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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: leavesandwaves

Pihu is justified in her own way. We never know what happened with her and how she was married off in such a hurry. Rachna is younger to Pihu and in many homes the younger one gets more attention and love and given more leeway(it maybe only very little). Even rachna is being married off in a hurry and even the mumbai girl gunjan has no problem to get married at such an young age. Thank god pihu is not yet pregnant.


Completely agree with the fact that Pihu is justified... and we do know what happened in her life because one day she ranted at Shail at the unfairness of it all... she was the eldest and got married off really young coz that was what was right in Dayals dictionary for daughters... she was not asked what her dreams were or what she would have liked to do... and to top it all she was married to a person who she doesnt even think was very smart or great...
Now tell me should she have refused to talk to Rachna coz she was allowed to pursue her dreams interact with the worpd, do all those things that her parents had deemed wrong for... the parents have treated one unfairly and there is nothibg on the face of it she can do to get that lost time back...
Should she blame Rachna coz today her father is more liberal abput things allowong Rachna to do what she never could have... that today she is what she is only coz of them and Rachna is a diff person jusy coz of circumstanced?
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Many in Pihu position hold grudges lifelong. It is a sort of love hate relationship between siblings. Siblings usually dont love unconditionally. Though Pihu may not love Rachna too much, she will always side with Rachna when it comes to Gunjan who is an outsider in her eyes. Shail's excessive showoff love towards Rachna or Gunjan has made things worse for everyone.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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rachna out burst on gunjan was painful but spoke her state of mind but now she has to understand gunjan cares for her sister
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Posted: 12 years ago
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I have seen many siblings who fight like tom and jerry all the time.The exaggerated love shown is only onscreen. Siblings have lots of grouses. My sister has 2 daughters. And if she praises one, she has to balance by praising the other too for no reason. Otherwise there will be tears and sulking which she has to deal with. When buying gifts, my sister has to show utmost tact and yet one of them feels aggrieved eyeing the other one's gift. There are so many hilarious incidents.

There is one instance where a brother tried to strangulate the younger brother and the act was noticed in time.

We know how the famous Ambani brothers separated for a very long while.

So there is nothing black and white in any relationship.
Edited by leavesandwaves - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Guys, very happy discussion is going on.
after reading all of your POV, i would like to give my opinion quite different.
this all fighting is about rachna is wrong or right with gunjan.
Actually this is her middle stage of progress. CV's want to show now real Rachna.
in the very beginning we all came to know that Rachna is fearful girl and living in dream world. Fear is because of her home atmosphere and specially of Dayal.
while dream is because of her wishes are not coming true because of restrictions at home.
CV's showed us that she has potential and she can get what she wants but need is only that her ego must hurt by using hockey chapter.
even she crossed the boundaries drawn by Dayal to prove herself best player of course it was by Rajeev.
only Rajeev's statement help us what actually matter is.::
she is good, her thoughts are good but she is fearful. but when her ego would be hurt, she would go over her obstinacy to prove herself. and then she would not fear.

this situation is running on her real life. she is also able to face challenge and she has great courageous but only when her ego is hurt. she can not tolerate that someone underestimate herself.

unintentionally her ego is hurt by gunjan's adventures. not by vihan. now she will prove herself opposite of "behenji".
vihan always said that rachna is always remain fearful. now his statement would be proved wrong by rachna. and rachna will get success also in this fight.

so it is necessary to hurt her ego and make her fearless girl. but bonding between two sisters is lost forever as i think .
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: leavesandwaves

Many in Pihu position hold grudges lifelong. It is a sort of love hate relationship between siblings. Siblings usually dont love unconditionally. Though Pihu may not love Rachna too much, she will always side with Rachna when it comes to Gunjan who is an outsider in her eyes. Shail's excessive showoff love towards Rachna or Gunjan has made things worse for everyone.





I am now confused what your point is... are you pointing out the issue oft sibling rivalry fostered by parents or saying that Rachna is jutified in behaving that way with Gunjan and hence similarly Pihu should also be justified in holding a grudge with Rachna all life long... incidentally if Pihu unites with Rachna against an outsider Gunjan then so too must Rachna unite with Gunjan against Vihaan who is the outsider now... yet to see any signs of that...

i may be wrong but i get the feeling thatk your point of reference is Rachna in the serial hence you are seeing it from her POV, if you were to pull back you'd probably realize that what Rachna is givinf Gunjan can very easily be given by Pihu to her coz Shail has lavished much more care on Rachna than Pihu... in that event none are wrong but if you justify one behaviour you need to have as much sympathy for the other... which could easily mean that Pihu should be justified in irrationally feeling happy Rachna's engagement to a veritable catch didnt happen... while she'll be there to sooth the hurt she will feel good that Rachna didnt get what she also didnt get.. the converse would be that when Rachna tries to build her life again by focussing on her ambitions and wins accolades then Pihu shoild be the one to grudge and resent her the most creating an angry outburst deriding Rachna's achievements ' coz the father is now praising what he never allowed eaelier...
Edited by deejayaqueel - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
#37
please transfer and focus on point for rachna, not pihu... no offense but topic is getting diverted.
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Posted: 12 years ago
#38

Originally posted by: smruti1981

please transfer and focus on point for rachna, not pihu... no offense but topic is getting diverted.

Actually it isnt... i feel Pihu is important to put into perspective Rachna's behaviour.. coz all the reasons being mentioned for Rachna are relevant elsewhere... bringing Pihu in brings in a slightly more objective perspective... because we are either saying that Rachna is justified coz Gunjan is unnecessarily being shown as Mahaan or we are bringing out the issue of sibling resentment.. .in both cases there it is important to put a third party POV to discuss whether Rachna is justified or not
No offence taken or meant... 😊
However if everyone feels that Pihu is a random diversion and Rachna is justified coz her POV only is important not Gunjan or Pihu then i am sorry for bringing it in, i will leave this discussion
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Posted: 12 years ago
#39

Originally posted by: deejayaqueel

Actually it isnt... i feel Pihu is important to put into perspective Rachna's behaviour.. coz all the reasons being mentioned for Rachna are relevant elsewhere... bringing Pihu in brings in a slightly more objective perspective... because we are either saying that Rachna is justified coz Gunjan is unnecessarily being shown as Mahaan or we are bringing out the issue of sibling resentment.. .in both cases there it is important to put a third party POV to discuss whether Rachna is justified or not
No offence taken or meant... 😊
However if everyone feels that Pihu is a random diversion and Rachna is justified coz her POV only is important not Gunjan or Pihu then i am sorry for bringing it in, i will leave this discussion



on the time of pihu was not married, gunjan was not arrived there. atmosphere and people started to change their mind after arrival of gunjan only. so it is different perspective as i think.
if gunjan would not arrive, Rachna would be same as previous and also may not play hockey even. there is big part of gunjan to bring new Rachna. and this is going to be continue in current track also.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: deejayaqueel

Actually it isnt... i feel Pihu is important to put into perspective Rachna's behaviour.. coz all the reasons being mentioned for Rachna are relevant elsewhere... bringing Pihu in brings in a slightly more objective perspective... because we are either saying that Rachna is justified coz Gunjan is unnecessarily being shown as Mahaan or we are bringing out the issue of sibling resentment.. .in both cases there it is important to put a third party POV to discuss whether Rachna is justified or not
No offence taken or meant... 😊
However if everyone feels that Pihu is a random diversion and Rachna is justified coz her POV only is important not Gunjan or Pihu then i am sorry for bringing it in, i will leave this discussion


i like how you are bringing pihu, it will definitely bring some new light and make us aware with some new points. I thoroughly enjoyed ur point which u have mentioned in one of the post - " i may be wrong but i get the feeling thatk your point of reference is Rachna in the serial hence you are seeing it from her POV, if you were to pull back you'd probably realize that what Rachna is givinf Gunjan can very easily be given by Pihu to her coz Shail has lavished much more care on Rachna than Pihu" i can definitely see what u r trying to say and it is completely justified.

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