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Posted: 8 years ago
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@ Naaju - This is what I have written a long back that one of the negative factor that this show has shown was the marriage card . If this show was aimed at creating awareness then they should have shown that no parent should ever hide their childrens physical/mental defect with the other family where they are going to get married bcz anyhow after marriage the other party will come to know if you are TG/IS/Gay/Lesbian/Impotent etc ... And what did this show showed us - that ok somehow bcz of circumstances Nimmi couldn't tell Harman about the truth BUT after marriage atleast she should have told Harman and even her own daughter about the truth .. But naaah .. Nothing of such sort happened . So in a way this show is encouraging parents to hide biggest secrets about their children so that their child gets married . They never think that what will happen with their child once their child's truth is out to the spouse and his/her family ...
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Posted: 8 years ago
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seriosuly dey r just showing a rosy picture of a vicious truth...sexual defect is nt something u cn adjust wid... so rather than spreading awareness its jst promoting wrong things...aise kaise badlegi society..
u knw my frnd used to watch saas bahu show wid her granny and den bahu was being thrown out of house..and she started criticising d show..den her granny started saying "aurat ki jagah sasural walo ke kadmo me hee hoti he"..muh band hee rakhna chaiye usko...warna kahi ki nai rehti..."aisi hee bahu honi chaiye...jo chup rahe...and her mother agreed too...
datswhy i feel dese shows r only regressive and gives a feeling of 1960's wen lalita pawar used to torture her bahus...and bechari bahu had to win hearts of everyone
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Posted: 8 years ago
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No it doesn't help. It's still more of an escapist society here.
The forum members need to honesty ask themselves whether they would be comfortable seeing a TG or intersex be with a man/woman in real life. They'd beat them to death with their judgements and taunts, anytime.

Almost 90 people here wish that Saumya being an intersex is either a misunderstanding or surgically correctable.

Guess what, my mother is an avid fan of Udaan, Krishnadasi and KRPKAB and still gossips with her relatives about inter-faith and inter-caste marriages of the people we know. I know it's my own mother I am talking about, but I really hate this aspect of hers.

It's sad but true, unless we are firm about changing, shows can't help much.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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gys dont worry nothing will gonna change and after all its rashmi sharma show so after 6 months it will lyk simar or mahan show swaragini wher only behanchara will appear and even vivan will be sidelind fir behanchaara and surbhi ckt will be used to glorify saumya
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Posted: 8 years ago
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I dont know about this topic! I think in India it still difficult na! Serials will only show it.. but is up to society in India to change. That is not easy. I think on this topic education play a big part too and medical help for everyone. also for poor people. That lack a lot in India. At least that mine father says. So people give their baby away... and also kinner world steal baby's too. Both world need to change and realise we all are humans.


But in the west intersex..topic not an issue! People get medical help. So maybe one day.. it will also be topic to be talked about in the open in India. And the people dont have life in their own world, parents wont give them away, dont be ashame of it They can have normal jobs, get married etc.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Ishu your post are always unique..
Yes bahut kuch hota hai society ko change karna ko but kuch nahi hota kyun ki log ek ears sa sunta hai ek ears sa bahar nikalta hai..
Ho sakta hai aisa awarness sa kuch place ma kuch change hua hoga but maina abhi tak aisa kuch vi nahi dekha 1st example aaj vi logo ka liya beta imp hota hai beti nahi beti toh bojha hota hai jinha aap sasural send kar do shanti hai aur jitna tenson beta ki shadi ki nahi leta hai utna beti ka leta hai..
Toh kanha change hua hai society..
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Posted: 8 years ago
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I had decided to leave this forum but this post brought me back. I'm going to make one last comment before leaving for good.
There is no social mssg in this show. Period. Whatever they r showing in trash. Their mssg so far is...
If our child is not normal , Suppress our daughter n never let her think.
Never teach her the harsh realities life.
Don't even think of educating her.
Whatever happens get her married.
Never leak out the info about yr daughter to her hubby or sasural.
Whatever happens never leave ur sasural. Take all the insults n become a mahan bahu.
Regressive shit...
What society r u talking about? Take is forum for example. Members here r the representatives of the society. 90% members here r youngsters. All they keep chanting is haya, haya,haya,...romance, romance,romance...reunion,reunion,reunion. Is there any post on story analysis, character analysis, any post on the future story, nothing! Instead they want the ph to show misconception on the sex of somu or corrective surgery done on her to make her into a girl. They are not even willing to accept surrogacy. Then what is the concept of this show?
If fans are thinking like this then what will the trp aunties think? Western world accepted gay relationships only a decade back. It will take another 100 years to accept the third gender in our society. Maybe our grand children will accept them n give them their due recognition.
Society will not change by showing these things in movies or tv shows. Movies n tv shows r meant only for entertainment. The so called social mssg goes out of the minds once the idiot box is switched off. Trps mean money. The ph n the channel will show any crap in the name of social mssg for money. Change can be brought about only by education. Every child must be educated. Must be made to think if what they r doing is right or wrong. Must learn to fight for humanity.

The TG society also needs to change. There are lot of NGOs, trusts run by wealthy ppl for social cause. TG 's can approach them n can at least try to get educated. Why should they be trained to sing or dance or even beg in the roads. Why can't they develop some skills like painting, art works, weaving,basket making, etc. Etc. There r many professions where only semi skilled labour is required. Why can they develop something like that. They can make their products in their home n sell it thro' NGOs.
Want to narrate an incident...
Recently, there was a Tamil movie called ' Irumugan' . The actor vikram played a double role in it. One is the hero n the other is the villan who is also a TG. My friend was standing outside the theatre with his friends after the movie. A group of TGs came n started begging for money. Everyone gave 10 . Unfortunately my friend did not have change. He had 250 in his purse. One TG came snatched his purse took 250 first n then kept 150 back in the purse along with a dollar n went away with the 100. In another incident a TG just fell on the man till he gave her the money. Is this right?!?! Ppl r scared n run away from them becos of this behaviour.
Pardon me for the long comment. Couldn't stop myself. Can analyse this topic even more deeply but I lost interest in this show.
Have a good day!

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Posted: 8 years ago
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@naaju
U r right! Colors is a shitty channel serving Saas bahu crap in the name of social mssg. They always loose track of the concept after 100-150 epis.
IKRS - widow remarriage.
BV - child marriage.
Tapki- a girl with a speaking disorder.
Udaan- bonded labour n child labour.
Shakthi - kinnar story.
Latest one Devanshi - self proclaimed matha.( guruma).
Everyone of the above shows lost track of the concept after 150 epis n turned into Saas bahu drama except for the last two. If soumya becomes a girl ( the fans want it) then its only drama after that. RS's forte. 😕

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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: NiharikaMishra

No it doesn't help. It's still more of an escapist society here.

The forum members need to honesty ask themselves whether they would be comfortable seeing a TG or intersex be with a man/woman in real life. They'd beat them to death with their judgements and taunts, anytime. This is the problem ... Such shows never help nor such movies can change society . Whatever change has to be brought can be done only through education BUT I feel that even educated masses behaves like those present in society . For example when a girl is raped in the middle of the road or eve teased then that time along with non-educated people even educated people are waling on the road but even those educated people behave ignorant and doesn't help that lady

Almost 90 people here wish that Saumya being an intersex is either a misunderstanding or surgically correctable.

Guess what, my mother is an avid fan of Udaan, Krishnadasi and KRPKAB and still gossips with her relatives about inter-faith and inter-caste marriages of the people we know. I know it's my own mother I am talking about, but I really hate this aspect of hers. Same pinch dear ... People watch shows/movies and that time they will say that yes society needs such changes , people needs to change their thinking blah blah blah but then those people only start judging and taunting others on their look or dressing sense etc etc

It's sad but true, unless we are firm about changing, shows can't help much. True ... I personally feel tat shows/movies are a business industry and not some NGO to bring change in people . They are just for entertainment purpose . That's it 🤔

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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: ShikhaAgrawal

gys dont worry nothing will gonna change and after all its rashmi sharma show so after 6 months it will lyk simar or mahan show swaragini wher only behanchara will appear and even vivan will be sidelind fir behanchaara and surbhi ckt will be used to glorify saumya


True .. Its not only about RS .. All PH and channel or movies are just for money minting purpose and not to create awareness . Changes need to be brought within oneself by education and thought process and not by shows/movies .

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