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Originally posted by: -tellyaddict-

sorry to say but I still feel she is Naive.. she trusted what Reema told, Shaurya's sis mentioned, Kanchan mentioned abt Shaurya.. she trusting them all... so for me she still lacks experience to respond to a situation.. she is being impulsive and just reacting to the situation..

and i guess we can agree to disagree on what we feel based on our own experience and not just characters.

I can see your point but I guess I just woner how will she get experience if not by going through all these feelings and processing them? She is just now starting to feel what it means to be in love and Anokhi has always been shown to be more expressive than he is. But when she started to suspect her feelings, it took her a while to accept them herself and she was going back and forth on them as well. And when it came to what she heard from Kitty, it would make sense that she would think that was the truth given her own insecurities and what Babli had planted in her head about the two of them not being able to match since he is from a high class family. But upon talking to people who gave her more perspective, she realized that maybe she shouldn't have reacted that way. Also isn't that what we all do? We tell friends what happened, we listen to the words of others and think about it. She didn't go after him right when she found out he was in Goa. She was still managing the fest and it was only after she had that realization after her textbook got wet that she decided to go after him. Yes, it happened in a day, but this is probably the first time we are seeing her do something like this for him. But impuslivity is her nature. The way she went to the riots to search for Aastha, the way we saw her running from her marriage in a moment's notice. This is how Anokhi has been shown from the start. She will do anything for herself and for the people she loves.

Originally posted by: FortunaMajor

She trusted what Reema told because she wanted to! Sometimes we need to hear what's in our heart from a friend or near dear one, listening to Kanchan is only logical because Kanchan clearly has better picture about Shaurya and Shagun. Listening to other people doesn't make a person naive, it makes them open minded enough to listen and consider other people's perspectives before making an informed decision.

the love I have for you...is unbeatable❤️

Originally posted by: -tellyaddict-

but is it necessary to break that bubble for a man.. ? she broke the biggest bubble (her home) and came out as victor when she wanted to study.. and i love, appreciate her so much...

i just dont find her current objective for breaking that bubble sitting well with me..

The home in which she was abused was a bubble? Wasn't it really a cage that she broke out of?

@bold why can't it break for a man or rather why shouldn't it? Anokhi is single, straight and open to romantic relationships so why not? How else is she going to get experience? By listening to other people and not acting on her own or suppressing her own feelings and what she wants?

Originally posted by: infinitie

I can see your point but I guess I just woner how will she get experience if not by going through all these feelings and processing them? She is just now starting to feel what it means to be in love and Anokhi has always been shown to be more expressive than he is. But when she started to suspect her feelings, it took her a while to accept them herself and she was going back and forth on them as well. And when it came to what she heard from Kitty, it would make sense that she would think that was the truth given her own insecurities and what Babli had planted in her head about the two of them not being able to match since he is from a high class family. But upon talking to people who gave her more perspective, she realized that maybe she shouldn't have reacted that way. Also isn't that what we all do? We tell friends what happened, we listen to the words of others and think about it. She didn't go after him right when she found out he was in Goa. She was still managing the fest and it was only after she had that realization after her textbook got wet that she decided to go after him. Yes, it happened in a day, but this is probably the first time we are seeing her do something like this for him. But impuslivity is her nature. The way she went to the riots to search for Aastha, the way we saw her running from her marriage in a moment's notice. This is how Anokhi has been shown from the start. She will do anything for herself and for the people she loves.

Anokhi literally means UNIQUE. you never what trick she has up her sleeves. sometimes you gotta take the plunge and go with the flow. absolutely agree with this

I think what TM and babli meant was anokhi is inexperienced about men as in romantically. All men were trash in her life (including shaurya 60% of time) and this relationship is not between equal. She's young, naive, have zero support system (ashtha and babli don't count, acp can't help beyond a certain point) , not financially independent and has too much baggage. Shaurya has the independence to be the way he is- if tomorrow his badi ma don't listen to him he can walk out. Where will anokhi go? She got the hostel because of shaurya, if tomorrow he leaves her where will she go, she's at a college where his family rules, his sisters bullies her. Not making her bechari abla but the situation around her in exactly the same as she faced in her house.

Also the romance/love has a point. Again, S is older, was in a relationship and knows ins and outs of itm A knows nothing, and we as women know how vulnerable it make us to be in relationship, especially after so much turmoil. Age is another factor. But as deeper we are discussing all these now, pretty sure CVs will address it with a line and look from S -" main kbhi tumhara saath nahi chodunga" cue melting 😂😂

Originally posted by: FortunaMajor

Did Shaurya demand that Nikki should stop her education? Or imply that it won't be completed now that he likes her?

They are just coming to terms with their feelings for each other, so shouldn't we wait and watch what his response will be on the family front until their relationship or feelings comes out in the open?

His ego is definitely being addressed where he was able to bring himself to apologise to a person he considers as his adversary (ACP) only because he realised Anokhi's happiness and being with her mattered more!

@blue the show just crossed 100 episodes and they have always ensured to address Shaurya's negative traits "slowly" but surely his anger issues are getting addressed! The vara re sequence showed him actively making an effort to reign in his temper while reaching out to Anokhi, during the date scene when he came to talk to Anokhi he had come with the intention to patiently talk it out, his anger came in only when his feelings were questioned (the aggression needs to go I completely agree) but to overlook the progress is a great disservice to character and the show.

Shaurya isn't demanding, and unfortunately I doubt he will even demand anymore... His family will... Being mature one here... He should start seeing little bit further down the line... And try taking things slowly too! Anokhi's feelings have been rushed but that's what Babli said too.... Fall in love but kadam phoonk phoonk ke Rakho.... And I support Babli for her words....i am ShaKhi fan too.. But I signed up to see how Anokhi tackles problems that arises between them because of soch... And how Shaurya accepts it step by step.. So far CVs haven't shown lot of scenes that forces Shaurya to reflect on his own soch except for the time when he thought about why Anokhi matters to him...

See they are taking Shaurya some 30-40 plus episodes to just learn to control his anger and learn to say sorry... But his soch about women in general changed within 15 episodes from character assissnation days. That's off for me.... It should have been reversed...

Now if I see him being jealous of ACP and Anokhi I will literally fly to Goa and bang his head myself... Ab bohot hua tashan tashan khelna... She loves you... She has confirmed... Ab why even doubt that she would move on with someone else...

Originally posted by: -tellyaddict-

agree with your points but for 20 something girl to cross 2000km just for a man didn't sit well with me.

I can never ever digest that one action by a girl for anyone be it friend, bf, husband or anyone.. if Shaurya has guts to move away from Anokhi I want Anokhi to have triple guts to not look back at him...

living from experience doesnt allow one to be reckless to fly from chandigarh to goa just to pacify your angry crush...sorry but thats not justifiable.

@bold I guess I feel like this is the first time we are seeing Anokhi actually go after him. Yes it's to Goa but that's because that's where he chose to go lol if he decided to just go somewhere closer, then she would have gone after him there. But before this we have seen him going after her all the time, even when she MU him. Whenever he makes a mistake, he goes after her (fairylights, the bridge scene) and even when he doesn't make a mistake he goes after her (checking up on her after the riots when she MU him). Anokhi definitely has the guts to not look back at him if he is in the wrong but in this case, he wasn't in the wrong. Which is why just like he has no qualms in going after her, she has no qualms in going after him.

Originally posted by: infinitie

I can see your point but I guess I just woner how will she get experience if not by going through all these feelings and processing them?

thats what i wanted to tell.. glad you brought it up..

she has to meet more men, make friends with them, talk with them, spend time with them as friends.. instead of falling for that very first man comes in her life and sweeps her off her feet...

untill she knows how men think and behave with experience as friends how will she figure out the ones trying to seek her attention are genuinely in love with her or just using her as time pass, this is the experience i was telling about.

Originally posted by: Haal-e-Dil

I think what TM and babli meant was anokhi is inexperienced about men as in romantically. All men were trash in her life (including shaurya 60% of time) and this relationship is not between equal. She's young, naive, have zero support system (ashtha and babli don't count, acp can't help beyond a certain point) , not financially independent and has too much baggage. Shaurya has the independence to be the way he is- if tomorrow his badi ma don't listen to him he can walk out. Where will anokhi go? She got the hostel because of shaurya, if tomorrow he leaves her where will she go, she's at a college where his family rules, his sisters bullies her. Not making her bechari abla but the situation around her in exactly the same as she faced in her house.

Also the romance/love has a point. Again, S is older, was in a relationship and knows ins and outs of itm A knows nothing, and we as women know how vulnerable it make us to be in relationship, especially after so much turmoil. Age is another factor. But as deeper we are discussing all these now, pretty sure CVs will address it with a line and look from S -" main kbhi tumhara saath nahi chodunga" cue melting 😂😂

*hi fi*

@bold..you put it up all so well and pretty detailed... thank you for explaining it well.

Originally posted by: Haal-e-Dil

I think what TM and babli meant was anokhi is inexperienced about men as in romantically. All men were trash in her life (including shaurya 60% of time) and this relationship is not between equal. She's young, naive, have zero support system (ashtha and babli don't count, acp can't help beyond a certain point) , not financially independent and has too much baggage. Shaurya has the independence to be the way he is- if tomorrow his badi ma don't listen to him he can walk out. Where will anokhi go? She got the hostel because of shaurya, if tomorrow he leaves her where will she go, she's at a college where his family rules, his sisters bullies her. Not making her bechari abla but the situation around her in exactly the same as she faced in her house.

Also the romance/love has a point. Again, S is older, was in a relationship and knows ins and outs of itm A knows nothing, and we as women know how vulnerable it make us to be in relationship, especially after so much turmoil. Age is another factor. But as deeper we are discussing all these now, pretty sure CVs will address it with a line and look from S -" main kbhi tumhara saath nahi chodunga" cue melting 😂😂

🤣CVs are going to make Babli's words come true... Anokhi will be cheated by Shaurya... I am kind of thinking looking at current scenario.. Hope the cheating is limited to only light romantic dinner and happy times... And not physical intimacy...

But though this is just the show... And Shaurya really loves Anokhi.... One cannot deny that Anokhi is totally naive when it comes to being in romantic relationship...

The jugni who took part in debate competition was single strong headed woman... I am kind of failing to connect with this Anokhi who could stand up to Shaurya when he tells her to not meet ACP... She rather ignores it as cute jealousy or nature now... But she is fine with explanation Shaurya gave regarding meeting ex fiancé... Her words and her actions are sometimes I cannot resonate with from the Anokhi of episode 1. I thought she would give Shaurya back for his double standards and point out hypocrisy...

But ab toh at this point she thinks... He is a changed man... Baba... Pyaar andha hota hai... Shakhi fan hokar bhi... I am kind of disappointed with bits of way romance is being developed... I might start viewing the show... After Shagun leaves. Or Anokhi gets over main heart break.