Bidaai making society hate dusky girls:Mod's note PG16 - Page 2

Originally posted by: shopgirl1

for the topic starter...i don't think tht the CT is aiming @ the society 2 "hate" dark girls....its "highlighting" the obstacles n hardshjps they may / have 2 face !!!...n how bravely they come out of it...so u r rong my dear :)

Originally posted by: ilovekinny

yes u r right somya....bidaai is definitely creating a wrong impression about dark girls...choti ma..then ragini during rift track n may b now tamanna....jab k the creatives must change the thinking of the audiences that dark girls are too warm at heart..they have feelings too n theres no need for them to b jealous...creatives must treat them equally...pehle se hi indian ppl reject dark ppl...yaaar doggy b lete hain to white hona hota hai....i should not b saying this but in my city this is very common wer a dark girl is always rejected...she is forced to believe that she is inferior n if she has a cousin who is fair then to bechariii comparisons start like nething....bidaai must show that dark ones too are good at heart n like all other fair ppl they too want to live peacefully....

Your Point is little bit over the top.First thing Tammana has not turned bad or negative.Tammana would have felt the same even if she was Fair as she wanted to be fairy in the show so obviously she is feeling bad.The teacher said to Ragini Tammana was very good in every thing including studies and she will be very good Fairy.She wanted to give Khushi Chance so that she Should feel more confidence.So were did you get the point that Tammana is unsuccessfull.

Originally posted by: sweetsomya

I am not wrong they have never showed who dark grils face hardships and how they come out of it as strong women

for ragini her sister was always there to solve problems

ragini was always shown mean,and shallow,she was always shown having inferiority complex, and she was never shwon fighting with problems ,she was always left upon the mercy of her fair sister

is this the way to show how dark girls come out of hardsips in their lives.

If creatives really wanted to show dark girls as strong women then first they should hae shown Ragini opposing kaushi for her beahviour towards her sister,she needed to make kaushi to get out of her insecurites reagrding her,secondly she should have shown tackling up family responsibilites and educating herself to the level so she could be self dependednt(i think you have not seen the show from the beginning she tried many many times but women like Kaushi it is very Hard.And she was self dependent (sadhana got married) she joined dance classes and she was so much capable that she even won Taj Mahotsav

But no Ragini was always shown crying and crying

And amibika when she faced hardships she was shown to avenge upon vasu through alwkh

Now tell me is this the way to show how dark women come out of their hardships

And kaushi she always hated sadhna because in socistey she was always compared with ragini and was labeled as beautiful girl

now tell me has kaushy aptly dealed witht his problem by hating sadhna

I think if creatives would have shown kaushi loving sadhna and considering her as her daughter as well ignoring comments form people aorund her then we could have said that creatives aim was to show obstacles in dark girls lives and how bravely they come out of it

But no no woman in bidaai was shown coming our of their obstacles,ambika and kasuhi are almost shown as villain in the show and creatives left no stone unurned in proving Ragini as weak and selifsh woman

and now with tamanna they are shwoing the same thing

They could have shown tamanna being happy for her sister and motivating her.

agaain khushi is ready to sacrifice for her but tamanna she is not talking to her because she is upsset that her sister got role but she has not got d role

well till now 3 woman were shown as dark characters and among which two were villain and Ragini she was shown as lame character and with tamanna they are showing same things

tell me I am sure there might be many girls on this forum who are not fair ,do you guys feel jealous for your sister's success? as what is shown in bidaai

Originally posted by: ANJANA

Your Point is little bit over the top.First thing Tammana has not turned bad or negative.Tammana would have felt the same even if she was Fair as she wanted to be fairy in the show so obviously she is feeling bad.The teacher said to Ragini Tammana was very good in every thing including studies and she will be very good Fairy.She wanted to give Khushi Chance so that she Should feel more confidence.So were did you get the point that Tammana is unsuccessfull.

People like Koushi will be afraid because in this society some people treat dark people(girls Specifically) like this.I'm also dark in complextion(half darker than Ragini still i had to suffer), some people treated me like that but that did not stop me from being successfull i'm Business Management Graduate and successfull interior designer(i'm Part time lecturer in reputed college).I too felt very sad when people were treating me as though i'm from out of this world some alien.I did not turn bad or negative(it always depends on how you take from the situation and what you want to become)

I actually thank Rajan Sir for bringing this issue which is social issue which will not die so easily but atleast Bidaai is trying to bring that issue in the story so that atleast if it changes the view of one person it is worth showing.I started watching Bidaai in the beginning because it was story between two sisters one is fair and other is Dark

Originally posted by: sweetsomya

According to international standards only 1 % of indian population are have fair skin,this means majority of indian population is not fair according to international standards,all these women kalpna chawla,krian bedi,krian mazumdaar,barkha dutt etc are not fair,are nt they successful ,confident,havent they made india proud

even among bollywood actresses,bipasha basu ,kajol,nandita das all dusky beauties and they are always promoted as beautiful women in their movies

but in bidaai not so fair girls are always promoted as ugly girls with dark hearts.

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