Originally posted by: shahsb_26
Outside Gunjan, there is nothing left for him...
Yes, he is possessive... But that is not a crime...
Gunjan now understands him, and fact remains that Gunjan still Loves him..!!
Love is not the only ingrediant, but Love is utmost in any relationship,... which is found in their... and now at this point all negative points are eliminated, like family issues and and reasons why Mayank was behaving soo arrogantly...
Imagine this condition... Guy visit some place to plan a surprise for his gf, and he sees his gf with someone else... I think anybody would feel bad... specially if she was asked about going to date but she denys saying she has to get ready for test... So isn't even Gunjan at fault at that time??
She as well did not trust him... to tell him, what she is doing with Vihaan...
But previous mistakes have made them realize how wrong they were, and are nor more mature...
And C'mon people are already forgiving Vihaan for his selfish Revenge on sisters which was super worse than what Mayank did.!!
And people forgive him and not Mayank..Superb...
Nothing Wrong in being Possesive, I guess we all are possessive about someone/something at some point of time.
Mayank committed Suicide, which is borderline obsession to me not being Possessive.
I haven't ever seen anybody committing suicide while being just Possesive, that explains it that Mayank is obsessed with Gunjan, which can be harmful & very dangerous.
Gunjan now understands Mayank's behaviour but will she ever be able to accept, adjust & live with it? Maybe the new Gunjan could who easily takes crap from everyone but certainly not the Old Gunjan whom I knew, could relate with & adore.
Love is an important ingredient, Agreed but Trust, Respect & Mutual Understanding are at par with Love & also maybe above it atleast to me. MayAn have a lot of love but very less understanding, Respect & Trust for each other & this relationship CANNOT AT ALL Survive, atleast IMO.
I never brought out the time when Gunjan lied to Mayank & went to Vihaan's Party to help Rachna which I guess you are talking about. Mayank & his anger was totally justified during this incident & hence I didn't bring this up while pointing out his faults.
I am talking about the time when during engagement, Gunjan's friends arrived & when she hugged her Guy Friends, Mayank got all insecure & angry. He very well knows Gunjan is a modern girl & it is normal to hug friends in the upbringing, he knows that well but still that reaction of his proved their incompatability.
Just when Aditya's Proposal came for Gunjan & she agreed for marriage, Mayank mishandled Gunjan physically against her wishes taking his frustration out on her & on top of that, he asked her to elope with him. Seriously? Does he ever think the consequences such actions of him can cause! An ex girlfriend eloping with her ex now married lover?
Does Mayank understand what havoc this will cause to his families, his & Gunjan's reputation? No he doesn't! He just likes to run away from his problems & not face them like a coward. Can Gunjan EVER be happy with such a guy?
& Again I repeat, Can't Love happen more than Once? Yes it can.
Can Gunjan move on & again fall in Love & get a better guy? Ofcourse she can.
& To be honest, I am not at all concerned with People who have forgiven Him. I haven't forgiven him & that is all I am concerned with. The Same can be said for few MayAn fans too who seem to have forgiven Mayank but not Vihaan. Its because everyone has their personal choice & favorites so its obvious that they are gonna be more sympathetic towards the people they like. Its their personal choice to forgive/unforgive them & we can't call hypocrisy on them. I have nor forgiven Mayank nor Vihaan, as of now so do not include me in that please :)
Among the men, I only support & admire Rajeev since the guy hasn't wronged anyone like the other two yet.
Arjun
