Bidaai making society hate dusky girls:Mod's note PG16 - Page 3

Originally posted by: Veritas

I agree with the topic maker to some extent...
the show does send out a somewhat subtle message tht dark people e .lack moral courage..
the majority of bidaai's viewership lies in rural and level b towns..and there you already have a mindset ..tht doesn't need it reinforced...

The problem is when they higlight the color issue..like wiith Kaushi,Chotimaa,Ragini and now Tamanna ..all have repeatedly been addressed as dark and then u see them failing somewhere...

But Vasu /MAlti who do have many character flaws much more thn say Kaushi /Ragini are never addressed as fair or their color is never highlighted...we know they are fair,but it just fades into the background...so u don't connect it....

Unintentionally they have ended up connecting dark color with bad behavior..
You just have to see some utube comments during the rift track...

I agree with you to some extent. Vasu-Ambika...both are negative/grey characters. SanGini/TaShi - there is not just color issue but also the fair girl is an orphan that makes a huge difference. People are quick to blame Ragini but Mamaji also failed in Sadhana's case. He gave her sanksaars and values but he could never control Kaushi's behavior and made Sadhana understand that she is not responsible for Ragini's miseries.

I feel the show tries to establish the concept, that how much love is there, there are a certain group of people like Vasu, Kaushi, Malti who always try to hit at the weak points of two people and separate them.. They did the same for Sagini, who were epitomes of sibling love..and now they are trying to show the same is being done for Khushi-Tamanna. The society taunts Ragini-Tamanna for being dark and Khushi-Sadhna for being so called orphans.

I agree with Topic starter to some extent ,Bidaai failed to portray Dark skinned people in a good way .They are shown Weak and jealous . There are many better ways to show the discrimination and the most important thing neglected by the CT's is how dark skinned people deal with this discrimination . Uptill now none of them have dealt it strongly and have succumed to this evil ,and as @Veritas said ,i have read those comments in Youtube during Rift track and those comments are very sick

Originally posted by: sweetsomya

I really wonder what is the main theme of bidaai,is it one should look for inner beauty or this show is made on theme that dark girls are ugly looking and at the same time jealous and selfish girls.

I really feel bidaai is a threat to India society,Indian society which is already facing so many issues will now have one more issue to in its list and that is colour discrimination.

I always felt that bidaai wants to spread the message that dark girls are always jealous and weak inside,they cant face life problems,they always need some fair fairy to tackle their problems

and worst they show that if among two sister one is dark and one is fair then that dark girl will be jealous of her fair skinned sister's success and beauty.

Why this show is hell bent on proving this thing that dark is ugly

Again they are showing tamanaa the dark skin sister negative, I think this show is going to make society develop a notion that darkskinned girls are bad

This show is a threat to indian society where already in small towns and villages fair girls are considered over darker ones in every sphere and now with this show they will definately develop a notion that dark girls are indeed bad at heart too

This show must be immediately stopped and a strict legal action must be taken against people who are realted with this show

All those people who feel this show will spread wrong message to the society regarding dark girls ,we must come together and take a strict action this show

This is true those who are religioulsy following this show have definately started hating dark skinned girls and one example is from my family ,my mother has suddenly developed notion kali ladki dil ki bhi kali hoti hai aur gauri ladki dil ki bhi achi hoti hai and my massi also has same feeling

Guys this show is creating havoc in the socitey ,The show is slowly very slowly making a wrong impression on people's mind reagrding dark girls.

A strict action needs to be taken before its too late

I agree with the post starter! The whole society acts this way. It is disgusting!

in today's time ....... tlevision affects the thinking of ppl to a major extent ........ especially the ladies ........ so its very imp for ppl making tv shows to understand their social responsibility in this regard .......... RS has done totally against his social resp. towrds the society .......... he needs to be pinished infact n stopped from spreading such a wrong msg to the society !!

I agree with whatever you have said. believe me I was waiting a topic like this. Actually I just see one indian show it's DMG. One day accidentally I came across with this show, I felt what kind of show is this, who cares abt. white n black.

We youngsters doesn't even think all abt. this. No body cares abt. all this, I got to some time my niece school, I have never see any kids face all this problem. This show is giving bad impact on society. I believe in India, people see all this daily shows, how can people love this kind of show. It should get banned.

i totally agree with all your points like when bidaai started out it was meant 2 b about 2 girls with the same qualities except their skin colour was diffrent n how society judged them then all of sudden sadhna was the sacrfising 1 and ragni was the mean one in the rift track and as sum1 said features show beauty not skin colour as many have said ragni has more defined feature (this is not bashing sadhna she is equally beautiful to me) now further going on to the leap i really wanted tammana being shown as the more confident 1 as many have said she has a mother and a father so she would be more secure and again they are showing khushi as the sacrifising 1 is this only to show white people are clean hearted and only do best for the people ( i may be going off track here but in asian society the darker skin colour is nt seen as good or pure etc so by portraying the white person as always being good and the dark person always needing the white persons help just makes them thoughts in backwards asain people more that white is pure colour and dark people no matter how nice always have some flaws) . in every societ wheather white or black every1 has flaws so if they showed sadhna (white) as the more sacrifising one i feel in this series it should be only fair to show tammana as the more prominent one to show no matter whather dark or light good nature is in all no matter whgat the cloour

Originally posted by: caroash

I agree with whatever you have said. believe me I was waiting a topic like this. Actually I just see one indian show it's DMG. One day accidentally I came across with this show, I felt what kind of show is this, who cares abt. white n black.

We youngsters doesn't even think all abt. this. No body cares abt. all this, I got to some time my niece school, I have never see any kids face all this problem. This show is giving bad impact on society. I believe in India, people see all this daily shows, how can people love this kind of show. It should get banned.