Self-centered Bytes - Page 7

Originally posted by: pasumarthisa

I agree. Kumud is in a dilemma. I can understand. That's why she is thinking about the worst. I don't have any issues with this convo.

Kumud blaming everything on Saras after so many life changing events is what is puzzling. Rca with R being Saras's refusing the wedding.

Originally posted by: hotdogg

Welcome Ye all to the Twilight Zone!

and Oh Boy...we are going to crash and burn now...

All Kumud had to do was grab Saras by his scruff and say Let's Get Out of Here!

Did not like:
- Kumud's pretty tame reaction to Kusum...just a teeny -weeny slap and then running away...was expecting a spitfire reaction and a cat-fight..
- Kalika & Pramad seeming to close ranks...
- Kumud giving all sorts of philosophical reasons for kusum's behavior...Would a woman in love really really do this pontification?...
- Kumud - Saras Convo...
- Precap

And Yet:
Regarding the Saras - Kumud convo...felt that was the best piece of today's epi...

Here was a confused woman (Kumud) trying to make some sense of the boom which has been lowered over her...and really looking for some affirmation...In walks her man (Saras)...

Now obviously she's being all womanly and therefore never speaking clearly what's on her mind..😛...so she starts Questioning in Riddles (Crash Alert #1)...Our Dikra is oblivious to the Code Orange now flashing loud and clear...Then she asks him to choose between Kumud & Kusum (Crash Alert#2)...Our Dikra is still oblivious to the Loud Sirens Clanging & Red Lights Flashing all Around (Announcements being made...Code Red..Code Red...)...So our Dikra gives a rational, logical and well intentioned response... So obviously he had it coming...all the dose from Kumud...the response from Kumud...she did not get the affirmation she was expecting (notice her expectant expressions) and then being all womanly out came the laundry list of all the times our dikra had made a mistake,.,,,which was only once!.. To Kya Hua!!

So I found it a little cute...very wife & hubby like...

And like Aamir Khan from Andaz Apna Apna..."Kaccha Khiladi Hai"...😉... With some more dose will slowly learn to recognize the Code Alerts and deliver appropriate response...

However the rest is all Blah...

Smrth / Arshi-
I have taken to reading spoilers to get a sense of where we are at...

Read some spoilers and felt they are going to desecrate MZZB too...😡...with Saras as Adil and Kusum as Saba on the day of Saba & Arfeen's wedding...with Kumud as Arfeen...

Dear God in Heaven...😭

well saras has the next task cut out for him...solve the dense desai riddle ...kumud days of rona dhona are not yet over by a long shot...days before kumud is ''rolling in the deep'' with saras ...sigh

It's a lament no more. How can it be a lament? Even if we look through kumud's eyes, how is saras's rejection responsible for kusum's state? Because if he was a real jija ji she would not have fallen for him? And is it a lament when he doesn't know what's happening. Or just pure blame.

Originally posted by: pasumarthisa

It's a lament no more. How can it be a lament? Even if we look through kumud's eyes, how is saras's rejection responsible for kusum's state? Because if he was a real jija ji she would not have fallen for him? And is it a lament when he doesn't know what's happening. Or just pure blame.

I just want to understand how should we interpret this - she says u r responsible for my suster's plight and he is like What?

She has repeatedly blamed him. But anyone else would be crushed under the burden of this blame .

👏 friends ,toodledo.

Originally posted by: smrth

Smrth / Arshi-
I have taken to reading spoilers to get a sense of where we are at...

Read some spoilers and felt they are going to desecrate MZZB too...😡...with Saras as Adil and Kusum as Saba on the day of Saba & Arfeen's wedding...with Kumud as Arfeen...

Dear God in Heaven...😭

* Spoiler Alert *

smrth--

The spoilers say -
- kumud does not tell saras about kusum..
- so saras enters kusum's room to tell her not to worry...thinking she would be worried about danny//
- mohan's family enters kusum's room...find saras and kusum...and start blaming saras & kusum as having an affair..
- kusum's wedding will break
- then kumud will tell saras to marry kusum..to which saras will refuse..

In MZZB...Adil & Saba in same room at nikaah raises the same type of ruckus...and a confused Arfeen blames Saba too..

Same twist is being attempted here with following character placements (though relationships in SC are different)
Saras - Adil
Kusum - Saba
Kumud - Arfeen

Originally posted by: smrth

Can not believe it! Here he is...openly telling her, 'I would have supported kusum if it were between you two. I saw her before you...blah...and concluding 'I feel responsible for her'...that responsibility dialogue triggers a valid reminder of root irresponsibility and yet it is Kumud at fault? If Kumud would have uttered one tenth of such 'blaspheme', she would have been hauled over the coal...* shaking head* ...first time Arshi...let us agree to disagree.

So I m getting an idea of what happened today thanks to CB.. I wouldn't blame Kumud or Saras.. They are not wrong..they are STUPID.. and IMPRACTICAL and ILLOGICAL.. These type of ideologies do NOT exist.. where you put everyone around you before yourself and your happiness.. To hell with ''sacrifice'' This is NOT sacrifice.. If children throw illogical tantrums and cry their lungs out to get their way, parents should NOT give in.. they should reason out and if required give a resounding slap ..and this woman we are talking about is no kid..

@smrth- feeling responsible for someone , is in a totally different context.. Saras as an elder brother will feel responsible for Danny and Kumari too.. I think , the current scenario, where he thinks that Kusum is not able to voice her opinion about Danny, he feels she ''needs'' her more.. I am sure when he gets to know the truth he will feel revolted.. he must! I will hate to see him ''helpless'' or numb then.. He must put his foot down and say in no less words to Kusum directly that she has and will always be like a sister to him.. and NO WAY is he going to give in to any kind of emotional blackmailing. and Danny has got nothing to do with it..though that too stands as a fact that would NEVER want to marry a girl who his brother loves and who is his once fiance/soulmate's sister.. This is INSANE..

Originally posted by: vaishali-AR

So I m getting an idea of what happened today thanks to CB.. I wouldn't blame Kumud or Saras.. They are not wrong..they are STUPID.. and IMPRACTICAL and ILLOGICAL.. These type of ideologies do NOT exist.. where you put everyone around you before yourself and your happiness.. To hell with ''sacrifice'' This is NOT sacrifice.. If children throw illogical tantrums and cry their lungs out to get their way, parents should NOT give in.. they should reason out and if required give a resounding slap ..and this woman we are talking about is no kid..

@smrth- feeling responsible for someone , is in a totally different context.. Saras as an elder brother will feel responsible for Danny and Kumari too.. I think , the current scenario, where he thinks that Kusum is not able to voice her opinion about Danny, he feels she ''needs'' her more.. I am sure when he gets to know the truth he will feel revolted.. he must! I will hate to see him ''helpless'' or numb then.. He must put his foot down and say in no less words to Kusum directly that she has and will always be like a sister to him.. and NO WAY is he going to give in to any kind of emotional blackmailing. and Danny has got nothing to do with it..though that too stands as a fact that would NEVER want to marry a girl who his brother loves and who is his once fiance/soulmate's sister.. This is INSANE..

Vaishali-

Both should just elope!
And screw the family wamily ...
Let pramad, danny, kalika, kusum adi ityaadi stay in the desai hotel and sort each other out..

👍🏼

Originally posted by: vaishali-AR

So I m getting an idea of what happened today thanks to CB.. I wouldn't blame Kumud or Saras.. They are not wrong..they are STUPID.. and IMPRACTICAL and ILLOGICAL.. These type of ideologies do NOT exist.. where you put everyone around you before yourself and your happiness.. To hell with ''sacrifice'' This is NOT sacrifice.. If children throw illogical tantrums and cry their lungs out to get their way, parents should NOT give in.. they should reason out and if required give a resounding slap ..and this woman we are talking about is no kid..

@smrth- feeling responsible for someone , is in a totally different context.. Saras as an elder brother will feel responsible for Danny and Kumari too.. I think , the current scenario, where he thinks that Kusum is not able to voice her opinion about Danny, he feels she ''needs'' her more.. I am sure when he gets to know the truth he will feel revolted.. he must! I will hate to see him ''helpless'' or numb then.. He must put his foot down and say in no less words to Kusum directly that she has and will always be like a sister to him.. and NO WAY is he going to give in to any kind of emotional blackmailing. and Danny has got nothing to do with it..though that too stands as a fact that would NEVER want to marry a girl who his brother loves and who is his once fiance/soulmate's sister.. This is INSANE..