IMO, sadi needs to be APOLOGETIC for some mistakes - Page 5

Originally posted by: sweetkanu

@ pricey apologetic is better 👍🏼 yaar vaise ur post was thoroughly analyzed by u on sadi

Originally posted by: pricey28

thanks. and what do you mean by, "yaar vaise ur post was thoroughly analyzed by u on sadi". i mean, what point were you leading to/trying to make with that comment...??? just wondering yaar...😊

Originally posted by: Omshanti1111

sorry Pricey,
I really dont see any reason ...what Vasu has done is sin, what Alekh and Ragini have done are mistakes, but some of their mistakes became sin when they blamed Sadhna like being jealous...

Mamaji told a very important thing the other day...every person is judged by God by their Karma. Sadhna's Karma is so good that every person is coming back to her accepting their mistakes, without her actually doing anything to make them realise...she is a soul whose presence and goodness take away the sins from weak mentality but basically good people. Such is her character, wherever she steps, goodness and good luck follow..whether it is for Kaushi, Ragini, or for Alekh or now for Vasu...could anyone think that a character like Vasu can melt down..she acts like a sponge to take away any negative qualities of persons, who are basically good at heart.

People need to judge Sadhna not with a jealous mind, but with a pure and open heart.

Originally posted by: serialjunkie

Sadhna is a selfless character not a flawless character. This is what I feel. She is selfless to a fault. She wants to please everyone and do the right thing for everyone and in her earnestness she ends up making some not-so-stellar judgment calls. (like signing the divorce papers instead of seeking aalekh's support or mamaji's advice).

What bothers me most about Sadhna is that she has taken it upon herself to be a One-Woman-Crusader. She needs to stop making unilateral crusades and trust her family and loved ones a bit more to be of help to her.

I certainly didn't appreciate her taking off just like that w/o telling any of her loved ones. She tried to save Vinu from jail and she could have easily shared this with Ragini and sought her counsel.

I sometimes feel CTs have sketched her character to need constant reassurance of her self-worth and prove herself to be a worthy member of Sharma family by pulling off feats of heroism single-handedly. CTs need to stop making this character try to pull off heroic feats and have her as the balanced, sensible, loving and passionate character.

Do I feel she needs to repent? NO, I don't think her intentions were ever wrong. Her methods were, however, questionable.

Originally posted by: chocolover89

The thing is Sadhna doesn't seem to think divorcing Alekh was wrong, nor has anyone made her feel it was wrong. Instead, everybody, gloried her "selfless" act, whereas with Vasu, Ragini, Alekh, plenty of people made them think what they were doing was wrong. Mamaji, Ragini, Ranvir, Alekh all glorified her act. If only they had once told her, you need to set your prorities straight, then things might be different.

I don't know if she really needs to repent for it, but she definitely needs to stop taking her relationship with Alekh for granted and make it a "bali ka bakra." I have no trust in Sadhna when it comes to her marrigae. I still feel, that if necessary, she will "sacrifice" it even when there are plenty of other options available as she, like serialjunkie so wonderfully put it, lieks to be a "one woman crusader."

Originally posted by: suchitra_1

Ok no one is perfect. I have always maintained that.

But the real problem is something else...

When Ragi does a mistake, and repents, we forgive her

When Vasu does a mistake, and repents, we forgive her

hey eventually Indu will accept Anandwa and he will forgive indu too!

Just because Sadi and Mamaji are "too good to be true" characters , doesnt mean that there aren't people out there like them.

We just are sooo engulfed in this "give and take" world that, characters like sadana and mamaji are unbelievable so we want them to also be just like everyone.

The only fault of sadana is her own goodness. If she instead of helping everyone , just thought about herself more then I am sure , all the people who object Sadi in this forum will side with her and agree with her more.

Human beings tend to blame those who cause them to have guilt feeling.

Like, the saying, Zayada Harishchandra bannay ki koshih nahi karo...

etc.

Taunting...

I mean there is nothing wrong to be truthful and to such an extent that loosing everything for a principle he stood for but instead of taking him as an example , people now Mock his actions and say, bada aya harishchandr ki aulaad...

Or ,

as they tell to sadi: Mahan bannay ki koshish ...

So,

for me, Sadhana has done More good than her tinny mistakes. Which are also arguable ... thus , to compare her with other characters is totally wrong , she is NOT like Ragini, nor Ranveer, nor Alekh , nor Vasu nor inderjeet and not even Mamaji.

And no she does not have to repent for showing goodness.. this is like nick picking..

As one of the people in the thread said, She has apologized more than anyone in hte show. mujhe maaf kardijie Alekh ji,
mujhe maaf kerdijiye mummyji

Mujhe maaf kerdiji papaji

Mujhe maaf kerdijiye mamiji

Mujhe maaf kerdijiye jiji

Mujhe maaf kerdijiye Ranveerji

Mujhe maaf kerdijiye mamaji

and ofcourse she forgives everyone,

Everyone including Naveen and Avni..

so what else is needed?

Originally posted by: Omshanti1111

Just watch the video again, Sadhna said not "their love"..she said "her love"..she said "mere pyar kabhi kaam nahin honga".

Originally posted by: reguser

@Bold - This will not happen again. Vasu is there to dominate (in a positive way) Sadhna now.

Originally posted by: Omshanti1111

For Alekh's good future, Sadhna can sacrifice anything. Though it was ultimately shown she signed the divorce paper, I feel anyway that was going to a divorce only, if Ranveer had not made Alekh realise..Mamiji's operation was included more to make Kaushi repent.

To become a good wife, one needs to become a good human first. There is no doubt about Sadhna being a good human. Alekh has reached such a phase, where he respects Sadhna as a human and takes pride to have her as his wife, just because of Sadhna's good deeds.
When Alekh gave his answer to Sadhna and Sdahna left RH, what I liked that she never cashed on that and maintained their relationship in a dignified manner...if one remembers her lyrics of Dil janiye when Sadhna used to see Alekh-Malllika relationship...for me, a man who accepts a second lady within few hours of breaking marriage should repent more...

as Suchitra said, what ever Sadhna like people do, they can never be treated as good...