Am I the only one loving it? - Page 5

Originally posted by: ...B.N.K...

Reemz today your post reminded me pramad's mommy.😆 no matter what my son is devta .

dude jen and kumi is not the same thing...u dont HAVE to justify kumi to prove how awesome fan u r ok 😊.

i love Hrithik he is my first crush but no one can make me say ''Kites'' was a great movie 🤢.

but if..yeah i said if u think she was right and ''THIS'' was kumi's love this is how someone or kumi should love then god help u 😊 .

edit : i m loving this show and track too but my reason is different 😳.

Originally posted by: pasumarthisa

I want to add that writers may not think that kumud is coming out as wrong. They probably think in a different way. That's the sad part.

Originally posted by: Arshics

But Sudha, she had already announced to kusum that and her family that Saras would be marrying kusum, that means from her side the decision has been made and he is already in her mind kusums future husband and her jeeja.

She has also already announced to Saras that her destiny is with pramaad.

In this situation, it is a sacrilege to keep the Payal. After all Saraswati ma's ashirwad also should belong to kusum, and Kumud who has chosen to be with pramaad who is now seemingly a good man should not wear another man's jewelry.

And in fact it should have been a Payal handing over scene and not a feet touching scene, because she has no right to touch the feet of Saras and I am sure had kusum as his soon to be wife seen it, she would have been extremely upset, and justifiably so. And Kumud cannot have anything to do with Saras having decided to remain pramaad's wife. In that context, even the feet touching was incorrect and an inappropriate gesture.

Another ill thought out decision by Kumud , or just a case of poor writing by cvs who just go by formula - tears + sacrifice = TRP.

Originally posted by: -sudha-

Arshi

I think if she had taken out the payal, the furore amidst viewers would have been way too much !

We are sure Saras will not marry Kusum. We know he will take the most sensible decisions. But for drama sake -that too deliberately on a friday the episode was stretched to Monday to keep the suspense. While I dont know why she touched his feet, if you watch the scene closely, when her tears fall on his feet, he all of a sudden comes to a decision and realisation. Thats when he lifts her !! I think that scene was more for Saras to take a decision!

Originally posted by: tryforceful

Arshi ji, that gesture of touching feet was a mixture of showing her gratitude towards his magnanimous decision to marry her sister and apologetic for coercing him into submission. Because at that point she thinks he's acquiesced in her emotional torture.

One thing that made that scene indigestible was that Saras was actually deciding at that moment in front of the idol "help me choose between love and duty." Why should marrying Kusum be his duty to fulfill? At that precise moment madame dharmadhikari enters and he sort of gets his answer. The chronological order of events is a bit suspicious. So what exactly did he mean when he'd told "Kusum psycho would marry someone who would keep her happy"? Was he thinking of marrying her at that point?!

Getting back to the whole feet touching thingy, I personally hate that concept in our tradition that women must be subservient to men. This feet touching is one such custom that attests to that injunction. Nobody should touch anyone's except for their parents feet to get aashirvaad is my opinion. But I do get that, that particular scene gives an illusion of poignancy to a certain faction of viewers which I can effectively filter out without bothering. They've already killed Kumud for me to really bother about her histrionics any more. In all this, it's surprising to see that she hasn't asked Mr not so Dharmadhikari to adorn her neck with the mangal sutra. Maybe she would, on Monday.

Originally posted by: Arshics

Shrija, I share your views on feet touching of pati thing.

And I felt that by touching his feet she was kind of begging him to agree, so I just pushed the scene out.

My reaction is to the interpretation of this scene as Kumud's Radha like devotion towards Saras.

That I feel would be very inappropriate of Kumud because now she must look at Saras as kusums husband and not as her Kanha

It can't be wrong for kusum to look at Kumud's husband, but divine for Kumud to look at kusums husband with devotion and reverence.

What's wrong for one sister is equally wrong for the other.

Originally posted by: tryforceful

Arshi ji, that gesture of touching feet was a mixture of showing her gratitude towards his magnanimous decision to marry her sister and apologetic for coercing him into submission. Because at that point she thinks he's acquiesced in her emotional torture.

One thing that made that scene indigestible was that Saras was actually deciding at that moment in front of the idol "help me choose between love and duty." Why should marrying Kusum be his duty to fulfill? At that precise moment madame dharmadhikari enters and he sort of gets his answer. The chronological order of events is a bit suspicious. So what exactly did he mean when he'd told "Kusum psycho would marry someone who would keep her happy"? Was he thinking of marrying her at that point?!

Getting back to the whole feet touching thingy, I personally hate that concept in our tradition that women must be subservient to men. This feet touching is one such custom that attests to that injunction. Nobody should touch anyone's except for their parents feet to get aashirvaad is my opinion. But I do get that, that particular scene gives an illusion of poignancy to a certain faction of viewers which I can effectively filter out without bothering. They've already killed Kumud for me to really bother about her histrionics any more. In all this, it's surprising to see that she hasn't asked Mr not so Dharmadhikari to adorn her neck with the mangal sutra. Maybe she would, on Monday.

Originally posted by: -sudha-

Shirja

I would like to give Saras the benefit of doubt! Since (as a diehard Saras fan) his taking a decision may not be wrt Kumuds request of marrying Kusum. When he says, in the previous scene, that Kusum will marry one who will keep her happy, he looks at Kumud straight in the eye. he appears to have made up his mind, then that it wont be him. Kumud assumes it is him!

His duty, as the "beta of the desai family" and his commitment to Kumud as his love, he wanted to take the right decision, for both! I would like to believe, he wasnt even contemplating marrying Kusum! We were led to believe he was !!

If I dont make sense, blame it on my love for Saras ! 😆