I Want To Ask You All Something - Page 3

Originally posted by: ashna26

I dont know about this topic! I think in India it still difficult na! Serials will only show it.. but is up to society in India to change. That is not easy. I think on this topic education play a big part too and medical help for everyone. also for poor people. That lack a lot in India. At least that mine father says. So people give their baby away... and also kinner world steal baby's too. Both world need to change and realise we all are humans.


But in the west intersex..topic not an issue! People get medical help. So maybe one day.. it will also be topic to be talked about in the open in India. And the people dont have life in their own world, parents wont give them away, dont be ashame of it They can have normal jobs, get married etc.

Originally posted by: Frozen11

I had decided to leave this forum but this post brought me back. I'm going to make one last comment before leaving for good. Thanks Dear that atleast my post brought you back here 😳😳

There is no social mssg in this show. Period. Whatever they r showing in trash. Their mssg so far is... That's true . No show can have any social message to show . Bcz they are a money minting industry and not some NGO to create awareness among people .

If our child is not normal , Suppress our daughter n never let her think.

Never teach her the harsh realities life.

Don't even think of educating her.

Whatever happens get her married. Exactly ,this was the worst thing to show .

Never leak out the info about yr daughter to her hubby or sasural. True ... You are in a way sending wrong message to people and encouraging parents to hide their child's mental/physical defect just in order to get him/her married .

Whatever happens never leave ur sasural. Take all the insults n become a mahan bahu.

Regressive shit... This is the worst thing every Indian shows portray . I mean in one serial a vamp is pregnant with someone else's baby and she keeps on telling the hero that its his child + when the heroine tries to prove then vamp plays trick and heroine is proved liar 😆😆😆 Like seriously since 1 year it was so hard to prove that he vamp has someone else's baby 😆😆 How much more regressive you can get .

What society r u talking about? Take is forum for example. Members here r the representatives of the society. 90% members here r youngsters. All they keep chanting is haya, haya,haya,...romance, romance,romance...reunion,reunion,reunion. Is there any post on story analysis, character analysis, any post on the future story, nothing! Instead they want the ph to show misconception on the sex of somu or corrective surgery done on her to make her into a girl. They are not even willing to accept surrogacy. Then what is the concept of this show? No people here I don't suppose are against surrogacy or adoption track 🤔🤔 Its just that people don't want Surbhi to be the surrogate mother

If fans are thinking like this then what will the trp aunties think? Western world accepted gay relationships only a decade back. It will take another 100 years to accept the third gender in our society. Maybe our grand children will accept them n give them their due recognition. Why only gay ?? Even a dignified life for backward communities and such LGBT communities will take another 100 years . We are still fighting for Hindu-Muslim , beef ban , national anthem kinda thing so more than progressing , our society is going down the drains (my POV) 🤔🤔

Society will not change by showing these things in movies or tv shows. Movies n tv shows r meant only for entertainment. The so called social mssg goes out of the minds once the idiot box is switched off. I absolutely agree with this

Trps mean money. The ph n the channel will show any crap in the name of social mssg for money. Change can be brought about only by education. Every child must be educated. Must be made to think if what they r doing is right or wrong. Must learn to fight for humanity. At times I feel even the educated people behaves like those society people so I have hardly found any difference in the attitude of people who are educated . For example - non-educated people anyways comment on girls wearing knee length dresses BUT I have found that even educated people behind their backs gossip about the girls attire . 🤔

The TG society also needs to change. There are lot of NGOs, trusts run by wealthy ppl for social cause. TG 's can approach them n can at least try to get educated. Why should they be trained to sing or dance or even beg in the roads. Why can't they develop some skills like painting, art works, weaving,basket making, etc. Etc. There r many professions where only semi skilled labour is required. Why can they develop something like that. They can make their products in their home n sell it thro' NGOs.

Want to narrate an incident...

Recently, there was a Tamil movie called ' Irumugan' . The actor vikram played a double role in it. One is the hero n the other is the villan who is also a TG. My friend was standing outside the theatre with his friends after the movie. A group of TGs came n started begging for money. Everyone gave 10 . Unfortunately my friend did not have change. He had 250 in his purse. One TG came snatched his purse took 250 first n then kept 150 back in the purse along with a dollar n went away with the 100. In another incident a TG just fell on the man till he gave her the money. Is this right?!?! Ppl r scared n run away from them becos of this behaviour. Well atleast I haven't seen such things happening so I can't comment on it 😳

Pardon me for the long comment. Couldn't stop myself. Can analyse this topic even more deeply but I lost interest in this show. Its OK dear . I just read the updates and come to know what was shown 😆😆

Have a good day! Wish you the same 😳😳

Originally posted by: susan7

this is a serious post...loved ur pov 👏🤗 Thanks susan darling 🤗

u r right...in India it's still difficult Yep , in a country like ours its really very difficult

sab kahte hain change hona chahiye...but apne ghar mein nahin padoshi ke ghar mein

sad but true Ye baat sahi kahin tumney .. Hum apne ghar mein nai , padosi k ghar mein change dekhan chahte hai

Originally posted by: Frozen11

@naaju

U r right! Colors is a shitty channel serving Saas bahu crap in the name of social mssg. They always loose track of the concept after 100-150 epis. True 😆

IKRS - widow remarriage.

BV - child marriage.

Tapki- a girl with a speaking disorder.

Udaan- bonded labour n child labour.

Shakthi - kinnar story.

Latest one Devanshi - self proclaimed matha.( guruma).

Everyone of the above shows lost track of the concept after 150 epis n turned into Saas bahu drama except for the last two. If soumya becomes a girl ( the fans want it) then its only drama after that. RS's forte. 😕 Shows and movies are an industry and not some NGO so they should better stop trying to show all such messages bcz no one really cares . If people cared about it then our society would have been a much better place

Originally posted by: vishuv

Well said Ishu! You had exactly said what I wanted to say...

Guess I am allowed to talk about it here...though I am not this forum member. Yeah you can talk here about the things related to this show

Ishu what you said is right...people become Ghajjini after seeing it. They brag about the importance of such shows...but at last they would be in square one. They are only good at talking... That's true .. People talk so good after watching such shows or movies but they are back to square one

But still movies and shows like Shakti...did create a difference. In the mindset of people though they won't openly acknowledge...they won't think as lowly as they as thought before. I haven't noticed any change in the outlook of society so I really can't comment that somewhere a change is coming or not

But our people hate to be revolutionized. They are stubborn...and don't want to be educated. They act blind towards the crimes in the society... People don't want to change is the biggest factor . They want to see a change in others but they will not change themselves . 🤔

Originally posted by: RagingBlaze

Yeah in India lots of things are a taboo to be even discussed about . In India people are western only through clothes but not through mentality . People still look down upon certain sections and people with disgust . Yes , education is necessary but still I feel that even educated masses behaves the same way like other people behaves in our society .

Originally posted by: ashna26

I guess you are right. People need to change themself first, stop looking down to people first. But i think education will help a lot.. especially in villages. They will able to think for themself.
And talk about topics in the open. Also medical field need to access for all people in India. Not just people with money. Mine dad who come from village he says people just dont know better to look down at people who are different than you, or of other caste etc.. or have disorder or darker colours.A lot of discrimination going on... Discrimination it self difficult to erase has a happen also in the west...

But at least help people with disorder.. dont igore them . and put them in their own world.. offer them jobs.. help them medically.. let them go to school.. etc.. first steps..