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Posted: 8 years ago
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Ohk don't take me wrong anyone but I want to know that "Has Society Changed Even A Little Bit ????"


Till date our country has produced , directed , shown so many movies and shows which focuses on creating social awareness Or which focuses on creating a good human within us BUT has it really made a difference in our society ???


We have so many shows which were high with TRP's at some point of time and these shows were based on educating peoples like Balika Vadhu , Tammana , Udaan , Shakti and many more . But inspite of showing not to practise child marriages (Balika Vadhu) , inspite of showing not to keep children as bonded labourers and snatch away their innocence (Udaan) , inspite of showing that a woman can bring lots of happiness and prosperity if given a chance (Tammana) , inspite of showing that even TG and other vulnerable groups are children of god and are humans (Shakti) - these discrimination's and evil deed are still practised and those who practises such evil deeds have also watched these shows . So has people changed their mindset ???


There have been many regional and bollywood movies like Pink , Sairat , Rang De Basanti , Oh My God , Gabbar Is Back , Swades etc etc which was made with a sole purpose of educating people but has it brought any difference in our society or has it even changed a little bit of their mindset ???


Lots of movies have shown to treat women's equal , not to kill girl child , no caste or race is bigger than humanity , to respect women's and other genders , to raise voice against any injustice etc ect BUT has these things been practised ?? And mind you that we are not in 90s era . We are in 2000s where even a poor person has a TV and they watch all such awareness creating shows and movies . BUT Our society is still not keen to welcome girl child , still people don't file rape cases bcz its about their honour in so called society , still untouchability or any such offence is practised and there are other things also that is happening .





*Writer's POV*

Although I'm a very optimistic person and even if 1% change has been brought by these movies or shows in mindset and society , then I'm happy . YET I have hardly found any difference these shows or movies have made on people or society .

The general view that I have noticed is that people will talk with others or in groups or may gossip about such shows and movies that "wow that movie had such a nice message or such movies are an eye opener for our society blah blah blah" and then next instant they behave the same way like they have been behaving before watching that particular show or movie i.e - IGNORANT .. I'll give you a real example - Once when this movie had released "3 Idiots" then most of the parents had watched this movie and felt that they should ask their children that what they want to become . In my locality my mom had a friend and that aunty has also watched that movie along with her family . That aunty's family were so amazed with that movie . Next year their daughter wanted to do commerce but her parents forced her to do MBBS and then she unwillingly took Biology as her subject . So our society's memory is either like Ghajni where they keep those social messages in head only while watching the show/movie OR they don't even take those awareness/educating points from the shows or movies .



We all must be knowing that people always learn bad habits within a minute if its shown in a show or movie like stalking , eve teasing , acid attack etc BUT when it comes to learn good things people will just talk that the particular movie or show was nice with good messages BUT will never adopt those good habits .


So I want to know from you guys that all these educating classes that is happening in Shakti . Is it bringing in SOME change within people ?? Even if that change is 1% ???




P.S - Don't take me wrong people . I always believe that even if such shows or movies bring 0.05% change then its a good thing . But those 0.05% cannot do all things alone . People at large number with large percentage are required to change things at every level ...

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Posted: 8 years ago
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sab bolne ki baatein he..movies and serials se sb thik ho jata to hamari perfect society hoti...thru movies v cn only get to knw like these things also happen..but serials me koi social msg nai hota...Colors is a stupid channel always serving saas bahu in name of social msg...Balika vadhu i used to watch earlier...but rather than getting a negative vibe i used to get positive vibe on child marriage..😕..like anandi was treated like a princess by her in laws except dadi..she was sent to school..blah blah...she had a BF at teenage(her husband), she was sent back to her parents..there was no child rape , no teenage pregnancy issues...
even Shakti is disgracing TG and women both becos TG is associated wid male not female...why all females r doing d role..why shud d husband save d female lead..why cant she fight back...its a totalhypothetical situatn where ur husband will save u if u r TG...no bdy is so nyc...esp wen he himself got cheated...hw can he believe so easily dat saumya doesnt knw anything abt her sex...only parents cn b helpful in such situatn...makers had wonderful opportunity to employ TG in these show but dey were jst interestd in TRP..den kon sa social msg...ppl r more intersted in proving saumya as intersex and nt kinnar...😕 den accepting TG ka issue hee khtam ho gaya...if saumya gets operatn and become a girl

In Uttaran d girl was oversmart of her age and nw she and her sis r playing musical chair wid husband...aaj tera kal mera😆...

if ppl will learn from shows den hum log sirf Ramayn dekh rahe hote ...society can only change thru education and bringing western values like giving equality to women, not shaming rape victim, living ur lyf and not indulging in others affairs...not doing moral policing...

Back in 90s v used to have dramas in India which were way ahead than today...Women were modern at dat tym...not like today in kanjirvaram sareers and jhumka...

Its all abt TRP..and its not lyk ppl luv dese shows ...its just jo aata hai wo dekhte rehte hai..


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Posted: 8 years ago
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mindset wont change in a minte or even in one year it takes years
but thts not mean we stop showing such movies & shows
in my opnion those kind of show should exist to remind ppl all the time
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Posted: 8 years ago
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@ Naaju - True ... Movies and shows mein jo dikhate hai agar usme se 1% bhi use kiya hota toh society mein bahot sare changes aa chuke hotey . Rape hui ladki ko sharam jhelna nahi padta , girl child honey pe log khush hotey ... Nai re iss show mein TG drama mein real TG's he hai except for guruma and I suppose Saya . Kareena and all other background people are TG in real life ... Yes that's 10000000% true that NO SHOW CAN EVER EDUCATE OR CREATE AWARENESS . Shows are made with sole purpose of earning money bcz bollywood and tellywood is a business industry and not some charity home or NGO to showcase some causes ... I agree with your suggestions of education and all BUT guess what that even the highly educated people acts like dumbo's and even they behave like the same way our society behaves ... At times I wonder that why so much of money is wasted on education when at the end of the day people are anyways gonna behave like dumbs and the way society has been behaving till now .Baaki teri baat mein dum hai .. Shows mein kabhi social message dikhana nahi chahiye bcz log real life mein nai seekhte ye sab . Woh soch logo ki waisi ki waisi he rehti hai . Log shows and movies sirf entertainment k liye he dekhte hai and naki kuch seekhne k liye ... (this para is just my POV)
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: zubeada

mindset wont change in a minte or even in one year it takes years

but thts not mean we stop showing such movies & shows
in my opnion those kind of show should exist to remind ppl all the time

Hmmm Nish ... Maybe it will take another decade or so for people to change . I suppose you have seen some changes through movies and shows in people or show that is why you are so optimistic ... Hope if shows and movies can actually change somewhere some bit of people .
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Ishu i think u are right. Such shows and movies couldn't change society a single bit. Lok kehte hai yes change hona chahie but they themselves dont follow it.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: RagingBlaze

Hmmm Nish ... Maybe it will take another decade or so for people to change . I suppose you have seen some changes through movies and shows in people or show that is why you are so optimistic ... Hope if shows and movies can actually change somewhere some bit of people .


No Ishue nt a bit but still iam positive
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: --sanchita--

Ishu i think u are right. Such shows and movies couldn't change society a single bit. Lok kehte hai yes change hona chahie but they themselves dont follow it.

Absolutely true ... I agree with what you said . Log shows and movies dekhne k baad kahenge ki aise hona chahiye waise hona chahiye par khud kabhi change nai hotey . Woh doosro k upar chod dete hai change honey ko .
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: zubeada


No Ishue nt a bit but still iam positive

I liked your positive attitude Nish :)
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: RagingBlaze

@ Naaju - True ... Movies and shows mein jo dikhate hai agar usme se 1% bhi use kiya hota toh society mein bahot sare changes aa chuke hotey . Rape hui ladki ko sharam jhelna nahi padta , girl child honey pe log khush hotey ... Nai re iss show mein TG drama mein real TG's he hai except for guruma and I suppose Saya . Kareena and all other background people are TG in real life ... Yes that's 10000000% true that NO SHOW CAN EVER EDUCATE OR CREATE AWARENESS . Shows are made with sole purpose of earning money bcz bollywood and tellywood is a business industry and not some charity home or NGO to showcase some causes ... I agree with your suggestions of education and all BUT guess what that even the highly educated people acts like dumbo's and even they behave like the same way our society behaves ... At times I wonder that why so much of money is wasted on education when at the end of the day people are anyways gonna behave like dumbs and the way society has been behaving till now .Baaki teri baat mein dum hai .. Shows mein kabhi social message dikhana nahi chahiye bcz log real life mein nai seekhte ye sab . Woh soch logo ki waisi ki waisi he rehti hai . Log shows and movies sirf entertainment k liye he dekhte hai and naki kuch seekhne k liye ... (this para is just my POV)


and one more thing i wud like to add is dat...shakti si givin wrong msg to viewers in d sense...dat shaadi krwa do fir sb thik ho jaega...in crime patrol dey showd a beautiful lesbian girl married an ugly husband and had affairs wid another woman..wen man came to knw he ended up doing suicide..last yr only a doctor girl ended up doing suicide becos her husband was gay and had a bf too...d girl wanted him to change and accept her bt dat was nt possible..and she ultimately did suicide ...many parents knw dere children r gay , lesbian, impotent, TG but dere only job is to get dem married thinking reh lenge..ek baar shaadi ho gai to...and ye show bas un parents ko sahi saabit kregaa...ek baar shaadi ho gayi to bas pyaar pyaar pyaar...real life itni easy nai hoti...jo prince charming ko true love ho jaaye...above d boundaries of sexual identity...

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