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Posted: 12 years ago
#41

Originally posted by: deejayaqueel

Actually it isnt... i feel Pihu is important to put into perspective Rachna's behaviour.. coz all the reasons being mentioned for Rachna are relevant elsewhere... bringing Pihu in brings in a slightly more objective perspective... because we are either saying that Rachna is justified coz Gunjan is unnecessarily being shown as Mahaan or we are bringing out the issue of sibling resentment.. .in both cases there it is important to put a third party POV to discuss whether Rachna is justified or not
No offence taken or meant... 😊
However if everyone feels that Pihu is a random diversion and Rachna is justified coz her POV only is important not Gunjan or Pihu then i am sorry for bringing it in, i will leave this discussion



i want to say only that pihu is past while gunjan is present. gunjan is revolutionary person who awaken even Dayal from orthodox thoughts. person must be given a chance to change himself. Gunjan arrived garg house and then started changing situations. while pihu was already got married. she is now outsider.
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Posted: 12 years ago
#42

Originally posted by: smruti1981



i want to say only that pihu is past while gunjan is present. gunjan is revolutionary person who awaken even Dayal from orthodox thoughts. person must be given a chance to change himself. Gunjan arrived garg house and then started changing situations. while pihu was already got married. she is now outsider.

That is exactly the point... if coz of changes Rachna is resenting and ranting against Gunjan, then Pihu can also do the same, coz a lot of changes due to Gunjan benefited Rachna which Pihu is not a part of...
So if people feel Rachna is justified is yelling at Gunjan coz she is getting all the partial treatment and freedom, then Pihu can also feel that... the larger ppoint that i am making is that sibling rivalry and resentment is understandable but Rachna cannot be entirely justified in hating Gunjan instead of directing it at Vihaan for putting her through this...
Will now leave this discussion forum since i clearly do not seem to be getting out of Gunjan-Rachna-Pihu😳
Edited by deejayaqueel - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
#43
i think it would be over when Rachna would take revenge from vihan and show all family members her potential. after that her anger would be lost over gunjan. till then Rachna is all alone to face vihan and she needs to do it.
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Posted: 12 years ago
#44
Partially agree with Tm.
Rachna is irritated coz of her comparison vth G this time. Many of us do show this behavior.
But she forgot she was trapped by Mintu, why she did not protect herself and she was almost lost @ that time.
For us (viewers) there is no difference b/w Mintu and V. Cant she c that difference?

She wrote letter to Rajeev sir on Chaya's advise, Rajeev is a good person so everything went well. But she never thinks if he might have been a bad boy like V, what could have happened to her.

Now Mintu and Vihan both are in revenge mode. I wish G keeps herself away from R, we will watch how Rachana tackles the situation if she is trapped by any of them in future.

Gunjan just wanted to bring the truth to everyone specially rachna, She did her job. Now if R does not want her to interfere, its her wish.

G please go to college, study and come back. Be like a normal girl...u need not proove everytime that u r a good sister.
Edited by nnmm - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
#45

Originally posted by: deejayaqueel

That is exactly the point... if coz of changes Rachna is resenting and ranting against Gunjan, then Pihu can also do the same, coz a lot of changes due to Gunjan benefited Rachna which Pihu is not a part of...
So if people feel Rachna is justified is yelling at Gunjan coz she is getting all the partial treatment and freedom, then Pihu can also feel that... the larger ppoint that i am making is that sibling rivalry and resentment is understandable but Rachna cannot be entirely justified in hating Gunjan instead of directing it at Vihaan for putting her through this...
Will now leave this discussion forum since i clearly do not seem to be getting out of Gunjan-Rachna-Pihu😳



Here you are confusing Pihu's lack of opportunities with Rachna's public humiliations courtesy gunjan. And Vihaan is a direct enemy for Rachna and Gunjan is an indirect enemy. Rachna can face and deal with a direct enemy but not an indirect enemy.
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Posted: 12 years ago
#46

Originally posted by: leavesandwaves



Here you are confusing Pihu's lack of opportunities with Rachna's public humiliations courtesy gunjan. And Vihaan is a direct enemy for Rachna and Gunjan is an indirect enemy. Rachna can face and deal with a direct enemy but not an indirect enemy.

I think we should just agree to disagree 😊... this is not going anywhere... coz my POV to the same point is again the opposite... Rachna's public humiliation was courtesy Vihaan not Gunjan... Pihu's lack of opportunities would have been the same for Rachna too (except that she did get more opportunities coz of Gunjan - Hockey, Crushes etc.)... this blowing up of issues happened coz of Vihaan... who i dont see her dealing with, direct enemy or not...
And i can buy your point on Gunjan-Rachna having a sibling resentment, dont buy your point on Gunjan being an indirect enemy...
Finally, i agree with what someone just said... Gunjan should stop overprotecting Rachna and let Rachna fend for herself... Mintu, Vihaan or whoever, she should stop whining if she feels Gunjan is stealing her thunder and start discerning right from wrong, deal with bad, and focus on pursuing her dream
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Posted: 12 years ago
#47

Originally posted by: nnmm

Partially agree with Tm.
Rachna is irritated coz of her comparison vth G this time. Many of us do show this behavior.
But she forgot she was trapped by Mintu, why she did not protect herself and she was almost lost @ that time.
For us (viewers) there is no difference b/w Mintu and V. Cant she c that difference?

She wrote letter to Rajeev sir on Chaya's advise, Rajeev is a good person so everything went well. But she never thinks if he might have been a bad boy like V, what could have happened to her.

Now Mintu and Vihan both are in revenge mode. I wish G keeps herself away from R, we will watch how Rachana tackles the situation if she is trapped by any of them in future.

Gunjan just wanted to bring the truth to everyone specially rachna, She did her job. Now if R does not want her to interfere, its her wish.

G please go to college, study and come back. Be like a normal girl...u need not proove everytime that u r a good sister.

Completely agree 👏
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Posted: 12 years ago
#48
now gunjan is irritating she is trying to be over smart
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Posted: 12 years ago
#49
Rachana is 100 % wrong here. First of all even though it was wrong on Vihaan's part to call her a bahenji she does and has always behaved like one. Yet when she wanted to, she would try to be braver by doing only stupid things (like making the internet friend with the creep who blackmailed her or showing up at Rajiv's dorm and leaving food). Rachna has mostly behaved like a weakling (nothing to do with her upbringing because Pihu is not passive like her). When you behave like a weakling, your loved ones try and protect you and Gunjan also tried to get Rachna to get put of her shell. If family is praising Gunjan, it's NOT Gunjan's fault. If Rachna's dreams were crashed, it was not Gunjan's fault. Rachna was the one who sent Gunjan to meet Vihaan as Rachna because of her obsession over Rajiv. Rachna has absolutely no right on her tantrums with Gunjan. She should be thankful that Gunjan saved her from a creep like Vihaan and not to forget saving her from the blackmailer earlier (Gunjan even had an acid thrown on herself for helping Rachna)

I think Rachna needs to apologize and thank Gunjan
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Posted: 12 years ago
#50
I think Rachna has become jealous of gunjun. But I really wish she would at least try and become a better person instead of wallowing in self-pity!

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