So many questions??????

hunnybunch

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Posted: 12 years ago

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Friends, I have so many questions that needs answers. Please do help me

1. Saras took one wrong step, he accepted and apologized for his mistake, but still KKumud thinks that he shouldn't be forgiven. Was his mistake worth a life-time sentence? Why?

2. Kumud got married on her on will and she was conscious then. She believes in destiny, meaning she has to accept everything coming to her, be it physical or emotional abuse by her husband or her in-laws. Is it how life should be for an educated, understanding girl like KKumud?

3. Kumud got married to a total stranger only for the sake of her family's honour. Now she is ready to sacrifice her everything to protect the honour of her in-laws. Are females, especially daughter-in-laws, only responsible in protecting honour of the families? Aren't males a part of families? Why so much discrimination?

This is the 21st century, people are more aware of such issues, but I agree with the point that still there are so many women who are trapped under the title 'protecting the honour of the family'.

I thank the makers of SC for bringing up such an issue, but currently there isn't a good fight against this issue.

So my dear friends, add your tidbits and do answer the serious questions...I know these are serious and boring issues.

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zara

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Posted: 12 years ago

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Agree but she could divorce

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Posted: 12 years ago

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the show will be success only if they show solution in form of an empowered daughter in law

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Posted: 12 years ago

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one ans Kumi k is mentally sick ... arrogant, annoying, third class ...
i dislike ...Opppsss Hate her😳 and wish her all the bad luck on earth 😃

ps: thats my opinion ...dont care what other people thinks 😃

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hunnybunch

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Posted: 12 years ago

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Originally posted by: shana0127
the show will be success only if they show solution in form of an empowered daughter in law

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How? By acting as a puppet to her in-laws? She could stand against the abuses at least, that doesn't mean the show won't succeed, if she does so.

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Ayushi

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Posted: 12 years ago

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Gud questions zu.. 👏 it should be answered realy..
Erm saras did a big mistake nd ofcourse he is surviving its result..but it should be end soon..becoz its not life worthy mistake..
Kumd is suffering alot..but she beleives on her destiny..so she shouldnt leave her courage. But atleast not hide anything abt prmad from others..

Ofcourse not women are not [only] responsible for family's honour nd blah..but if they do smthing..so..its good for them..When u do good u hv good..

I knw it was totaly dadi types opinion..bt i think its fact..wtsay!

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Posted: 12 years ago

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Originally posted by: khanrocks
Agree but she could divorce

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Posted: 12 years ago

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Very relevant and powerful questions hunnybunch.

1. Saras took one wrong step, he accepted and apologized for his mistake, but still KKumud thinks that he shouldn't be forgiven. Was his mistake worth a life-time sentence? Why?

Right now, Kumud is finding it hard to forgive him.

As for his lifetime of sentence, he hasn't got any sentence. She however is trapped Ina bad marriage.

He is free to move out, forget her, in time fall in love again. Her lack of forgiveness may bother him, but he doesn't have to chain his happiness to it.

He is staying in bd house of his free will. There is no sentence .

In fact by again and again addressing her and talking to her when they are alone, he is creating problems for both of them

So the sentence is self imposed. He is actually free of all bonds

2. Kumud got married on her on will and she was conscious then. She believes in destiny, meaning she has to accept everything coming to her, be it physical or emotional abuse by her husband or her in-laws. Is it how life should be for an educated, understanding girl like KKumud?

There is vast gulf between what should be and what is. The reality of our society ESP of rural India is that a women's lot is with her husband.

In Amir khans programme satyamev jayate, victims of abuse were also educated career women, who were given the message by parents and cops that their lot was with their husbands and they were bringing small issues in the open.

3. Kumud got married to a total stranger only for the sake of her family's honour. Now she is ready to sacrifice her everything to protect the honour of her in-laws. Are females, especially daughter-in-laws, only responsible in protecting honour of the families? Aren't males a part of families? Why so much discrimination?

That is the way it is. The reality of out social system. In. A survey when men were asked if wife beating was okey, a significant percentage said, yes, if she makes a mistake . The mistakes listed were not cooking on time, arguing, talking back etc.

This is the 21st century, people are more aware of such issues, but I agree with the point that still there are so many women who are trapped under the title 'protecting the honour of the family'.

I thank the makers of SC for bringing up such an issue, but currently there isn't a good fight against this issue.

So my dear friends, add your tidbits and do answer the serious questions...I know these are serious and boring issues.

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zara

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Posted: 12 years ago

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Why not atleast she will be free

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Posted: 12 years ago

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1. Saras took one wrong step, he accepted and apologized for his mistake, but still KKumud thinks that he shouldn't be forgiven. Was his mistake worth a life-time sentence? Why?

Is Kumud really punishing Saras or is it Saras who actually wants to b punished? I dont relate with Kumud these days to b honest but still i think she has the right to b angry with Saras about that "ditching at the last minute". Saras can always hope that her bitterness towards him will wash away one day which definitely will but wat he did to her cant b forgotten so easily is my opinion.Yes she knows the truth but He broke her heart into million pieces on that day with that phone call.

2. Kumud got married on her on will and she was conscious then. She believes in destiny, meaning she has to accept everything coming to her, be it physical or emotional abuse by her husband or her in-laws. Is it how life should be for an educated, understanding girl like KKumud?

Yes this i agree with u Zu. She has taken a decision, a very wrong step approved by her family ( this was the deciding factor, if they were adamant in not letting her do that, then ...) She was conscious? For me she was not herself on that day. She was too upset to think abt wat she was doing.
But yes it is sad that she has chosen to bear abuse because again she blamed Saras for it - u have broken me thats why!! She said in the temple. Not fair. Kumud was a strong willed n brave woman. Not an "abla naari".
But she is getting back to life. She stood to that brute yesterday despite her fear. This is a huge step. I'm hopeful.

3. Kumud got married to a total stranger only for the sake of her family's honour. Now she is ready to sacrifice her everything to protect the honour of her in-laws. Are females, especially daughter-in-laws, only responsible in protecting honour of the families? Aren't males a part of families? Why so much discrimination?

Sad reality of life. N ppl like Yash's mom n Pramad's mom r the ones who promote the belief that women have the responsibiltity of saving family honour n reputation. As i always said, most of the time women r women worst enemies.

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