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in your opinion, does sadi need to be shown to repent?

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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: suchitra_1

I agree with you pricey about her being weak in her marriage but!

Alekh just got cured. She did not hide things from him when he was not mentally well. And she did not tell about Vinu cause she wanted him and his mother to get closer.

I agree she should not have taken off like that, but hey we all know sarah khan was on vacation LOL so the stupid CTs did that not Sadhana

Secondly, on a serious note,

Since what sarah does effects sadhana,
iF she is weak in her marriage, she needs to take it more maturely , and she will. She is learning to be a wife, now
in complete sense. She is used to think about others and thats her problem as I already stated, She needs to start thinking abotu herself and Alekh.

I still don;t get what she needs to repent about or redeem about.

She needs to mature yeah , but so do all of us.

We all grow... and she is too.

About divorcing etc. etc. we all know what happened why it happened yada yada.. Alekh the genius did not support her, she had no where to go blah blah..

SO that chapter iskhatm. I mean unless rajan shahi decides to become EKTA I do not think we have to worry about Divorce.. Cause it would be out of sadi's character.



i edited my post from saying repent/redeem to "learning from her mistakes". cause that's really what i'm trying to say here yaar. i just want her to learn from her mistakes, so she won't do them again. that's all...😊
also, i feel, she needs to appreciate ranveer more as well.
as for the divorce thing. i too don't want to make this any longer, but would it really kill anyone if she just says sorry for that, cause she never really did, nor do i think she feels she was wrong for doing it. and that's what scares me...i still think divorcing alekh was the wrong choice, when she didn't want to do it; and once again, all i ask is she talk to alekh about it, and promise him that she'd never do such a thing again. that's all...
i only want this because i want salekh relationship to be stronger, and as if people haven't already noticed, i'm a huge, HUGEEEEE salekh fan 😃😉
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Posted: 15 years ago
#32

Originally posted by: pricey28



two words: THANK YOU.
you COMPLETELY understood where i was coming from.
and instead of saying "repent", how about "apologetic"...? maybe it was the wrong choice of word from my part...bottom line is, i feel sadi should realize she was WRONG for doing it: divorcing her husband in exchange for money to save her mamiji, ESPECIALLY when she had other options. now, if she had done it cause she WANTED to, no problem, cause alekh was a jerk then. but it WASN'T for that reason, and the fact that she doesn't realize its wrong, is what's scaring me; cause like you said choco, who's to say she won't try to "sacrifce" her marriage again, and do the same exact thing again...???!!!!!! 😲

Lols no problem...I can never say that Sadhna was right in the divorce. Her intentions considering the broader picture were right, but she did not need to put her marriage on the line for it, and nothing anybody says can convince me otherwise. And she most definitely did not divorce Alekh because he wronged her and she saw nothing in the relationship. If so, then why did she tell Vasu that Alekh and her relationship was stronger than all of this, and their love would never die?
Simply put, she divorced Alekh SOLELY to save her mamiji, which considering she had plenty of other options
Lols yes, I think repent wasn't the right word, and apologetic is a better word.
@bold
EXACTLY! I am 100% sure that if Sharma family is in trouble, she will do it again and Alekh will be left crying, instead of sharing the problem with other people!
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Posted: 15 years ago
#33

Originally posted by: chocolover89

Lols no problem...I can never say that Sadhna was right in the divorce. Her intentions considering the broader picture were right, but she did not need to put her marriage on the line for it, and nothing anybody says can convince me otherwise. And she most definitely did not divorce Alekh because he wronged her and she saw nothing in the relationship. If so, then why did she tell Vasu that Alekh and her relationship was stronger than all of this, and their love would never die?

Simply put, she divorced Alekh SOLELY to save her mamiji, which considering she had plenty of other options
Lols yes, I think repent wasn't the right word, and apologetic is a better word.
@bold
EXACTLY! I am 100% sure that if Sharma family is in trouble, she will do it again and Alekh will be left crying, instead of sharing the problem with other people!



Just watch the video again, Sadhna said not "their love"..she said "her love"..she said "mere pyar kabhi kaam nahin honga".

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Posted: 15 years ago
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Sadhna's goodness actually threats all the personalities in the show. Her goodness has reached such a height that whatever other characters do seem very minor. Noone in the show is bad..but there is a difference between good and best, its that of the intensity and degree...

Just in a class, when someone scores 100/100 and rest score around 80-85/100..all are good, there is difference in the marks..thats the difference between Sadhna and all the other characters...

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Posted: 15 years ago
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For Alekh's good future, Sadhna can sacrifice anything. Though it was ultimately shown she signed the divorce paper, I feel anyway that was going to a divorce only, if Ranveer had not made Alekh realise..Mamiji's operation was included more to make Kaushi repent.

To become a good wife, one needs to become a good human first. There is no doubt about Sadhna being a good human. Alekh has reached such a phase, where he respects Sadhna as a human and takes pride to have her as his wife, just because of Sadhna's good deeds.
When Alekh gave his answer to Sadhna and Sdahna left RH, what I liked that she never cashed on that and maintained their relationship in a dignified manner...if one remembers her lyrics of Dil janiye when Sadhna used to see Alekh-Malllika relationship...for me, a man who accepts a second lady within few hours of breaking marriage should repent more...


as Suchitra said, what ever Sadhna like people do, they can never be treated as good...

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Posted: 15 years ago
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I think we are gong round and round..u all carry on...I am not replying any more...
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: Omshanti1111

Sadhna's goodness actually threats all the personalities in the show. Her goodness has reached such a height that whatever other characters do seem very minor. Noone in the show is bad..but there is a difference between good and best, its that of the intensity and degree...

Just in a class, when someone scores 100/100 and rest score around 80-85/100..all are good, there is difference in the marks..thats the difference between Sadhna and all the other characters...



once again, i do NOT deny sadi's goodness, her intentions...i just want her to learn from her mistakes, so she doesn't do them again. is that so bad???

@choco: 👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏
need i say more...??? lol.

and thanks yanks for hitting the "like" button.

and lastly, just wanna say: "repent" was the wrong choice of word. my bad 😃😊 how about "apologetic" ? bottom line: i JUST WANT HER TO REALIZE HER MISTAKES SO SHE COULD LEARN FROM THEM AND NOT DO THEM AGAIN. THAT'S ALL 😉😊
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Posted: 15 years ago
#38

Originally posted by: pricey28



once again, i do NOT deny sadi's goodness, her intentions...i just want her to learn from her mistakes, so she doesn't do them again. is that so bad???

@choco:
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need i say more...??? lol.

and thanks yanks for hitting the "like" button.

and lastly, just wanna say: "repent" was the wrong choice of word. my bad 😃😊 how about "apologetic" ? bottom line: i JUST WANT HER TO REALIZE HER MISTAKES SO SHE COULD LEARN FROM THEM AND NOT DO THEM AGAIN. THAT'S ALL 😉😊

@ pricey @ pink now that is the point iam understanding wht u r trying to say iam understanding that u r not against her goodness me too agreeing at that point. But as for as repentance is concerned she had not done a sin or we can say a very big blunder for which she has to repent ....rest iam agreeing with u totally. U can say she has to learn from that and not to do such mistakes again.
Edited by sweetkanu - 15 years ago
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Posted: 15 years ago
#39

Originally posted by: sweetkanu

@ pricey @ pink now that is the point iam understanding wht u r trying to say iam understanding that u r not against her goodness me too agreeing at that point. But as for as repentance is concerned she had not done a sin or we can say a very big blunder for which she has to repent ....rest iam agreeing with u totally. U can say she has to learn from that and not to do such mistakes again.



thanks yaar 😉
as for the "repent" word, please read my previous comment: "just wanna say: "repent" was the wrong choice of word. my bad 😃😊 how about "apologetic" ? bottom line: i JUST WANT HER TO REALIZE HER MISTAKES SO SHE COULD LEARN FROM THEM AND NOT DO THEM AGAIN. THAT'S ALL"

once again, MY BAD for using the word "repent". and no, i don't think sadi has committed a grave sin, and nor have i ever said that as well. i said MISTAKES. 😉
Edited by pricey28 - 15 years ago
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Posted: 15 years ago
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@ pricey apologetic is better 👍🏼
and u edited the main post but wht about in the poll there it is still repent word😕
Edited by sweetkanu - 15 years ago

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