Ek Roti ka kamaal......lajawaab

Aparna

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Posted: 15 years ago

#61

Originally posted by: vishmewell

Hey guys......

Clap for me 1st 👏👏👏!!

Vish had asked me this question yesterday, that in my imagination, how does Vish's voice sound like and she gave me the following options :

1. Husky
2. Like Baa in BBB
3. Rano from SGP
4. Badi maa SGP
5. Vasu
6. Soft...

And my answer was : Badi Ma of SGP 😃! I'm so GREAT !!

I know there is a tendency to judge a book by its cover 😆, and going by Vish's personality and her comments, people might think her voice might sound a bit 'strict' 😆. But I had so many experiences in the past whereby when I see someone's pic I might imagine a certain kind of voice for them, but when I actually talk to them (especially over the phone), it might not be anything close to what I would have imagined 😲! Like some guy might be very good looking like a model, but when you talk to him on the phone, he might sound like Raj Kumar ('jaani ye chaaku hain...' one 🤣)

So I thought of imagining Vish's voice, keeping aside her personality 😳. And my answer was right, am so proud of myself 😃!! This calls for celebrations 😃!!

👏👏👏 Good guess Appu!!! One can only only sound the way they act and one can only act the way they think!!! 👏 dediya 110/100!!!!

🥳🥳🥳🥳

Thank you ji

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Pallavi

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Posted: 15 years ago

#62

@Aparna,

Beautifully written. See, we didnt know that Maslow's theory would be helpful one day like this 😆

Totally agree with the way you presented the human actions in 3 levels. Just like your mother, I too have similar ambitions. But, now my main priority is different. That means I am still in the 2nd category. Like your mom and me there could be some women who will be in this level till they complete their main responsibilities towards their family. But, at the same time, there could be people in level 1/level 3 also. Well, there is no point in discussing towards people who are in level 1 as they will never try rise to any other level through out their life. But, people who are in level 3 have reached the self-actualization much before than people like us. These days, I am seeing some young boys/girls who do not want to tie themselves to family (marriage basically) ties and want to help those in needy. They want to reach this self-actualization level quickly. Their intentions are noble. However, I can not be like them. I am more selfish than them. But I am satisfied with the fact that even if I am not able to be self-less towards the society currently, I am trying to be self-less towards my family. Though I am stuck in the present level, I definately would like to reach the next level in due course of time.

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Bani

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Posted: 15 years ago

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Originally posted by: reguser
@Aparna,

Beautifully written. See, we didnt know that Maslow's theory would be helpful one day like this 😆

Totally agree with the way you presented the human actions in 3 levels. Just like your mother, I too have similar ambitions. But, now my main priority is different. That means I am still in the 2nd category. Like your mom and me there could be some women who will be in this level till they complete their main responsibilities towards their family. But, at the same time, there could be people in level 1/level 3 also. Well, there is no point in discussing towards people who are in level 1 as they will never try rise to any other level through out their life. But, people who are in level 3 have reached the self-actualization much before than people like us. These days, I am seeing some young boys/girls who do not want to tie themselves to family (marriage basically) ties and want to help those in needy. They want to reach this self-actualization level quickly. Their intentions are noble. However, I can not be like them. I am more selfish than them. But I am satisfied with the fact that even if I am not able to be self-less towards the society currently, I am trying to be self-less towards my family. Though I am stuck in the present level, I definately would like to reach the next level in due course of time.

Charity begins at home....you are indeed noble and selfless Pallavi..

actually, its very difficult to cross your family boundaries and do greater good, because if every person can keep their own family happy, then the whole world will be a better place to live. A family person who along with the family can do some service to the society is the best option....

Like Raja Janak, he was called "Rajarshi" (Raja + RISHI), he had qualities of both a family man as well as a rishi..his contributions to the society as well as his family is immense...he did justice to both

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Bani

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Posted: 15 years ago

#64

@ Aparna ,

very beautifully written and you know from your mother's words, I remembered exactly what my mom taught us...

when I was in my college, apart from my and my brother's many activities, she used to used to encourage us to do charitable works in Mother Teresa's orphanages and old age homes. We were lucky to have found such a place very close to where we were living. My brother and I spent lot of time there, but the return in terms of character development and meeting many kinds of wise people there widened our horizons. I feel today, that instead of me giving something to the society, it was like I got so much from the society in terms of my mental development. What I want to say, serving the society or anyone in the family, is ultimately which benefits the individual only. We come to know our society more and it strengthens our character.

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Smriti

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Posted: 15 years ago

#65

The way to a man's heart is through his stomach!!

Well, Ishaan's heart certainly fluttered with Suhana' gourmet Roti. Now the question is - what is the way to Suhana's hear? Kya woh ice-cream thi tharah pighleygi ya jali roti ki tharah bigdegi?

Hai Hai, meri zuban pakwan ke naam!!

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Aparna

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Posted: 15 years ago

#66

@ Pallavi :

Your are absolutely right. There is nothing wrong in the path you are in. Whatever you are doing is totally right and practical, and you will definitely reach the next level very soon. Its always better to take one step at a time. At this level if you try to jump to the next level, u wont be able to do justice to both levels.

Actually to analyse why some people have hardly any desires and are easily willing to sacrifice normal worldly pleasures, again we have to bring in spirituality here 😆. We take birth to finish off our karmas and fulfil various desires. As we keep taking birth after birth, we finish off various desires of ours and are clean of those desires in the subsequent births. Thus as the level of our spirituality increases, our level of desires keep reducing, and our level of awareness, understanding, self-realisation, selflessness and maturity increases. In short, importance for physical and materialistic needs reduces. Thus we can easily say, only someone who is at higher spiritual level can think of being selfless or desire less, so as to sacrifice worldly pleasures.

So as far as we are concerned, we are all in a journey on the path of spirituality and are still not done with our agenda of worldly responsibilties and pleasures. There is a mission behind our birth, without any reason we wouldn't be born. So since we are born to finish a particular agenda, that is exactly what we should do. So each person behaves according to his/her level of existence. And there is nothing wrong in it 😊.

And in between trying to fulfill our agenda, we must try to live life in the most righteous manner and help others as much as possible. Even if we are not able to be selfless, atleast we should try not to do wrong to anyone. If we can do that, I think that is more than enough for the time being 😉.

And regarding Maslow, wow yaar, we are true students doing justice to our degrees 😆! In our routine conversations we are using Maslow and all 😆. Now other members in the forum will think highly of us, they will think we are such high funda people 😃.

Lets do one thing, lets go to all topics and irritate the topic starter by analyzing each topic of Suhana from Maslow's and Herzberg's theory point of view 🤣. Am sure eventually Mods will send us a warning and ban us henceforth from using any THEORIES in the forum 🤣!

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Aparna

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Posted: 15 years ago

#67

@ Bani :

Thanks yaar 😳.

Its really great of your mom to teach you and your brother such values, as it really goes a long way. And when you practice something in your growing phase, it becomes a part of you and a habit which will always keep you grounded in the long run. Wherever you go, how ever high level you reach, you will never be able to forget these values and would always appreciate God for whatever he has given you. You would also be able to always empathise and care for those who are less fortunate than you.

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Aparna

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Posted: 15 years ago

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@ Bani :

Thanks yaar 😳.

Its really great of your mom to teach you and your brother such values, as it really goes a long way. And when you practice something in your growing phase, it becomes a part of you and a habit which will always keep you grounded in the long run. Wherever you go, how ever high level you reach, you will never be able to forget these values and would always appreciate God for whatever he has given you. You would also be able to always empathise and care for those who are less fortunate than you.

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Aparna

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Posted: 15 years ago

#69

Arre yaar, what heavy duty lectures have I written, am sure I would have 'bhagaod' many members from this post 😆!

Poor Laxmi, she has stopped commenting. I think she got bored reading our long lectures . Am sure Laxmi would have disowned this topic long back, aise hi humein happy rakhne ke liye kabhi kabaar aake 'like' button click karke chali jaathi hogi 😆.

Yeh topic 'roti' se shuru hoke 'karma' thak pohunch gayi. Atleast 'kurma' hote tho roti ke saat kuch tho connection hota 🤣!

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Bani

@Omshanti1111

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Posted: 15 years ago

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Originally posted by: *dewdrop~pearl*

Arre yaar, what heavy duty lectures have I written, am sure I would have 'bhagaod' many members from this post 😆!

Poor Laxmi, she has stopped commenting. I think she got bored reading our long lectures . Am sure Laxmi would have disowned this topic long back, aise hi humein happy rakhne ke liye kabhi kabaar aake 'like' button click karke chali jaathi hogi 😆.

Yeh topic 'roti' se shuru hoke 'karma' thak pohunch gayi. Atleast 'kurma' hote tho roti ke saat kuch tho connection hota 🤣!

Laxmi is snoring big time now😆..let her get up, then she will start her jalwa...our Bidaai fan club is also desperately waiting for the presidential "tippuni"...Being the VP, i came here to look for our president...😆

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