a heart to heart would have been fantastic but I am looking forward to see what next?

Regarding Nandini, I can relate to her as well. She has latched on to the first kindness a man has shown. I don't know much about her background but it appears that no one has shown her the unconditional confidence or the faith and therefore when she found it from a man who was a total taboo she couldn't let go. At least I know why she is falling in love, I really don't know why Kunal fell in love.
I am a hard core liberal and I am of a strong belief that if one falls out of love then it is not a crime. I am not able to understand what made Kunal fall in love but he did and that is absolutely okay but to not disclose that to his wife (it could be that they both can decide to go for counselling or separation, I don't know) but let's see.

TM ne mauli ke woh flaw nikale hain Jo valid hain .I don't think she is pointing out invalid flaws

Originally posted by: surabhi01

TM ne mauli ke woh flaw nikale hain Jo valid hain .I don't think she is pointing out invalid flaws

I wanted u have pointed out mauli has not discuss about surgery but log pata nahi baat ko Kahan se kahan le ja raahe hain .ab kaun kis religion cast ka hai I think no one is interested to know

Nice post TM 😊 . Yes from the starting ,it was bothering me too that how mouli is not having any kind of possessiveness for kunal ,why she is so unconcerned with kunal and nandini is spending so much time with each other .Being wife, it is essential to have faith and trust in your husband but as you said trust must with a pinch of salt to avoid it from becoming blind and all sweet.

Originally posted by: arshi_asya

I have made posts on this complicated equation earlier as well. Kunal's behavior has no excuse and he is majorly flawed character amongst the 3 of them. I competely agree with emotional cheating part. But things can get complicated with a sister in picture as well which happens too often. My only issue with Mauli is that why she isn't able to sense Kunal's changed behavior. Women are gifted at smelling cheating from their partners especially the emotional one as emotional cheating leads to pgysical one in mosr of the cases. (just my opinion)

Yes I completely agree that at times things may get complicated with siblings too - I was giving my example. I don't understand the non chalance either it is way too strange, if there is so much love why cant Mauli notice the changes?

Majority of times as you rightfully said emotional cheating leads to physical cheating and I think it seems that's where this is going. I wonder how the surprise will go? The surgery though hard I can try to get around but pregnancy?