IMO, sadi needs to be APOLOGETIC for some mistakes - Page 3

The thing is Sadhna doesn't seem to think divorcing Alekh was wrong, nor has anyone made her feel it was wrong. Instead, everybody, gloried her "selfless" act, whereas with Vasu, Ragini, Alekh, plenty of people made them think what they were doing was wrong. Mamaji, Ragini, Ranvir, Alekh all glorified her act. If only they had once told her, you need to set your prorities straight, then things might be different.

first let me just begin with this: please, NO SARCASM. i know it was meant as just a joke, and trust me, i can take it, as i really don't care. but i am afraid, later on someone else might come over, and indeed "care" about it, and start arguing, then the other person would start arguing as well, and we'll all be off-topic, and before you know it, MAHABHARAT. lol. 😆😊 but seriously though yaars, try to control yourselves, please, as it does create fights, and i'm sure, the last thing WE all want is yet another fight...😉

^now on with the discussion...i have read every single post, and i am now realizing that maybe "repentence" was the wrong choice of WORD...? i don't mean that sadi has committed a great sin, that's why not once do you see me saying "sin", but rather "mistakes". so really, if anything, it was a TECHNICAL thing from my part. i think you guys were being a little too picky. 😛😃 anyways. how about the word "APOLOGETIC" then, would that make more sense...???
and yes, i know sadi apologizes a LOT, but she apologizes for things she doesn't need to apologize for. if she apologized for, and truly felt BAD about the things i mentioned in my posts, then we wouldn't be having this discussion. at least, i wouldn't.
i don't understand why some sadi-supporters are having their panties in a bunch...??? 😕 all i ask is sadi have a one-on-one convo with alekh, and tell him she's sorry for hurting him by signing the divorce papers, and that she'd never disappear like that ever again, and no more secrets. and then thank him for all his sacrifices for her, and HE also do the same, and then they hug...😳 also, i'd like sadi to have a one-on-one convo with rannu as well, thanking him for all he had done for her, for ALWAYS being by her side when the ENTIRE WORLD wasn't; and then say sorry if she had ever wronged him (which she definitely has). she should tell him, that she's very lucky to have a devar like him, and that he's the best devar ever.
is that too much to ask....? seriously yaars, do none of you (sadi-supporters) feel she was wrong for divorcing alekh like that, or wronged ranveer during multiple occasions (NOT the jail track)??? my problem, with the whole divorce thing is, she divorced him when she did NOT want to, and would have NEVER done it had vasu not put that disgusting option in front of her. so you know what that says to me...? hypothetically, if let's say alekh had never wronged her, and for some reason the same situation occurred, she would have STILL divorced him for the money!!!! 😲😲 you know why i feel this way, once again, cause she NEVER wanted to divorce him in the first place. not to mention, she had a plethora of other options BESIDES DIVORCING HIM to get the money. so really, all i'm asking now is that, sadi say sorry to alekh for hurting him like that, and that indeed she was wrong for doing that. she shouldn't have been so quick to choose that path, and also, that she'd never do something like that again. that is ALL i'm saying...is that too much to ask...??? cause frankly, i am NOT sure if sadi will never do something like that again, and that scares me. so if i hear her actually say it, and feel sorry about it, i will have solace...
that's all.

Originally posted by: chocolover89

The thing is Sadhna doesn't seem to think divorcing Alekh was wrong, nor has anyone made her feel it was wrong. Instead, everybody, gloried her "selfless" act, whereas with Vasu, Ragini, Alekh, plenty of people made them think what they were doing was wrong. Mamaji, Ragini, Ranvir, Alekh all glorified her act. If only they had once told her, you need to set your prorities straight, then things might be different.

I don't know if she really needs to repent for it, but she definitely needs to stop taking her relationship with Alekh for granted and make it a "bali ka bakra." I have no trust in Sadhna when it comes to her marrigae. I still feel, that if necessary, she will "sacrifice" it even when there are plenty of other options available as she, like serialjunkie so wonderfully put it, lieks to be a "one woman crusader."

two words: THANK YOU.
you COMPLETELY understood where i was coming from.
and instead of saying "repent", how about "apologetic"...? maybe it was the wrong choice of word from my part...bottom line is, i feel sadi should realize she was WRONG for doing it: divorcing her husband in exchange for money to save her mamiji, ESPECIALLY when she had other options. now, if she had done it cause she WANTED to, no problem, cause alekh was a jerk then. but it WASN'T for that reason, and the fact that she doesn't realize its wrong, is what's scaring me; cause like you said choco, who's to say she won't try to "sacrifce" her marriage again, and do the same exact thing again...???!!!!!! 😲

Ok no one is perfect. I have always maintained that.

But the real problem is something else...

When Ragi does a mistake, and repents, we forgive her

When Vasu does a mistake, and repents, we forgive her

hey eventually Indu will accept Anandwa and he will forgive indu too!

Just because Sadi and Mamaji are "too good to be true" characters , doesnt mean that there aren't people out there like them.

We just are sooo engulfed in this "give and take" world that, characters like sadana and mamaji are unbelievable so we want them to also be just like everyone.

The only fault of sadana is her own goodness. If she instead of helping everyone , just thought about herself more then I am sure , all the people who object Sadi in this forum will side with her and agree with her more.

Human beings tend to blame those who cause them to have guilt feeling.

Like, the saying, Zayada Harishchandra bannay ki koshih nahi karo...

etc.

Taunting...

I mean there is nothing wrong to be truthful and to such an extent that loosing everything for a principle he stood for but instead of taking him as an example , people now Mock his actions and say, bada aya harishchandr ki aulaad...

Or ,

as they tell to sadi: Mahan bannay ki koshish ...

So,

for me, Sadhana has done More good than her tinny mistakes. Which are also arguable ... thus , to compare her with other characters is totally wrong , she is NOT like Ragini, nor Ranveer, nor Alekh , nor Vasu nor inderjeet and not even Mamaji.

And no she does not have to repent for showing goodness.. this is like nick picking..

As one of the people in the thread said, She has apologized more than anyone in hte show. mujhe maaf kardijie Alekh ji,
mujhe maaf kerdijiye mummyji

Mujhe maaf kerdiji papaji

Mujhe maaf kerdijiye mamiji

Mujhe maaf kerdijiye jiji

Mujhe maaf kerdijiye Ranveerji

Mujhe maaf kerdijiye mamaji

and ofcourse she forgives everyone,

Everyone including Naveen and Avni..

so what else is needed?

Originally posted by: pricey28

first let me just begin with this: please, NO SARCASM. i know it was meant as just a joke, and trust me, i can take it, as i really don't care. but i am afraid, later on someone else might come over, and indeed "care" about it, and start arguing, then the other person would start arguing as well, and we'll all be off-topic, and before you know it, MAHABHARAT. lol. 😆😊 but seriously though yaars, try to control yourselves, please, as it does create fights, and i'm sure, the last thing WE all want is yet another fight...😉

Mahabharat accha lagta hai tumhe?... shayad...

Originally posted by: suchitra_1

Ok no one is perfect. I have always maintained that.

But the real problem is something else...

When Ragi does a mistake, and repents, we forgive her

When Vasu does a mistake, and repents, we forgive her

hey eventually Indu will accept Anandwa and he will forgive indu too!

Just because Sadi and Mamaji are "too good to be true" characters , doesnt mean that there aren't people out there like them.

We just are sooo engulfed in this "give and take" world that, characters like sadana and mamaji are unbelievable so we want them to also be just like everyone.

The only fault of sadana is her own goodness. If she instead of helping everyone , just thought about herself more then I am sure , all the people who object Sadi in this forum will side with her and agree with her more.

Human beings tend to blame those who cause them to have guilt feeling.

Like, the saying, Zayada Harishchandra bannay ki koshih nahi karo...

etc.

Taunting...

I mean there is nothing wrong to be truthful and to such an extent that loosing everything for a principle he stood for but instead of taking him as an example , people now Mock his actions and say, bada aya harishchandr ki aulaad...

Or ,

as they tell to sadi: Mahan bannay ki koshish ...

So,

for me, Sadhana has done More good than her tinny mistakes. Which are also arguable ... thus , to compare her with other characters is totally wrong , she is NOT like Ragini, nor Ranveer, nor Alekh , nor Vasu nor inderjeet and not even Mamaji.

And no she does not have to repent for showing goodness.. this is like nick picking..

As one of the people in the thread said, She has apologized more than anyone in hte show. mujhe maaf kardijie Alekh ji,
mujhe maaf kerdijiye mummyji

Mujhe maaf kerdiji papaji

Mujhe maaf kerdijiye mamiji

Mujhe maaf kerdijiye jiji

Mujhe maaf kerdijiye Ranveerji

Mujhe maaf kerdijiye mamaji

and ofcourse she forgives everyone,

Everyone including Naveen and Avni..

so what else is needed?

yaar, i think you misunderstood me. i'm NOT like one of those people, who constantly say "mahan banney ki koshish kar rahi hein..." NOT AT ALL. in fact, i APPLAUD sadi for her goodness, and actually wish could be more like her.
i honestly feel i have been very sensitive to her with my posts, and have not attacked her, or her goodness, self-less character at all, on this thread, so why are some sadi-supporters still taking this to the roof...??? i don't understand...😕 you say, more people pick on sadi now cause of how she is, when i think, its completely the other way around. people go completely ape-sh!t if even a single word is uttered against her, in the most sensitive way.
you said, sadi isn't perfect. I AGREE, and this is what i'm trying to say as well. she is NOT perfect, she has flaws too. so why can't she learn from her mistakes, just like everyone else then, as well...???
anyways. all i'm sayin' is look at what i'm asking for the girl to do....just SPEAK with alekh and ranveer, and realize her mistakes; and that too for a good reason: so she doesn't repeat them ever again. we only learn from our mistakes, when we KNOW we made those mistakes. its like they say, "first step to solving a problem, is ADMITTING you have a problem". or else, how will you learn, and prevent yourself from doing it again???
seriously, do you guys WANT sadi to divorce alekh again, if next time mamaji is in trouble, or do you WANT her to disappear like that again w/o telling anyone, and possibly endangering herself (how many times was she attempted to be raped/sexually assaulted???), do you WANT her to be so secretive, and keep hiding things from her husband (who loves her so much, and wants nothing but to help her), do you WANT her to slap ranveer again, next time he makes an accidental mistake (even when he, HIMSELF is severyly injured in the process), do you WANT her to speak with ranveer rudely, just cause she's annoyed with him, even though he is doing it out of love, for HER, and even though he has done sooooooooo MUCH for her in the past...?????

Originally posted by: Ice-Thinker

Mahabharat accha lagta hai tumhe?... shayad...

Anyways... the answer is too obvious ... but you have the right to ask... and now you have the answer.

Sadhna never did anything that she needs to repent. Everyone, it they repent thier whole life infront of Sadhna, still will not be enough!

Sadhna is the symbol of purity and honesty and devotion in the entire Indian TV Industry's history ... Since the first transmission by DOOR DARSHAN...

Hope that answers you...

Take care.

yaar, if i truly wanted a mahabharat, then trust me, i would have replied to your post with the most instigating, most sarcastic comments possible. but i'm not gonna do that. but i do ask for your patience, and ask that you please, at least be respectful of my opinion. that's all. 😊
and please, before getting upset with my post, try to understand what i'm asking for here...
and believe me, i don't deny sadi's goodness, i know she's a very good person at heart 😊 but even she makes mistakes, and i want her to realize these mistakes, or else, how will she ever learn from them, and prevent herself from doing them again...??? do you understand...??? i'm not trying to punish sadi, nor see sadi punish herself. GOD NO. i just want her to realize her mistakes, so she can learn from them. cause so far, i don't think that has happened on multiple occasions. that's all...

I agree with you pricey about her being weak in her marriage but!

Alekh just got cured. She did not hide things from him when he was not mentally well. And she did not tell about Vinu cause she wanted him and his mother to get closer.

I agree she should not have taken off like that, but hey we all know sarah khan was on vacation LOL so the stupid CTs did that not Sadhana

Secondly, on a serious note,

Since what sarah does effects sadhana,
iF she is weak in her marriage, she needs to take it more maturely , and she will. She is learning to be a wife, now
in complete sense. She is used to think about others and thats her problem as I already stated, She needs to start thinking abotu herself and Alekh.

I still don;t get what she needs to repent about or redeem about.

She needs to mature yeah , but so do all of us.

We all grow... and she is too.

About divorcing etc. etc. we all know what happened why it happened yada yada.. Alekh the genius did not support her, she had no where to go blah blah..

SO that chapter iskhatm. I mean unless rajan shahi decides to become EKTA I do not think we have to worry about Divorce.. Cause it would be out of sadi's character.