IMO, sadi needs to be APOLOGETIC for some mistakes

sadhna doesn't make fault everything... vasu has big mistakes herself.. she harmed sadhna a lot.. i'm very concerned that sadhna suffered very bad and buried her life... everyone except mamaji and ranvir harmed sadhna a lot... so it is not sadhna's fault..

i select poll: NO.😊

Originally posted by: Omshanti1111

Can you jot down the mistakes of Sadhna, then it will be easier for me to analyse? because I myself have seen Bidaai from Day 1 literally and I feel Sadhna's every action is sketched in such a way that it is with a broader perspective, not for individual or selfish purpose.

I am really finding it hard to reply! Repentance is a very big term in itself and it only happens when people commit not mistakes, but something which can also be called "sin"...

Originally posted by: pricey28

^now, what is it exactly that i'd like to see her repent for...? the fact that she divorced alekh in exchange for the money for her mamiji's operation. to me, she did that, NOT CAUSE alekh was acting like a d-bag at the time or even cause she wanted to divorce him, she did it cause, well, i guess, its just not as serious to her i guess...? i know she's no gold-digger, nor is she an evil person, but at the same time, at the end of the day, she DID treat her marriage like a "contract"!!! and the FACT that she divorced him NOT cause she wanted to, proved to me this: that for instance, even if alekh had NEVER acted like a d-bag with her, even if he had never wronged her, she would have STILL divorced him irregardless, so she could get the money for her mamiji!!! and that, IMO, is just WRONG!!!!! another thing, she had sooooo many other options, BESIDES divorcing alekh to get the money, yet, she STILL chose to divorce alekh!!! now my question is, WHY, WHY WHY WHY???? WHY would she do that, when she could've very well gone to inder, ranvir, or even alekh himself, and even ragi fr help...???? that to me, is just ILLOGICAL. so please, if any sadi-supporter could exaplain me this, i would LOVE to hear your explanation. 😊
and now, the most recent mistake: sadi disappearing like that... she said she was sorry, and she did repent, so i'm not mad at her for it anymore, nor do i ask that she apologize for it again, as she already did. but at the same time, i'm still not convinced that she will never do it again. so in order to do that, i want her to talk with alekh, one-on-one, have a long convo about it, and end it with saying, NO MORE SECRETS. i feel that REALLY needs to be done in order to make their relationship stronger.
and lastly, i'd like to see her repent and apologize for the numerous times she has wronged ranvir!!!! sadi, IMO, may not be a terrible bhabi (how could i forget that it was she, who after all freed him from jail), however, she is not a very good bhabhi either; and to act like that with an angelic-like devar (i'm calling rannu's "devar-side" angelic, as in, like a guardian angel for sadi. don't mean rannu is an angel himself) like ranvir...just ain't right, just ain't right *shakes head* and NO, i'm NOT talking about the time she testified against him in court. IMO, she did the RIGHT thing by doing that, especially when rannu deserved it. but, then HOW is it that she wronged rannu you may ask...??? well, when she acts like she takes him for granted, when she got upset with him for trying to reunite her with alekh, and OF COURSE, the inevitable: when she SLAPPED him!!! 😲😲😲 what's so shocking and appalling about that is that, she had NO RIGHT to do that to even an ok devar, and she did it to such a good, GOOD devar like ranvir!!!! like i said, just ain't right, just ain't right...i mean, rannu truly is like the MOST AMAZING, GREATEST, BEST devar in the world, and she goes and does a thing like that to HIM....??!!! 😲😡 *shakes head again* and yes, i know, i know, its not like she shot him, and she did apologize to him...but you know what, that slap on the face was a huge, HUGE insult to him nonetheless, and that "apology" meant ZILCH to me!!!! to this day, i'm still not convinced that sadi truly meant her apology, TO RANVIR. IMO, she did it under pressure from alekh, and more importantly (for her), cause she couldn't take ragi being upset or disappointed with her. honestly, she was wayyyyyyyy more upset, and distressed for hurting ragi, than she was for hurting ranvir!!! WTH???? this is why that "apology" basically means nothing to me, nor do i think she ever truly felt bad for doing it, TO RANVIR. and what further strengthen this belief of mine is when, she CONTINUOUSLY took ranvir for granted, and spoke with him quite disrespectfully multiple times, after wards. she didn't like ranvir trying to reunite her with alekh...fine, doesn't mean she has to be so disrespectful to him about it, especially when she very well knew rannu's heart was in the right place, and he did it cause he cares for HER.
anyways. i don't wanna make this thing too much longer, and would just like to end it with this: i'm no stone-hearted person, who wants to pick on such a good, good soul like sadi, esp when she's at the hospital now...i just wanna see her repent and apolgize for her mistakes, just like alekh and ragi, and (even vasu now) has, so she can fully redeem herself. i just want her to sit down with alekh, have a one-on-one convo with him, and admit that she chose the wrong option for agreeing to divorce him (thus hurting him greatly), and that she'll never disappear like that, and NO MORE SECRETS. also, she should thank him for all that he has done for her, all his sacrifices, and then she should hug him...😳 as should alekh for she also doing the same for him.... ohhh, what a GREAT, GREAT scene would that be... 😳😳 another person sadi needs to apologize and be thankful to: RANVIR. have a one-on-one, LONG CONVO with him too, about how she's sorry for wrongning him at times, and that she's very, very thankful to have such a wonderful devar like him. those are some very simple, yet powerful things that i'd like to see her do, and i promise, if she does them, i will no longer have any complaints about her, just like i no longer have any complaints with alekh-ragi. like i said, i WANT to like sadi the way bani likes her, cause i know how good she is...she is a wonderful person, and i have NEVER denied that. but at the same time, she needs to repent too, whenever she makes mistakes, just like everyone else, so she too can redeem herself fully and that's what'll make me feel even much better about her. 😃
that's all. now, does anyone else agree (or even disagree)...???😊

Even I dont think Sadhna needs to repent. Repent is a big word and it needs to be done when some serious mistake is made. I cant find any mistake in her. If anyone says that she needs to think about herself and Alekh now etc..... then still it is not called as a mistake. We can say that she is not a smart person. She thinks by heart and takes decision also by heart.