Crisp Bytes SC - 9th Aug 13 - Page 2

yes she gave all answers

and many here have been giving these same ans. since ages while defending her .

But I still maintain my stand as i always did .It is the fault of the parents and not kumud sundari herself for the plight she is having.

She as a girl gave herself for her parents and family fulfilling her duties but what about parents did they fulfill their duty.

I have always blamed the parents since day one and i still blame them for being so rash in marrying their daughter..

i will never forgive her parents never !!

as for Kumud she has always been strong and its only reason Saras loves her.Coz she has the strenth and confidence which he lacks.

Alas life of our strong Kumud is gonna be a life long battle.So much i want her to get the happiness she deserves for being so tall and mighty.But may be God always chooses such ladies to give example to others.

All I want is that Saras be their with her forever and give her a solace she so desperately craves ...

One day One Day ...they will be together One day

Originally posted by: happychappy

Loved your CB today, Arshi! 10/10 to you... Great song-choice as well...

Glad you liked tonight... I didnt. Its down to personal preferences...

Remember Hgg-bhai once wondering why all the women on here didnt admire Kumud more? Inspirational, was the word he used... A fighter, and a potental role-model.

And Kumud did reduce Saras to admiration today, like you said.. And theirin lies the nub of why I dont feel empathy for her. I am not inspired but irritated by those who want to be martyrs and save the world even if it gives everyone else nightmares and loads of guilt! And every time someone harks back to the first time Saras said no, like Kumud did today...I just stop listening. What happened afterwards didnt count for anything? poof, just like that?...What the...

Kumud is like an emotional bull-dozer when she comes into form like she has now. Its all about her and herself and her choices, actions, perseverance,and all the other wonderful qualities that Dugba used to say she was bursting with. She will hold up the world and be the ever-suffering dharti-ma, so her parents, in-laws, and sisters, even Yash, can live their golden lives...?Today she came across as self-righteous and sometimes even cruel in the way she cut Saras down to size. If he is still around to admire her (and protect her) after today, that just shows how much he loves her...😉 Amen.

Originally posted by: shana0127

yes she gave all answers

and many here have been giving these same ans. since ages while defending her .

But I still maintain my stand as i always did .It is the fault of the parents and not kumud sundari herself for the plight she is having.

She as a girl gave herself for her parents and family fulfilling her duties but what about parents did they fulfill their duty.

I have always blamed the parents since day one and i still blame them for being so rash in marrying their daughter..

i will never forgive her parents never !!

as for Kumud she has always been strong and its only reason Saras loves her.Coz she has the strenth and confidence which he lacks.

Alas life of our strong Kumud is gonna be a life long battle.So much i want her to get the happiness she deserves for being so tall and mighty.But may be God always chooses such ladies to give example to others.

All I want is that Saras be their with her forever and give her a solace she so desperately craves ...

One day One Day ...they will be together One day

yes one day they will be together
then not only their dream get fullfilled that day but also the dream of we samudians too get fulfilled

Originally posted by: Infofan

Lovely post Arshi. Kumud's explanations, reasons for why she got married, wants to nibhao the shaadi would not surprise anyone on CB thread. I have not been on IF much lately so have not read all the posts but I am sure it has been discussed. Even I mentioned some of them briefly.

Again, CVs are following a novel written over a hundred years back and trying to adapt to current times. They are treading a fine line and its extremely challenging for them. I understand and appreciate their constraints and efforts.

However, from a nayi soch POV, I was not terribly thrilled with some of the reasoning. Disappointed infact. If possible, will elaborate later or wait and read one of the CBians express my thoughts😉

Mrs Jennifer Singh Grover, you were superb today again. Controlled and dignified.

Mr Rode, we have come to expect superlative performances from you and you always deliver!

Originally posted by: shana0127

yes she gave all answers

and many here have been giving these same ans. since ages while defending her .

But I still maintain my stand as i always did .It is the fault of the parents and not kumud sundari herself for the plight she is having.

She as a girl gave herself for her parents and family fulfilling her duties but what about parents did they fulfill their duty.

I have always blamed the parents since day one and i still blame them for being so rash in marrying their daughter..

i will never forgive her parents never !!

as for Kumud she has always been strong and its only reason Saras loves her.Coz she has the strenth and confidence which he lacks.

Alas life of our strong Kumud is gonna be a life long battle.So much i want her to get the happiness she deserves for being so tall and mighty.But may be God always chooses such ladies to give example to others.

All I want is that Saras be their with her forever and give her a solace she so desperately craves ...

One day One Day ...they will be together One day

Originally posted by: arshicritic

@ hotdogg - hats off to you, yesterday's post on Kumud's perspective, came true today- jadugar ji

@ Vaishali - good reading of Kumud's motives Vaishali, I stand corrected !

thanks arshi..😊

super super epi today...
" Mei apni kamzori ki sazaa kisi aur ko nahin deti'
" Mein peeche nahin hatoongi"

just as I hoped ... sherni is back...

@happychappy ...looks like we may still get our nayi soch...an empowered aplha kumud in the drivers seat...taking pramad by the scruff of his neck and fixing him...Precap points to that...

- to your other post on this thread...just use simple cause & effect to determine who is the trigger...trigger will always have greater weightage and responsibility since it is the initiator of the entire chain of events / effect which follows...here it was saras...

...and just like kumud is stuck with the ramifications and accountability of her decision..so to is saras with his...

- also remember when she married pramad she did not know he's an alcoholic...when she took the decision she did not have the liberty to have a 360 degree view we had as viewers...

- and that being responsible for the rest is a burden the eldest sibling of any family carries all his/her life..whether he/she likes it or not...its part of the job description...

- Now saras has apologized...but that train has left the station...despite her love for him...

- and she's not being a martyr...a martyr would be someone who would sit and cry when saras left her or who would sit and cry when pramad abuses her...sort of a self sacrificing machoist...here she's just a pragmatic 'today's' woman...and to borrow a cliche...who knows what she can change, what she cannot change and has the wisdom to know the difference...

- no wonder saras was reduced to admiration...

would love to see this develop and SC / kumud becoming a role model on how to handle domestic abuse...

@smrth...mystery is solved...it was her choice ...poore hosha hawaas mein...

this is an adaptation I really like...

New fear >>> What if SLB turns this not into a HDDCS but an Amar Prem????

Originally posted by: Infofan

Lovely post Arshi. Kumud's explanations, reasons for why she got married, wants to nibhao the shaadi would not surprise anyone on CB thread. I have not been on IF much lately so have not read all the posts but I am sure it has been discussed. Even I mentioned some of them briefly.

Again, CVs are following a novel written over a hundred years back and trying to adapt to current times. They are treading a fine line and its extremely challenging for them. I understand and appreciate their constraints and efforts.

However, from a nayi soch POV, I was not terribly thrilled with some of the reasoning. Disappointed infact. If possible, will elaborate later or wait and read one of the CBians express my thoughts😉

Mrs Jennifer Singh Grover, you were superb today again. Controlled and dignified.

Mr Rode, we have come to expect superlative performances from you and you always deliver!

Nandy...check out my post in last epi CB...will help...
BTW I am one of the few lone ranger types supporting kumud's POV...so need all the support I can get..

😉

Originally posted by: hotdogg

thanks arshi..😊

super super epi today...
" Mei apni kamzori ki sazaa kisi aur ko nahin deti'
" Mein peeche nahin hatoongi"

just as I hoped ... sherni is back...

@happychappy ...looks like we may still get our nayi soch...an empowered aplha kumud in the drivers seat...taking pramad by the scruff of his neck and fixing him...Precap points to that...

- to your other post on this thread...just use simple cause & effect to determine who is the trigger...trigger will always have greater weightage and responsibility since it is the initiator of the entire chain of events / effect which follows...here it was saras...

...and just like kumud is stuck with the ramifications and accountability of her decision..so to is saras with his...

- also remember when she married pramad she did not know he's an alcoholic...when she took the decision she did not have the liberty to have a 360 degree view we had as viewers...

- and that's being responsible for the rest is a burden the eldest sibling of any family carries all his/her life..whether he likes it or not...its part of the job description...

- Now saras has apologized...but that train has left the station...despite her love for him...

- and she's not being a martyr...a martyr would be someone who would sit and cry when saras left her or who would sit and cry when pramad abuses her...sort of a self sacrificing machoist...here she's just a pragmatic 'today's' woman...and to borrow a cliche...who knows what she can change, what she cannot change and has the wisdom to know the difference...

- no wonder saras was reduced to admiration...

would love to see this develop and SC / kumud becoming a role model on how to handle domestic abuse...

@smrth...mystery is solved...it was her choice ...poore hosha hawas mein...

this is an adaptation I really like...

New fear >>> What if SLB turns this not into a HDDCS but an Amar Prem????

Arshi, didnt see the epi but read the WU.