IMO, sadi needs to be APOLOGETIC for some mistakes - Page 6

Dont worry guys (Choco and Pricy), I understand your tensions towards Sadhna. I have seen Pricy's tension when Sadi went outside Agra.... 😆

@ pricey nice post 👏👏👏👏agreeing with u only a person with heart but along with mind can see her mistakes, Iam writing this because sum are here referring that it need heart to understand her character iam including mind too. she took aalekh for granted and expecting that he will understand wht she was going through was shocking. He is not Antaryami .Some of her deeds are blunders and she should be apologetic for that .Iam getting your point.

Originally posted by: chocolover89

</div>But just because Alekh takes pride in that doesn't mean that we, the viewers,must also. And sacrifices of any kind inANY indian show are glorified, regrdless of whether theyar right or not.
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@bold

And he has repented! He left his house, money, luqxuries, everything,slept on a bench, worked so hard to get a job just for her!

And about the divorce, well then atleast, it would have been a divorce for the right reasons, ie one involving both spouses, not some external person. Then Alekh-Sadhna would have divorced because they cannot be together, not because Sdahna decided to use Alekh as a scapegoat to save her Mami's life when she clearly had other options.

😔 Sadana did not use Alekh as a scapegoat.

and why is this point being raised again and again. Alekh did what ever he did, and I expect more from him, and that is why I am starting to count him in my good books again.

He is still very weak for sadana.

She signed those papers with a signature , but Alekh divorced her with words/actions and even RAJAN ji realized that and that is why when , he went back to sadana he said I have the answer for your question that if I were normal would he accept her.

So lets not go there, that topic is DONE khatam khalas dead, done for finished, aipoch, aipoindhi, hogaya, samapth...

Alekh left the house, amm ok ,
Alekh left his luxuries , amm ok
Alekh left his job/viraasat, amm ok
Alekh slept on the bench .. oookkkk.

and the point is...????
🤔

Sadhana, Sacrificed her LIFE for Alekh by taking care of him like a friend, like a mother, like a wife.

I mean do people understand here WHY, did Vasu want a wife for Alekh and not a nurse?

It is not just because she wanted to prove to people that she can get a good looking spouse for her son as she challenged as the whole act was preplanned from when Sadi first came to rajvansh house. The whole party deal was just an act, vasu wanted her as a wife from day one. Why? Why not as a nurse?

Because, people here need to understand, specially those who call her a nurse and someone who got paid for her services...

a Person who is of Alekh's mental stature not just needs a nurse,
he needs someone to be his friend,
a motherly type behaviour, taking care of his needs and I mean all types of needs.

He is a GROWN MAN and it is real, that, people of this mentality CAN GET physical. So can they get physical with a Nurse?

No, he needs a wife? and will any wife take such from a man? I mean today if a man forces his wife then it comes in the terms of Marital Rape so what about people who do not have mental stability? what if they do something out of urge or some crazed up moment which woman can take that?...


NO ONE !

except people like Sadhana...

She Knew what she was getting into. It was NOT just being a NURSE?

Please think on the amount of sacrifice that a woman of her situation had to make.

So please, Alekh's leaving luxuries blah blah is NOTHING compared to what she gotten into.

Now its a different thing that , nothing of such sort happened but when you 'Sign a contract' as many of the people here state, they get the profits as well as the losses so Sadi got into it and she could have easily stepped out and breached her contract but she didn't she stayed. Cause you know why? she knew taht she was "his wife"

and She was hurt, when Alekh chose to not stand for her when he became normal.

She realized that even though She took him as her husband... he took her as HIS nurse.

============ which is very well stated by many here==========

So NO I do not think she needs to repent for anything.
And if she signed the divorce So what. As if he was going to be effected by it. He wanted to get married to malika and he didn't cause of Ragi and Ranveer so yeah he is VERY weak.

Actually I am afraid he will divorce her in the slightest of hava ka jhonka.. even though he loves her, but I still need to see him stand the test of time.

Leaving house and stuff hasn't' really proven much to me. The real test of time still awaits.

Vasu Vs. Sadhana...

cause now, the real relationships will start to bloom. Where he has to recognize Vasu as well as Sadhana and how is he going to balance them both?

thats the real test now...
Lets see...

Originally posted by: suchitra_1

😔 Sadana did not use Alekh as a scapegoat.

and why is this point being raised again and again. Alekh did what ever he did, and I expect more from him, and that is why I am starting to count him in my good books again.

He is still very weak for sadana.

She signed those papers with a signature , but Alekh divorced her with words/actions and even RAJAN ji realized that and that is why when , he went back to sadana he said I have the answer for your question that if I were normal would he accept her.

So lets not go there, that topic is DONE khatam khalas dead, done for finished, aipoch, aipoindhi, hogaya, samapth...

Alekh left the house, amm ok ,
Alekh left his luxuries , amm ok
Alekh left his job/viraasat, amm ok
Alekh slept on the bench .. oookkkk.

and the point is...????
🤔

Sadhana, Sacrificed her LIFE for Alekh by taking care of him like a friend, like a mother, like a wife.

I mean do people understand here WHY, did Vasu want a wife for Alekh and not a nurse?

It is not just because she wanted to prove to people that she can get a good looking spouse for her son as she challenged as the whole act was preplanned from when Sadi first came to rajvansh house. The whole party deal was just an act, vasu wanted her as a wife from day one. Why? Why not as a nurse?

Because, people here need to understand, specially those who call her a nurse and someone who got paid for her services...

a Person who is of Alekh's mental stature not just needs a nurse,
he needs someone to be his friend,
a motherly type behaviour, taking care of his needs and I mean all types of needs.

He is a GROWN MAN and it is real, that, people of this mentality CAN GET physical. So can they get physical with a Nurse?

No, he needs a wife? and will any wife take such from a man? I mean today if a man forces his wife then it comes in the terms of Marital Rape so what about people who do not have mental stability? what if they do something out of urge or some crazed up moment which woman can take that?...


NO ONE !

except people like Sadhana...

She Knew what she was getting into. It was NOT just being a NURSE?

Please think on the amount of sacrifice that a woman of her situation had to make.

So please, Alekh's leaving luxuries blah blah is NOTHING compared to what she gotten into.

Now its a different thing that , nothing of such sort happened but when you 'Sign a contract' as many of the people here state, they get the profits as well as the losses so Sadi got into it and she could have easily stepped out and breached her contract but she didn't she stayed. Cause you know why? she knew taht she was "his wife"

and She was hurt, when Alekh chose to not stand for her when he became normal.

She realized that even though She took him as her husband... he took her as HIS nurse.

============ which is very well stated by many here==========

So NO I do not think she needs to repent for anything.
And if she signed the divorce So what. As if he was going to be effected by it. He wanted to get married to malika and he didn't cause of Ragi and Ranveer so yeah he is VERY weak.

Actually I am afraid he will divorce her in the slightest of hava ka jhonka.. even though he loves her, but I still need to see him stand the test of time.

Leaving house and stuff hasn't' really proven much to me. The real test of time still awaits.

Vasu Vs. Sadhana...

cause now, the real relationships will start to bloom. Where he has to recognize Vasu as well as Sadhana and how is he going to balance them both?

thats the real test now...
Lets see...

Urghh...I just lost my whole reply and am retyping this now...

Originally posted by: chocolover89

Urghh...I just lost my whole reply and am retyping this now...

I am not saying Sadhna is not a VERY good person with a beautiful heart. I am not saying that Sadhna did not take very good care of Alekh when he was mentally unstable as a wife. I am not saying that Sadhna hasn't made numerous sacrifices and has had a very unpleasant life. I applaud her for staying in a marriage with a violent mentally unstable man, when she was cheated into marrying him, and changing him for the better.

What I am saying is that Sadhna did not need to sign the divorce papers when she had other options available. Ranvir would have given the money without a problem since it was his beloved wife's mother's life on the line. And yes, mamaji is a man of principles and would not like to accept money from his daughter's in-laws. But where did the money eventually come from?

I have never called Sadhna a nurse. And I don't think Alekh ever considered sadhna to be his nurse. He simply picked his mother, who to him he had mistreated for 20 years, over his wife, not that it makes what he did acceptable. It was more his guilt that was acting.

IMO, Sadhna and Alekh were both wonderful spouses uptil Alekh got normal. Then both went downhil. Alekh is trying his best to come back up, and Sadhna still has faulty priorities that I hope she decides to do something about..

@bold

Alekh only agreed to marry Mallika AFTER Sadhna signed teh papers. He only signed the divorce papers after sadhna also. The first time Vasu suggested divorce, Alekh refused and walked away.

Anyways this is an endless debate, and it's better to agree to disagree and to just let it go.

@Red Money though eventually came from Vasu, Sadhana had worked hard to earn from Natraj Mahotsav.If Ragini was not manipulated to take part in the competition and again Sadhana emotionally shaken by Ragini's statements, Sadhana would have got the money!
@Blue Alekh was dancing with Mallika in a party in front of Sadhana while Vasu claimed Mallika would be right match for Alekh.I guess Alekh never signed the divorce papers though.
My POV is Sadhana has done her fare share of mistakes (in our eyes) but it is nothing compared the mountain of good things she has done.If a person like Sadhana needs to repent than so should any good person on earth!
I feel this argument will never end as goodness and badness are always relative to a situation, person and time.

Originally posted by: suchitra_1

😔 Sadana did not use Alekh as a scapegoat.

and why is this point being raised again and again. Alekh did what ever he did, and I expect more from him, and that is why I am starting to count him in my good books again.

He is still very weak for sadana.

She signed those papers with a signature , but Alekh divorced her with words/actions and even RAJAN ji realized that and that is why when , he went back to sadana he said I have the answer for your question that if I were normal would he accept her.

So lets not go there, that topic is DONE khatam khalas dead, done for finished, aipoch, aipoindhi, hogaya, samapth...

Alekh left the house, amm ok ,
Alekh left his luxuries , amm ok
Alekh left his job/viraasat, amm ok
Alekh slept on the bench .. oookkkk.

and the point is...????
🤔

Sadhana, Sacrificed her LIFE for Alekh by taking care of him like a friend, like a mother, like a wife.

I mean do people understand here WHY, did Vasu want a wife for Alekh and not a nurse?

It is not just because she wanted to prove to people that she can get a good looking spouse for her son as she challenged as the whole act was preplanned from when Sadi first came to rajvansh house. The whole party deal was just an act, vasu wanted her as a wife from day one. Why? Why not as a nurse?

Because, people here need to understand, specially those who call her a nurse and someone who got paid for her services...

a Person who is of Alekh's mental stature not just needs a nurse,
he needs someone to be his friend,
a motherly type behaviour, taking care of his needs and I mean all types of needs.

He is a GROWN MAN and it is real, that, people of this mentality CAN GET physical. So can they get physical with a Nurse?

No, he needs a wife? and will any wife take such from a man? I mean today if a man forces his wife then it comes in the terms of Marital Rape so what about people who do not have mental stability? what if they do something out of urge or some crazed up moment which woman can take that?...


NO ONE !

except people like Sadhana...

She Knew what she was getting into. It was NOT just being a NURSE?

Please think on the amount of sacrifice that a woman of her situation had to make.

So please, Alekh's leaving luxuries blah blah is NOTHING compared to what she gotten into.

Now its a different thing that , nothing of such sort happened but when you 'Sign a contract' as many of the people here state, they get the profits as well as the losses so Sadi got into it and she could have easily stepped out and breached her contract but she didn't she stayed. Cause you know why? she knew taht she was "his wife"

and She was hurt, when Alekh chose to not stand for her when he became normal.

She realized that even though She took him as her husband... he took her as HIS nurse.

============ which is very well stated by many here==========

So NO I do not think she needs to repent for anything.
And if she signed the divorce So what. As if he was going to be effected by it. He wanted to get married to malika and he didn't cause of Ragi and Ranveer so yeah he is VERY weak.

Actually I am afraid he will divorce her in the slightest of hava ka jhonka.. even though he loves her, but I still need to see him stand the test of time.

Leaving house and stuff hasn't' really proven much to me. The real test of time still awaits.

Vasu Vs. Sadhana...

cause now, the real relationships will start to bloom. Where he has to recognize Vasu as well as Sadhana and how is he going to balance them both?

thats the real test now...
Lets see...

Originally posted by: chocolover89

Urghh...I just lost my whole reply and am retyping this now...

I am not saying Sadhna is not a VERY good person with a beautiful heart. I am not saying that Sadhna did not take very good care of Alekh when he was mentally unstable as a wife. I am not saying that Sadhna hasn't made numerous sacrifices and has had a very unpleasant life. I applaud her for staying in a marriage with a violent mentally unstable man, when she was cheated into marrying him, and changing him for the better.

What I am saying is that Sadhna did not need to sign the divorce papers when she had other options available. Ranvir would have given the money without a problem since it was his beloved wife's mother's life on the line. And yes, mamaji is a man of principles and would not like to accept money from his daughter's in-laws. But where did the money eventually come from?

I have never called Sadhna a nurse. And I don't think Alekh ever considered sadhna to be his nurse. He simply picked his mother, who to him he had mistreated for 20 years, over his wife, not that it makes what he did acceptable. It was more his guilt that was acting.

IMO, Sadhna and Alekh were both wonderful spouses uptil Alekh got normal. Then both went downhil. Alekh is trying his best to come back up, and Sadhna still has faulty priorities that I hope she decides to do something about..

@bold

Alekh only agreed to marry Mallika AFTER Sadhna signed teh papers. He only signed the divorce papers after sadhna also. The first time Vasu suggested divorce, Alekh refused and walked away.

Anyways this is an endless debate, and it's better to agree to disagree and to just let it go.

Originally posted by: Purehearts

@Red Money though eventually came from Vasu, Sadhana had worked hard to earn from Natraj Mahotsav.If Ragini was not manipulated to take part in the competition and again Sadhana emotionally shaken by Ragini's statements, Sadhana would have got the money!
@Blue Alekh was dancing with Mallika in a party in front of Sadhana while Vasu claimed Mallika would be right match for Alekh.I guess Alekh never signed the divorce papers though.
My POV is Sadhana has done her fare share of mistakes (in our eyes) but it is nothing compared the mountain of good things she has done.If a person like Sadhana needs to repent than so should any good person on earth!
I feel this argument will never end as goodness and badness are always relative to a situation, person and time.

wow iam surprised and happy their is going a healthy and very interesting discussion.

Originally posted by: sweetkanu

wow iam surprised and happy their is going a healthy and very interesting discussion.

And thankfully no unnecessary dragging of any other character that can create fuss.Lovely discussion guyz.