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well he cant be loving towards HIS wife in the 1st place if he cant understand HIS wife's feelings to help out her parents & cant respect her parents

Thats idealism vs. reality

Its not as white and black as you wish it would be.

It has many grey shades.

About Sagini not speaking up for their parents, thats the reality.
How many men taunt their wife's parents? Brothers? curse them out?

how many said, enough is enough , you and your words go to H_|_
and leave the house breaking their families? leaving their children ?

Its very tricky situation.. and really depends on teh couples involved, children involved, Families involved many many grey shades. We cannot simply say NO SHE HAS TO SUPPORT. whats the point, how ehsaan faramosh she is...
its not that simple and easy :S
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Originally posted by: _-sHoNaa-_

i dnt think ekta will ever show a weak woman cuz she herself is a very strong woman.

Seriously sagini bringing back the family together would mean NOTHING to me. I am sorry but if u cant even defend ur parents when ur MIL or ANYBODY is talking crap about ur parents, then wats the point really? They expect their hubbies to get bak wid their mom but sagini r equally at fault for not speaking up for their parents EVER. That's just plain hypocrisy according to me.

That part of Sagini's persoanlity annoys the hell out me! (sprry for the bad language)

Originally posted by: suchitra_1

Thats idealism vs. reality

Its not as white and black as you wish it would be.

It has many grey shades.

About Sagini not speaking up for their parents, thats the reality.
How many men taunt their wife's parents? Brothers? curse them out?

how many said, enough is enough , you and your words go to H_|_
and leave the house breaking their families? leaving their children ?

Its very tricky situation.. and really depends on teh couples involved, children involved, Families involved many many grey shades. We cannot simply say NO SHE HAS TO SUPPORT. whats the point, how ehsaan faramosh she is...
its not that simple and easy :S
😕

i know its very tough, very very tough actually...its always women always going through the hardest times

if she tries to help her parents, she wud be wrong & if she sticks to what her hubby says, she's still wrong.

but she MUST speak up for her rights...if she doesnt...well she's definitely the one to be blamed.

Originally posted by: chocolover89

That part of Sagini's persoanlity annoys the hell out me! (sprry for the bad language)

Vasu has done and said so much crap to the Sharma family and Sagini have done nothing other than cry EVER! Not even a "mummyji please don't talk to my parents that way."

Vasu insults Mamaji like anything everytime she sees him. Do Sagini REALIZE that their family would be on the streets if Anand did not pay? Where would they go? In the foursome's house? I'm not quite sure if that house could take so many people living in it!

Have they forgotten that Vasu put Kaushi's LIFE on the line for her mission to separate Salekh. Kaushi could have died!

Vinu went to jail because of Vasu in a way!

What else is Vasu supposed to do before they finally utter one word of defense for their parents/family? Kill them?

We have complained about it to RS many times i recall. And he also said sagini will be shown as strong characters. Wonder what is his definition of them being strong? 😕

Thats a reality though, many woman will behave in a better way to her MIL/FIL than to her own parents. But sagini seriously r making vasu a big spoilt brat by letting her do anything & everything! They should know that if their husbands r doing something now, its for the good not for the bad.

It would be a miracle & i wud throw party tht day when sagini speak up for themselves. I really loved that sadhna & vasu scene in the mandir where sadhna defends herslef FOR THE FIRST TIME EVER. BUT she's bak to her old mode...

Originally posted by: suchitra_1

Really depends Shonaa.
what if the son in law who is very loving towards HIS wife and HIS children says you cannot help them and neither you can go and work?

will she break her marriage ?

It really depends...

Originally posted by: _-sHoNaa-_

We have complained about it to RS many times i recall. And he also said sagini will be shown as strong characters. Wonder what is his definition of them being strong? 😕

Thats a reality though, many woman will behave in a better way to her MIL/FIL than to her own parents. But sagini seriously r making vasu a big spoilt brat by letting her do anything & everything! They should know that if their husbands r doing something now, its for the good not for the bad.

It would be a miracle & i wud throw party tht day when sagini speak up for themselves. I really loved that sadhna & vasu scene in the mandir where sadhna defends herslef FOR THE FIRST TIME EVER. BUT she's bak to her old mode...

Lols the word "strong" gives me nightmares. I can only say that my definition of strong is very different from RS and Bidaai CT's definition of "strong." Yes it is a sad reality in today's world. But Sagini aren't making things better, they're just feeding Vasu's huge ego.

This situation is very common in most of the families now.

Women should use their smartness in convincing husbands that she can become good in all. This is the only solution which I feel is balanced.

Yes!
That is the only solution. The convincing and being a diplomat really , the situation is soo sticky that even if one speaks up for their rights it can worsen the situation.

The best way is to behave diplomatically and definitely women excel in this field

Originally posted by: KiNnY-pArTnEr

sadi can be teacher

and teach what...how to make the best sacrifices😛

Originally posted by: Omshanti1111

and teach what...how to make the best sacrifices😛

she can teach IF🤣