Why Pramad is a SORE loser...

Till recently even I had a little sympathy for the guy. Maybe he was neglected, maybe he didn't receive the necessary love from his Dad. He even got forced in to this marriage...poor guy no?

NOT AT ALL. Does he not talk back to his father all the time? Does he not rebel against every little thing? Does he not come home drunk shamelessly in front of his parents? Well if he has the will power and rebellious streak to do all that then surely he has it in him to refuse the marriage with Kumud. Or was that a drunken yes? How easy is it for us to blame our parents for not giving us this or that in life but then still make demands to fulfil their other wishes. It's just a sign of a WEAK person.

I know some people here hate Kumud so much that all their sympathies are with Pramad but I really didn't know that the below actions could truly be justified:

-Forcing alcohol down anyone's mouth like Pramad did to Kumud.
-Taking her to the edge of the cliff on your very first wedding night.
-Bruising her physically and mentally.
-Continuously throwing glass near her which could easily injure her.
-Claiming that Kumud must have multiple lovers (Um yeh he's no Vanraj!!)
-gloating that someone has died. What a poor excuse of a man he is.

You find this guy justified? If he has the strength to constantly disagree with his Dad then he should have had the strength to say no to this marriage. Forced marriages do not give licenses to violence! And those supporting his actions...really? like seriously?

Having a bad childhood is one thing (which Pramad didn't! It was one incident!!) but having a violent nature is another.

*standing-frickin-ovation* Second each of your words for the brute... His core is not only hollow but diseased. He is irredeemably screwed up. No hope for Pramad. The sooner Kumud accepts that, the better. Because SD will be her Brutus... She will lead the charge for Kumud's head once the truth comes out about Navin/Saras. That woman, disgusts me, and her son, offends my very sensibilities. They both are an affront, and its an outrage that they're being given carte blanche.

Originally posted by: IdiotViewer

*standing-frickin-ovation* Second each of your words for the brute... His core is not only hollow but diseased. He is irredeemably screwed up. No hope for Pramad. The sooner Kumud accepts that, the better. Because SD will be her Brutus... She will lead the charge for Kumud's head once the truth comes out about Navin/Saras. That woman, disgusts me, and her son, offends my very sensibilities. They both are an affront, and its an outrage that they're being given carte blanche.

Why thank you :)) I seriously cannot believe people are still sympathising with this sick man. No way has he been treated so badly by his family to have such a monstrous personality. Who physically abused him so much that he feels he needs to squeeze Kumud's jaw at every given moment. What gives him that right? He got in to the marriage like Kumud did and at least the latter is genuinely trying but Pramad is just brutal! Fine he's in an unwanted relationship but why ABUSE her to this extent? Worst still, how are people still supporting him after what he did that night? That could have mentally tortured Kumud for life. She's still shaken.

SD= SICK WOMAN. How dare she say it's a matter between Husband and Wife? HOW DARE SHE? She's just as spineless as her son and you're absolutely right. She will be the biggest enemy when the truth comes out. Then she will get her moral ruler out to judge Kumud & Saras. She is more dangerous than Pramad and Kalika.

nice post...

Originally posted by: *Reemz*

Why thank you :)) I seriously cannot believe people are still sympathising with this sick man. No way has he been treated so badly by his family to have such a monstrous personality. Who physically abused him so much that he feels he needs to squeeze Kumud's jaw at every given moment. What gives him that right? He got in to the marriage like Kumud did and at least the latter is genuinely trying but Pramad is just brutal! Fine he's in an unwanted relationship but why ABUSE her to this extent? Worst still, how are people still supporting him after what he did that night? That could have mentally tortured Kumud for life. She's still shaken.

SD= SICK WOMAN. How dare she say it's a matter between Husband and Wife? HOW DARE SHE? She's just as spineless as her son and you're absolutely right. She will be the biggest enemy when the truth comes out. Then she will get her moral ruler out to judge Kumud & Saras. She is more dangerous than Pramad and Kalika.

Agree with you all. Pramaad is sick, and the way he treats Kumud and Kallika shows he is a user and nothing else. I was disgusted when he force fed Kumud, and was really angry when Kumud took that as a win. She had to have a really serious dose of almost a rape to start thinking about her decision. However that stubborn pride of hers is making her blind and she is casting all the blame on Kallika. Kallika is fighting for her ,man with all the weapons she has and she has a right as that guy has used her all her life.

wow great post
pramad is really an animal

Very much agree with all your points. Pramad is a dead case to me. No one can arise or resurrect him. SD is the most dangerous antagonist here. It's high time for Kumud to get back to her home otherwise even God (Saras) cannot save her.

How can anyone sympathise or feel for Pramad is beyond. That man is vile and is sick period. The way he uses women and throws them out like garbage. I feel more for Kumud who is trapped in this so called sham of a marriage. Pramad cannot change and will not change for anyone. He was no way ill treated as a child. Neglected he may have been but that does not excuse this animal behaviour of his. Forcing himself on and pouring drink down Kumud throat is uncalled for. As for SBD she is a shame on women. How can she condone this kind of behaviour turn a blind eye every time and make excuses for her son. How cn she not know that something is going on between Kalika and her son. Has she become blind can she not spot Pramad in the servants room. Bhudidan deserved an applause for slapping his son. Perhaps he should have also slapped his wife for defending their no good son again.

Initially i had little sympathy for Pramad, but his behaviour is just horrible. He doesn't deserve Kumud.

Nice post.