Self-centered Bytes - Page 8

Originally posted by: hotdogg

Thank god for your illuminating post brother. Today I am at utter loss...

But what is this underlined about. Pleas enlighten. I am clueless.

* Spoiler Alert *

smrth--

The spoilers say -
- kumud does not tell saras about kusum..
- so saras enters kusum's room to tell her not to worry...thinking she would be worried about danny//
- mohan's family enters kusum's room...find saras and kusum...and start blaming saras & kusum as having an affair..
- kusum's wedding will break
- then kumud will tell saras to marry kusum..to which saras will refuse..

In MZZB...Adil & Saba in same room at nikaah raises the same type of ruckus...and a confused Arfeen blames Saba too..

Same twist is being attempted here with following character placements (though relationships in SC are different)
Saras - Adil
Kusum - Saba
Kumud - Arfeen

Originally posted by: smrth

Vaishali ji!!! Is that you here...

Great to see you here. Please watch the episode. And comment. I simply miss your objectivity.

- a disclaimer: I am not blaming Saras here. I am genuinely trying to understand apathy to Kumud's plight, even from such mature and brilliant readers...

smrth-
I am with you on kumud's side...she was desperately searching for affirmation from saras...which did not come for whatever reason...so her reaction though coming out as anger was actually a plaintive wail of grief...of fear...of anger...of a plea...CHOOSE ME...saras response was the personification of her deepest fear ..what if he does not choose me?...we may say that's irrational considering their history...but then kumud never had encountered competition earlier...so it was a mixture of possessiveness for her man, fear of losing him, seeking a signal that all is well in their world...and saras gave the wrong answer!

when she said tumne kusum ka yeh haal kiya...she was implicitly saying...why are you so good?...look you made my sis fall in love with you...and screwed my life!

@smrth @hotdogg - I am not blaming Kumud.. or Saras or defending either of them.. They are in a wrong era I guess.. this is not Satyug.. this is GHOR Kalyug , where brothers fight over property , where sisters also get jealous of each other..and what not !!! As far as my understanding based on what I read goes, Saras is unaware of the real truth.. and wouldn't be fair with him to ask him to give his opinion on who he will support unless you tell him the circumstance under which his support is being questioned.. I am sure, or atleast I hope, Saras will not support Kusum in this insanity.. Kumud should tell him the truth and then seek his opinion.. but I want that shameless Kusum to go face Saras and tell her what she's upto..

^^^

Originally posted by: vaishali-AR

@smrth @hotdogg - I am not blaming Kumud.. or Saras or defending either of them.. They are in a wrong era I guess.. this is not Satyug.. this is GHOR Kalyug , where brothers fight over property , where sisters also get jealous of each other..and what not !!! As far as my understanding based on what I read goes, Saras is unaware of the real truth.. and wouldn't be fair with him to ask him to give his opinion on who he will support unless you tell him the circumstance under which his support is being questioned.. I am sure, or atleast I hope, Saras will not support Kusum in this insanity.. Kumud should tell him the truth and then seek his opinion.. but I want that shameless Kusum to go face Saras and tell her what she's upto..

ok hold on! So no one tells Saras the truth of divine love and the guy is expected to give opinion or whether or not he supports Kusum? REALLY now!! When Kumud and Guniyal know that there is a misunderstanding with Danny in the picture, why would they NOT tell Saras? and if he is found in Kusum's room..SO WHAT? I hope Danny doesn't misunderstand Saras.. He should tell Kusum that he had been a fool to fall in love with such a selfish woman.. YUCKKK!!! 🤢

@hgg- I agree , this whole circle, triangle , quadrilateral wateva is a MESS! Saras and Kumud should just elope ! Wait ! Who will do the sacrifice then?😃 Three broken hearts (Saras Kumud Danny) versus one victorious happy soul ( Kusum) 👏

Originally posted by: smrth

^^^

But blanket sanction to Saras, in direct contrast to Kumud is my utter loss to understand. Were she to say something like..." I saw her first"...she would have been doomed. Can someone grant even 'context' angle about this sentence? 'Brotherly'??

Agree smrth--

I also feel CVs want samud to crash and burn...and are building the platform in a clumsy way...

today saras mentions in brotherly way this sentence..
tomo kusum will mention this in her infatuation way..
then kumud might be shown as thinking ..is this destined?...

how else do they show kumud's character flip-flop...to reach the stage where she may as well ask saras to marry kusum?

Originally posted by: smrth

^^^

But blanket sanction to Saras, in direct contrast to Kumud is my utter loss to understand. Were she to say something like..." I saw her first"...she would have been doomed. Can someone grant even 'context' angle about this sentence? 'Brotherly'??

where did that come from? ''I saw her first '' ermm so? lol did I miss something? that is so out of context ! So if you see someone first, that person becomes your first responsibility? I am sure no one's gonna tell the guy the truth.. while he will be defending Danny's case, everyone around him will conveniently relate that to his approval for Kusum!🤢

Why is Saras always pitted against kumud. Does it have to be like that. Same with Kumud. They are individuals first. I have huge empathy for kumud. But on a case by case basis we tend to be objective. When Saras is wrong he does get flak.

Originally posted by: vaishali-AR

where did that come from? ''I saw her first '' ermm so? lol did I miss something? that is so out of context ! So if you see someone first, that person becomes your first responsibility? I am sure no one's gonna tell the guy the truth.. while he will be defending Danny's case, everyone around him will conveniently relate that to his approval for Kusum!🤢

And that's the clumsy way this will be structured..😒

I can agree that today's convo could happen...with kumud in a confused state..
I can also agree that Gun and others may not want to break this to saras...while they try to confront kusum..

But just cannot digest the fact that kumud will continue to remain silent and beat around the bush going forward especially with saras...