Part-time jobs for Sagini - Page 11

if sagini would not hav been married then they didn't needed a permission for doing job but becoz they r married now & each married girl wants 2 discuss everything wid her husband ,wants 2 move forward by just knowing them similarly sagini also did tht by taking permission . actually they were thinking for this frm before only & they only took decision of doing job so i don't think there is something wrong in tht if u hav 2 take permission of somebody & tht too of ur husband , ya if alevir would hav not given d permission tht would hav been d wrong thing . as far as their reaction is concerened i told it before also tht they were just worried abt them like a true husband & it's nothing wrong in tht

Hi all,

Originally posted by: laxmi_s

Hi all,

Just now came across this beautiful discussion... So thought of penning my POV on this....Some highlights have been given on the better women in the serials like Tulsi, Parvati, Prerna, Archana and so on and i agree our bidaai girls have never shown their inner strength as compared to the ones stated above. the above stated characters were shown strong enough to face hurdles and call spade a spade but the sequences given to them to prove their strength was more of a detective work....not realistic enough. I feel the only woman whom i can respect truly as a woman power now has been Baa of Baa bahu baby... She has been shown a strong character in the most realistic manner who has carried the entire burden of her family on her shoulders, earning for them by doing catering from home, respecting her drunkard husband, considering the desires and self-respect of her bahus, being a moralistic and practical living example for her sons and a loving and a stern grandmother to her grandchildren. I mean such beautiful depiction of a woman has never been shown before and will never be depicted in future too.(sorry mods.....😉)

Coming to our topic, I felt there are lots of gotchis happening in the bidaai from tuesday onwards.... 😕 I cannot figure out which track they are trying to focus and messing up the whole like a khichdi. 😆 Example.. yesterday's track, they wanted the girls to be shown employed i am sure this was suddenly highlighted to carry the sequence of Anand further and not for our desire to see them well-placed.

Alekh's expression and the reply when Sadi asked was even more disgusting. He should have held her hand and said, whatever they decide and do they will respect their contribution ,admire their willingness to work.... and added that the household work, instead of 4 hands pitching in, 8 hands can do the work faster...... Instead they showed a confused face of Alekh and to add to it he said she has to part time job as she has to handle the house work too.... i don't know what kind of a dialogue was that to be said by Alekh..... the dialogue writer has messed up the entire sequences...though i refuse to accept Alekh had intended to mean what he actually said......

regarding Sadi and Ragini doing the embroidery work, with due respect to any work, work is worship, but here atleast consider the qualification of the girls. Ragini as a dance teacher would have been better she has been shown the winner, though i agree Bani here, they are not good dancers, but this would be better according to the characters atleast. Sadi can be shown employed in a school as a teacher... forget even that nowadays in the technology age, can't they get into even a data entry job???? the whole scene was a flop....

Bidaai needs to get realistic guys, the girls have been hearing a lot said about their father from Vasu.... the situation did not stop them to walk off, they stood listening to all that shit, i don't know howand why??? How can one bear the rude words said by anyone regarding our parents? Agreed Indian bahus use silence to show respect, but here Vasu is using their silence for her defence and playing games.... u all were correct.... Vasu though negative is much stronger than any of the Bidaai characters......😆

Very well said. Baa of BBB is a real power in the true sense. Her persona was very strong and it looked real also. Even she had weakness but she used to overcome that with her wisdom.

Very true... Baa too was never shown perfect.. she did her share of mistakes too, but the fun part was her husband who never contributed much to the family, drilled her mistakes in correct sense and Baa acted on his words with respect ,considered her mistakes and this self-realisation too taught innumerable values to others in the family....She never ignored even the words of her grandchildren...supported her daughter-in-laws more than her daughter (charu).... upbringing Gattu(retarded character) and baby(physically challenged) in the most positive attitude....😛. believe me, each and every character of this serial had a beautiful and lovely shade and one can never say who is better than whom..... love this to the core.... can never expect such realistic serials ever...

@ teddysweety,

U bought up such a beautiful thread for discussion and i enjoyed it every bit. Every one who wrote in this thread truly reflected lovely points....😉 sadly, the next episode flushed our entire discussion down the drain...😭. The guys just showed up cooking for the girls and made up the matter.... r u remembering still what made u open up this discussion.....😲 as i felt that those scenes were really not put forward well.... They meant to mean something else and depicted something else....😕 good if u forgotten those issues, .... very nice thread related to bidaai...... really enjoyed....👏 sadly i can guess this job is only related to Anand track and nothing more.....😭