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Posted: 5 years ago
#11

Originally posted by: shahsb_26

Shaurya is one person who stays in his own little world! He is very selective while listening too...


Babli raised some valid questions and concerns... He couldn't... Couldn't care less... And Anokhi was left to deal with it later on with Babli...


When Babli said yeh toh choti hai.. Aap toh institute ke director hai na.... A genuine concern... Was more like.... As a mature one in relationship, he is the one who is supposed to control himself more rather than jumping at the moment to get intimate with a woman who is barely in her 20s plus woman who also kind of pointed out concerns just the night before. Clarity toh dur ki baat... He seems to have forgotten about it too..


He kind of dismissed that she has to finish her studies, deal with mess they created when she ran away, come to terms with reality of life, and so on... Arrey bhai tu changed man hoga, but what about your family? Maybe you have changed overnight and you can see how Anokhi is aaj ki ladki and you are fine.. But see what is aaj ki ladkiya getting in your own household na...


I was so hoping that they would deal with him as a changed person slowly... Change in soch I meant and get rid of his ego and anger jaldi se... They are doing exactly opposite... Soch has changed but jealousy is still lingering...


I am so glad there are people to protect and warn Anokhi against worse that's to come.

Did Shaurya demand that Nikki should stop her education? Or imply that it won't be completed now that he likes her?

They are just coming to terms with their feelings for each other, so shouldn't we wait and watch what his response will be on the family front until their relationship or feelings comes out in the open?

His ego is definitely being addressed where he was able to bring himself to apologise to a person he considers as his adversary (ACP) only because he realised Anokhi's happiness and being with her mattered more!

@blue the show just crossed 100 episodes and they have always ensured to address Shaurya's negative traits "slowly" but surely his anger issues are getting addressed! The vara re sequence showed him actively making an effort to reign in his temper while reaching out to Anokhi, during the date scene when he came to talk to Anokhi he had come with the intention to patiently talk it out, his anger came in only when his feelings were questioned (the aggression needs to go I completely agree) but to overlook the progress is a great disservice to character and the show.

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Posted: 5 years ago
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Originally posted by: FortunaMajor

Did Shaurya demand that Nikki should stop her education? Or imply that it won't be completed now that he likes her?

They are just coming to terms with their feelings for each other, so shouldn't we wait and watch what his response will be on the family front until their relationship or feelings comes out in the open?

His ego is definitely being addressed where he was able to bring himself to apologise to a person he considers as his adversary (ACP) only because he realised Anokhi's happiness and being with her mattered more!

@blue the show just crossed 100 episodes and they have always ensured to address Shaurya's negative traits "slowly" but surely his anger issues are getting addressed! The vara re sequence showed him actively making an effort to reign in his temper while reaching out to Anokhi, during the date scene when he came to talk to Anokhi he had come with the intention to patiently talk it out, his anger came in only when his feelings were questioned (the aggression needs to go I completely agree) but to overlook the progress is a great disservice to character and the show.


yesssss!!!! I STAN!!! thank you!!! progress doesnt come over night. Shaurya has come sooooooo far from the very first episode where he tells Shagun that its him or her education and now he is like ANOKHI'S EDUCATION IS THE PRIORITY!!! Her dream, her career...HER. His anger and everything is being shown, right now, its all about realisation and acceptance.

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Posted: 5 years ago
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Originally posted by: FortunaMajor

Babli's points were very much valid and her concern for Anokhi is completely understandable. However I don't think She shut Shaurya up, if anything shaurya himself backed down from reacting adversely that only shows his growth as a character and the fact that he was not invalidating her concerns and could see where she is coming from, yes he did not react or respond in agreement or share the same concerns but that was not him being in denial over the said concerns but being self assured that he will be there to fight alongside Anokhi if something happens, which is why he asks Babli not to underestimate Anokhi and points out her strengths.

@bold how will Anokhi learn from life if she doesn't let herself live? Babli's advice about not giving anybody the power to hurt her is once again coming from a good place however isn't that a collateral that comes with all kinds of love? Only the person you love has the power to hurt you and this is true for every relationship not just a romantic one. If Anokhi holds back from her feelings how will she learn what life is teaching her? How will she be able to determine if Shaurya is her frog or Prince? Because ultimately it is to be her decision based on her lived experience and not based on her sister's lived experience.

This is why I loved Anokhi explaining her feelings and emotions to Babli as well, because she did not undermine her sister's concerns but took it into consideration and yet didn't let go of her agency.

agree with your points but for 20 something girl to cross 2000km just for a man didn't sit well with me.

I can never ever digest that one action by a girl for anyone be it friend, bf, husband or anyone.. if Shaurya has guts to move away from Anokhi I want Anokhi to have triple guts to not look back at him...

living from experience doesnt allow one to be reckless to fly from chandigarh to goa just to pacify your angry crush...sorry but thats not justifiable.

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Posted: 5 years ago
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Originally posted by: -tellyaddict-

sorry to say but I still feel she is Naive.. she trusted what Reema told, Shaurya's sis mentioned, Kanchan mentioned abt Shaurya.. she trusting them all... so for me she still lacks experience to respond to a situation.. she is being impulsive and just reacting to the situation..

and i guess we can agree to disagree on what we feel based on our own experience and not just characters.


I don't think she is being naive. I think she is following her heart and making decisions that she believes are good. If you think she is naive, then staying within the tight nit bubble of protection for the rest of her life, will only keep her naive forever. GIRL gotta out one day....so today seems like a good day for that 🤣

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Posted: 5 years ago
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Originally posted by: -tellyaddict-

agree with your points but for 20 something girl to cross 2000km just for a man didn't sit well with me.

I can never ever digest that one action by a girl for anyone be it friend, bf, husband or anyone.. if Shaurya has guts to move away from Anokhi I want Anokhi to have triple guts to not look back at him...

living from experience doesnt allow one to be reckless to fly from chandigarh to goa just to pacify your angry crush...sorry but thats not justifiable.


if the girl wants too...then thats her choice...I mean im sorry but I go out of my way to see if my MALE friends are okay...bro...it aynt that deep...thand pao🤣

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Posted: 5 years ago
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Originally posted by: Fahmida21


I don't think she is being naive. I think she is following her heart and making decisions that she believes are good. If you think she is naive, then staying within the tight nit bubble of protection for the rest of her life, will only keep her naive forever. GIRL gotta out one day....so today seems like a good day for that 🤣

but is it necessary to break that bubble for a man.. ? she broke the biggest bubble (her home) and came out as victor when she wanted to study.. and i love, appreciate her so much...

i just dont find her current objective for breaking that bubble sitting well with me..

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Posted: 5 years ago
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Originally posted by: Fahmida21


if the girl wants too...then thats her choice...I mean im sorry but I go out of my way to see if my MALE friends are okay...bro...it aynt that deep...thand pao🤣

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obviously.. who are we to decide what she wants.. as long as she is character i am watching. cause i can easily stop watching the show the moment i feel i am not agreeing with her actions/decisions..

so chalo thad pate hai.... Shaurya ke kahne pe.. thand pao...smiley37smiley37smiley37

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Posted: 5 years ago
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Originally posted by: -tellyaddict-

but is it necessary to break that bubble for a man.. ? she broke the biggest bubble (her home) and came out as victor when she wanted to study.. and i love, appreciate her so much...

i just dont find her current objective for breaking that bubble sitting well with me..


yes of course why not. Should she sit down until she meets someone to will not "manipulate" her. in no way, shape or form, did Shaurya ever manipulate her. If she is fighting for her love, as well as her rights as a woman in society and for her education and she comes out victorious then SIS GO FOR IT!!!

Her bubble of protection should never be someone else. She always protected herself and she will continue to do so.

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Posted: 5 years ago
#19

Originally posted by: -tellyaddict-

sorry to say but I still feel she is Naive.. she trusted what Reema told, Shaurya's sis mentioned, Kanchan mentioned abt Shaurya.. she trusting them all... so for me she still lacks experience to respond to a situation.. she is being impulsive and just reacting to the situation..

and i guess we can agree to disagree on what we feel based on our own experience and not just characters.

She trusted what Reema told because she wanted to! Sometimes we need to hear what's in our heart from a friend or near dear one, listening to Kanchan is only logical because Kanchan clearly has better picture about Shaurya and Shagun. Listening to other people doesn't make a person naive, it makes them open minded enough to listen and consider other people's perspectives before making an informed decision.

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Posted: 5 years ago
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Originally posted by: -tellyaddict-

smiley37smiley37smiley37

obviously.. who are we to decide what she wants.. as long as she is character i am watching. cause i can easily stop watching the show the moment i feel i am not agreeing with her actions/decisions..

so chalo thad pate hai.... Shaurya ke kahne pe.. thand pao...smiley37smiley37smiley37


exactly. the moment you don't like the character or you cannot connect anymore...you know what to do 🤣

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