So many questions?????? - Page 4

Originally posted by: omshreejaanu

edited on page 2.
sorry for late reply was on phone earlier.

Res jaan sorry inactive rite nw wil cmnt once I come ol thanks for the pm

I have one question - Why KKumud? Double K? 😛

re your topic- i have one question for you.are you a married woman living in india, dear? the way i see it, kumud was humiliated and deeply hurt when saras called off the wedding.more than her own suffering she felt her parents humiliation unbearable.so she got married in haste. she mentioned that perhaps there might have been problems getting her siblings married which could be possible.she has been abt to marry the love of her life, gotten jilted two days before her wedding, very publicly, got married to an unknown person and is now living in a strange household with people she doesnt know or feel comfortable with.she has been married for maybe a week or fifteen days, i am not sure of the time factor, but do you really expect a newly married woman who has gone through so much in so little time to get up and fight for her rights /or tattle to her parents or in-laws abt her husband?she is numb and yet she has to face the man who dumped her for whatever reasons telling her how she must live her life.she also has to put up with the fact that he is seeing her humiliation, which hurts her ego because she feels helpless and out of control.i am a married woman, brought up and educated in mumbai , but even i would not walk out from my marraige in a week or a months time.the pressures of being a good bahu do exist and maybe given time she might have the guts to protest.you have to be in a newly married womans shoes to feel the pinch, i guess.this is india and lots of things are changing for the better but we still have a long way to go.some things change and some things remain the same, i guess.btw, nice topic. sorry for the longish rant but i dont think anybody out here understands kumuds problem.

Originally posted by: hunnybunch

Friends, I have so many questions that needs answers. Please do help me

1. Saras took one wrong step, he accepted and apologized for his mistake, but still KKumud thinks that he shouldn't be forgiven. Was his mistake worth a life-time sentence? Why?

2. Kumud got married on her on will and she was conscious then. She believes in destiny, meaning she has to accept everything coming to her, be it physical or emotional abuse by her husband or her in-laws. Is it how life should be for an educated, understanding girl like KKumud?

3. Kumud got married to a total stranger only for the sake of her family's honour. Now she is ready to sacrifice her everything to protect the honour of her in-laws. Are females, especially daughter-in-laws, only responsible in protecting honour of the families? Aren't males a part of families? Why so much discrimination?

This is the 21st century, people are more aware of such issues, but I agree with the point that still there are so many women who are trapped under the title 'protecting the honour of the family'.

I thank the makers of SC for bringing up such an issue, but currently there isn't a good fight against this issue.

So my dear friends, add your tidbits and do answer the serious questions...I know these are serious and boring issues.

Answer to 1st ques : His mistake is NOT a worth of having a Life sentence to it.. He did it in No SENSE.. I mean he wasn't in this world when he did this.. and unfortunately Kumud didn't realise it..rather she went on crying.. I agree that his words were rather harsh then. But he doesn't deserve to be in this stage.. he apologised.. yet being critisized.. That isnt fair. He is already paying for his mistake.. Living the life of almost a servant for an unknown person.. Y should he.. coz he is DESTINED to.! That's all i can say abt Saras's present situation.

Answer to 2nd ques : She believes in Destiny.. so she should accept whatever comes to her.. And i dont understand one thing.. She herself took the step of marrying other person rather than Saras , Now she is crying in this way coz Pramad is bad and disgusting.. but if at all Pramad was good , would she be crying like this.. HELL NO..! she would rather be more happier than ever despite the truth that Saras is still around her.. I mean working for her family.. Then she would have accepted his apology , coz she is not in PAIN...!? And the situations would have been very different..! And since she is in pain now... she once blamed him to be respo fr it.. but later took the blame to her own hasty decision of marriage..! But , u r resp fr urself.. so handle it urself Kumud.. and u know why Saras is trying to help u.. coz he still Loves u..!

Answer to 3rd ques : I completely agree with u. All are equally important. And I also think that ur question will get an answer in the end of this Serial.. I mean the CVS might slowly be turning this to be a major SUB PLOT and slowly developing it to give a nice conclusion... Therby making it a socialistic approaching serial.. Inc the TRP's too.. May be they can conclude it in near FUTURE.. or donno wen..! I think that's what the CVS have COOKED for us.! 😆

@hunnybunch Cn I Get A Reply.. O.o :|