SHAURYA AND CEN? A Psychological profile analysis - Page 6

Originally posted by: Shiner

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It's so good to hear from you. I m glad u have returned to old happy self. Sometimes it's a phase sometimes it's a long process. Yes patience is the key.

Thanks for opening such a valuable discussion thread.

Originally posted by: Nomadic_Vibe

Sure Jyoti will keep in touch ❤❤❤ Oh wow Chef. You are one lucky gal....on a curious note do you cook or know how to or your hubby is on kitchen duty?

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He cooks at home sometimes like it depends on his mood😆he perfers i cook at home since he cooks at work all the time but we also sometime cook together make dishes together too on my days off... as i work from 7am to 4pm and he works from 9am to 10pm straight 7 days which is why we try to take turns with cooking n sometimes he will bring food from work...more then me he's into making new dishes all the time n have me try all the time which i like...😳so its kind of like 50-50...😆

Originally posted by: ..KpopIsLife..

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He cooks at home sometimes like it depends on his mood😆he perfers i cook at home since he cooks at work all the time but we also sometime cook together make dishes together too on my days off... as i work from 7am to 4pm and he works from 9am to 10pm straight 7 days which is why we try to take turns with cooking n sometimes he will bring food from work...more then me he's into making new dishes all the time n have me try all the time which i like...😳so its kind of like 50-50...😆

Originally posted by: Nomadic_Vibe

I am glad I could get everyone involved and open up. I don't get why we all hush or don't talk about our mental health more often. It definitely helps to seek help when you hear people's stories and triumphs ☺

Exactly.👍 Sharing helps and most important it realised that we are not alone in this process of healing.❤️

The reason for hiding is probably that there are certain kind of people in society who will make u feel weak and may be in heated moment u they will attack u with same points . From my personal experiences I believe we should open to right kind of people.

Originally posted by: Nomadic_Vibe

Oh God sounds bliss. I am so jealous 😩 Itna Sarva gunn sampan pati🙂 chalo happy for you guys❤❤❤

Thank you🤗

And dont be lol as u will also get a good/decent guy❤️i pray for u sweetzz🤗

Like i told u my co worker/friend she always said ur man will fall from the sky n around that time i ended up meeting my hubby😆So trust me urs will too u will know😉

Originally posted by: ..KpopIsLife..

Thank you🤗

And dont be lol as u will also get a good/decent guy❤️i pray for u sweetzz🤗

Like i told u my co worker/friend she always said ur man will fall from the sky n around that time i ended up meeting my hubby😆So trust me urs will too u will know😉

Originally posted by: Nomadic_Vibe

Thanks Di. Oh wow I didn't know that. That's so cool. Yes exactly 💯 why no need to apologize. Please feel free to write longer. Would love hearing your take too some day.

🤗I am not used to write long posts but your post intrigued me..😆

I studied psychology as a subject in first year and psychiatry as a final year student in my Bachelor studies years.

And even in community based rehabilitation or the rehabilitation as a whole we need to understand the patient/ person’s psychology first. The pain. Not physical but sometimes psychology also tends to be a part of it. I have worked with kids with attention deficits, cerebral palsy, learning deficits. And trust me its very difficult to make parents understand about their child’s need. Not the physical but emotional. How to change the perception and all. Cz not all fingers of your hand are same.

Even working with adults and geriatric patients too I have learnt to listen to them. As half of their bodily pains are deep rooted in their mind. Sometimes they feel more relived with the communication and tells you that they are really feeling better and on a road to recovery.

I don’t want to bring the difficult medical terminologies here. But during neuromotor rehabilitation we have to design a plan keeping patient’s psychology in mind, with substantial biofeedback. And Sometimes have to change the approach too.

As a student I was like why the heck we have to study psychology as its nothing related to physical therapy.. but as I studied more and started working with patients/clients I understood that we have to observe and then keeping all physiological,anatomical and psychological aspects in account have to develop a plan of care.

And about Shaurya’s case. Its the whole sabharwal clan’s fault of not understanding a child’s need.

Aastha - who just left her child but didn’t fight for it.created a void in his life..

Shaan - he was there physically but emotionally absent for the whole life of his son. As he was too engrossed in his own sorrows.

Devi(L) - no doubt she has given all her love to Shaurya but poured venom too in his brain since he was 5 yo. N the poor kid is so indebted to her that he started doing what is told.

Tej - Put his chhoti soch into action and poured it in Shaurya’s mind. N giving fuel to the fire devi(l) ignited. By not mending his actions into right direction.

The poor boy started to build walls around and closed off from the world and stop sharing his fears,happiness,sorrows with anyone.

And even being with the whole family he is lonely. Even doesn’t have any friends around cz he doesn’t trust anyone and a deep rooted fear that if he will get close to someone or be friends or love someone they too eventually go away or snatched from him. N that is why he erupts as a Volcano when the wrong buttons are pushed.

Where as on the other hand the emotional neglect and the abuse Anokhi had been through made her rebellious.. to fight for everything she wants. And she learnt to be independent. Like no one is going to stand for me or do anything for me so let me do it by myself.

I am not saying I am like Shaurya or Anokhi n had abused or neglected childhood.. But I am somewhat mixture of both in some traits.
I can relate to both as I myself a Fight for everything, independent and learnt to solve all my problems by myself n more of a closed off person, I mask my emotions sometimes n don’t show it on my face like apna professor.. 😆 ( will discuss about it some other day)

Originally posted by: Nomadic_Vibe

Awww Jyots Thanks yaar☺❤

Ur welcome friend🤗

Originally posted by: dusk2dawn

🤗I am not used to write long posts but your post intrigued me..😆

I studied psychology as a subject in first year and psychiatry as a final year student in my Bachelor studies years.

And even in community based rehabilitation or the rehabilitation as a whole we need to understand the patient/ person’s psychology first. The pain. Not physical but sometimes psychology also tends to be a part of it. I have worked with kids with attention deficits, cerebral palsy, learning deficits. And trust me its very difficult to make parents understand about their child’s need. Not the physical but emotional. How to change the perception and all. Cz not all fingers of your hand are same.

Even working with adults and geriatric patients too I have learnt to listen to them. As half of their bodily pains are deep rooted in their mind. Sometimes they feel more relived with the communication and tells you that they are really feeling better and on a road to recovery.

I don’t want to bring the difficult medical terminologies here. But during neuromotor rehabilitation we have to design a plan keeping patient’s psychology in mind, with substantial biofeedback. And Sometimes have to change the approach too.

As a student I was like why the heck we have to study psychology as its nothing related to physical therapy.. but as I studied more and started working with patients/clients I understood that we have to observe and then keeping all physiological,anatomical and psychological aspects in account have to develop a plan of care.

And about Shaurya’s case. Its the whole sabharwal clan’s fault of not understanding a child’s need.

Aastha - who just left her child but didn’t fight for it.created a void in his life..

Shaan - he was there physically but emotionally absent for the whole life of his son. As he was too engrossed in his own sorrows.

Devi(L) - no doubt she has given all her love to Shaurya but poured venom too in his brain since he was 5 yo. N the poor kid is so indebted to her that he started doing what is told.

Tej - Put his chhoti soch into action and poured it in Shaurya’s mind. N giving fuel to the fire devi(l) ignited. By not mending his actions into right direction.

The poor boy started to build walls around and closed off from the world and stop sharing his fears,happiness,sorrows with anyone.

And even being with the whole family he is lonely. Even doesn’t have any friends around cz he doesn’t trust anyone and a deep rooted fear that if he will get close to someone or be friends or love someone they too eventually go away or snatched from him. N that is why he erupts as a Volcano when the wrong buttons are pushed.

Where as on the other hand the emotional neglect and the abuse Anokhi had been through made her rebellious.. to fight for everything she wants. And she learnt to be independent. Like no one is going to stand for me or do anything for me so let me do it by myself.

I am not saying I am like Shaurya or Anokhi n had abused or neglected childhood.. But I am somewhat mixture of both in some traits.
I can relate to both as I myself a Fight for everything, independent and learnt to solve all my problems by myself n more of a closed off person, I mask my emotions sometimes n don’t show it on my face like apna professor.. 😆 ( will discuss about it some other day)

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Hey there

Thank you for this very enlightening post.

In the past years, I've spent a lot of time volunteering with small kids and young adults and if there is anything I've learnt to believe in, it's this quote "the scars you can't see are the hardest to heal". It's difficult, at times, to see the hurt that emotional scars cause - it leaves no mark, but it's so deeply entrenched in the consciousness, so much that even those who have no memory of what happened in their childhood suffer latter in life.

Your analysis on Shaurya's behavior is on point and I feel like I understand him a little better👌