Kumud & Saras: Pride Vs Ego - Page 5

Originally posted by: supriya.arshi

i tried watchin tht show (QH)...but couldn understand the story...nd its more like a family drama...so din bother watchin it agn

Originally posted by: Sanju_

and some people think Kumud keeps saying "he rejected without seeing my face", but that's not because she has a pride in her beauty but because Saras' family sent the proposal first then he himself sent the reject letter without even meeting her...by "mera cehra dekhe bina" she meant without even knowing/seeing her, how could they change their decisions wherein they were the ones to send the proposal in the first place?? but seems like either some people are too blinded by hatred or are incapable of misunderstanding the depth of the characters/emotions.

Originally posted by: anitamalik

Di, you write so beautifully! Loved how you said that. Both the characters do take pride in who they are and what they are. Kumud may have made a mistake and taken her pride a step forward, but at least she had the decency to accept the fact she made a mistake- I think for her that is a huge stepping stone. And I really do hope Saras forgives her one day because he genuinely feels that he should.

Originally posted by: TheMelody.

Beautiful topic :) Always loved reading your topics since DMG days as a silent viewer!!

I'm glad you showed the connotations of pride and ego so simply because coming to this forum and reading numerous monotonous topics on both the characters, especially on Kumud, was getting really frustrating. 😳 Kumud is definitely a prideful woman but with a small hint of ego, which I personally don't see as a bad thing. It's only human nature to be a little egoistic at times, no? However, their characters may be, they're very similar to each other and are head-to-head when it comes to pride. That's exactly what sets them apart from any other duo I've seen before.

Originally posted by: harshana1

Since it is a thin line I do think kumud went between ego and pride. And having to much pride also is a bad thing. I just wanna say that a person can still be honest and arrogant. I don't hate her I was annoyed by her too I think she was overdoing it but she made it up to us on Friday when it showed how sorry she was.

Originally posted by: bheegi

Hi Anita! How are you? Miss interacting with you. How's college? You must have graduated by now😊Time flies. I am glad we can interact again thanks to SC. Yes, an egoistic person has a very hard time saying sorry. Kumud's plea for forgiveness is very genuine and not laced with arrogance

Di, I'm doing well! Hope you're doing well. I see you around FB (I'm Anu on FB LOL) and love reading your analysis on QH episodes :) So glad you've ventured into SC forum cause I would LOVE to read more amazing posts like this more often! Your posts are thought provoking and really make me want to reanalyze the characters' actions! Time does fly by..I'm graduating December hopefully! Thanks for asking😳

I've read your replies to other posts and I completely agree with what you're saying. I think Kumud has a lot of pride in her, which sometimes looks as if she's being egoistic to others when she really isn't. It's just a clash of pride between Kumud and Saras...like that dialogue where Saras went "sirf mujhpe bharosa nahin hai, ya bharosa karna aata nahin hai"- Kumud knows how to trust, but her pride is getting the better of her when it comes to Saras due to the rejection and the insult she feels as a result of that.

Originally posted by: Jammy-

Asad's nickname is Jammy? 😲

Sorry man, I have no clue about that. My username is short for my name. 😃

I understand that pride of hers... if I were in her shoes I would have probably not entertained at all but then again it isn't my story 😳

I understand the 'chehra nahi dikhaungi' -that comes under pride...taunting him about how untrustworthy he is, that he is a coward... all that was uncalled for... especially because she doesn't know him AT ALL. A very thin line between ego and

Originally posted by: Jugliji

Very well said. If anybody wants to really see "EGO" and "ARROGANCE" they have to take a peek on the show MEIEJ. Kumud was hurt and so was Saras . I am sure they will both come out of it graciously. They do make a cute couple.

Originally posted by: anitamalik

Di, I'm doing well! Hope you're doing well. I see you around FB (I'm Anu on FB LOL) and love reading your analysis on QH episodes :) So glad you've ventured into SC forum cause I would LOVE to read more amazing posts like this more often! Your posts are thought provoking and really make me want to reanalyze the characters' actions! Time does fly by..I'm graduating December hopefully! Thanks for asking😳

I've read your replies to other posts and I completely agree with what you're saying. I think Kumud has a lot of pride in her, which sometimes looks as if she's being egoistic to others when she really isn't. It's just a clash of pride between Kumud and Saras...like that dialogue where Saras went "sirf mujhpe bharosa nahin hai, ya bharosa karna aata nahin hai"- Kumud knows how to trust, but her pride is getting the better of her when it comes to Saras due to the rejection and the insult she feels as a result of that.

Originally posted by: bheegi

Oh ok...so are you Anu kajen on FB? Good luck with graduation. Yeah, saras and kumud are both strong headed and proud people..it will be interesting to see how this relationship evolves

Yes thats me! Thanks so much :)) I agree, I think their strong personalities and the execution of their clashes is what makes this love story different from the others!