Is Alekh doing justice to Mallika?

vishmewell

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Posted: 15 years ago

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Well Mallika is an adult. That too a well educated (loooot more educated than Aalekh) entrepreneur. Aalekh never indicated he loves her. Never even looks at her when she talks. Won't let her touch him even. Aalekh told her in clear words, this is how he is going to be. Take it or Leave it. She chose to take it... You reap what you sow...

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Shilpa.Agarwal

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mallika and her dad are vamp n villian in making only cos of alekh.....btw Omshanti1111 y r u writing like dis for sadhna?? i dun think ur writing shud not be affected even if all ppl on d forum go against sadhna.....as Rabindranath Tagore has said "jodi tore daak shone kou na ache tobe ekla cholo re".

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Bani

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Originally posted by: Shilpa.Agarwal
mallika and her dad are vamp n villian in making only cos of alekh.....btw Omshanti1111 y r u writing like dis for sadhna?? i dun think ur writing shud not be affected even if all ppl on d forum go against sadhna.....as Rabindranath Tagore has said "jodi tore daak shone kou na ache tobe ekla cholo re".

You are right I should not have, but see those were not my words...I got every emotional when people wrote bad stuff for such a great sacrifice of Sadhna...

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Shilpa.Agarwal

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Originally posted by: Omshanti1111

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You are right I should not have, but see those were not my words...I got every emotional when people wrote bad stuff for such a great sacrifice of Sadhna...</font>

there were ppl who cud find faults wid sita maa then what is sadhna?? only shows how our society is incapable of fully recognizing and appreciating the gud......we shud be able to accept this bitter truth....though i can understand ur position too.....its easier said than done

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Originally posted by: Shilpa.Agarwal

there were ppl who cud find faults wid sita maa then what is sadhna?? only shows how our society is incapable of fully recognizing and appreciating the gud......we shud be able to accept this bitter truth....though i can understand ur position too.....its easier said than done

👏 for what you wrote...1000% true...Sadhna's character is like Sita's...I got so emotional yesterday when I saw some illogical posts about Sadhna from very sensible people...I got more upset as those were from a very sensible member, who never writes one loose word in the forum...

I remember that song from Amar Prem that " tu kaun hain tera naam hain kya, Sita bhi yeha badnaam hueee"

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Shilpa.Agarwal

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Originally posted by: Omshanti1111

👏 <font color="#0000ff">for what you wrote...1000% true...Sadhna's character is like Sita's...I got so emotional yesterday when I saw some illogical posts about Sadhna from very sensible people...I got more upset as those were from a very sensible member, who never writes one loose word in the forum...

I remember that song from Amar Prem that " tu kaun hain tera naam hain kya, Sita bhi yeha badnaam hueee"</font>

it is indeed painful......infact i feel pitty for the ppl who cannot understand the beauty of sadhna.....as individuals we can only try to express ourselves and in the process we may be able to help others understand sadhna but we cannot force anything on ne1.....alone we may not be able re-shape public opinion but atleast we can do our bit n d effort is worth it....plz continue writing the way u do.....goodness must be appreciated and personally i appreciate d way u do it....

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Friends - i just want to add here that everyone's entitled to their opinions. Some folks may feel strongly against Sadhna while others may feel like justifying her. In fact, there are plenty in the forum who STRONGLY support Aalekh and do not appreciate what Sadhna did.

So in a nutshell, beauty lies in the eyes of the beholder. To many of you, Sadhna is the icon of beauty while to others she is flawed. Its a matter of different perspective. So to everyone, lets agree to disagree and leave it at that. I dont think one opinion is better or worse than the other, just different.

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Originally posted by: serialjunkie
Friends - i just want to add here that everyone's entitled to their opinions. Some folks may feel strongly against Sadhna while others may feel like justifying her. In fact, there are plenty in the forum who STRONGLY support Aalekh and do not appreciate what Sadhna did.

So in a nutshell, beauty lies in the eyes of the beholder. To many of you, Sadhna is the icon of beauty while to others she is flawed. Its a matter of different perspective. So to everyone, lets agree to disagree and leave it at that. I dont think one opinion is better or worse than the other, just different.

Sadhana is a noble character but that doesn't mean that she can't make mistakes, as no one is perfect. Sadhana is so pure and her intentions are always right but she does make some illogical decisions at times as she is very emotional character. When people write something against her (about divorce issue), they are basically criticizing the "act" not the character. There are so many loop-holes in this track, its very difficult to find any logic. I feel CVs are giving a wrong message to the audience by showing this.

As for Alekh, he is wrong but not everything is his fault, so putting all the blame on him is not right. Most of the time the circumstances are such that its very difficult to differentiate between right and wrong. Alekh is a very simple and emotional guy, its not like he is harming Sadhana intentionally, neither he is giving any false hopes to Mallika.

Mallika is falling for a guy who is married and his divorce is not even finalized. She is so much blinded in love and can't even notice that Alekh needs time to recover from his past relationship.

Sadhana-Alekh-Mallika are equally responsible for their own miseries...they are a victim of circumstances and of-course Vasu's master game plan.

Even in AA track, Ragini agreed to marry Shishir even though she was in love with Ranveer only for her parents happiness. Was she doing any justice to Shishir or was she true to herself ? People make sacrifices for their family. Shishir stopped the engagement when he found out that Ragini loves another guy.
The only difference here is that Alekh is married, but Saalekh are not a couple in real sense. They have not even expressed their love for each other. A husband-wife relationship is so unique and special...there should be intimacy between them, then only this relationship becomes so strong.

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Taral

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I am quoting you Anu...but I am writing in a general statement....I wanted what you wrote as sub topics...so its really not written to you personally....just a general statement.

Sadhana is a noble character but that doesn't mean that she can't make mistakes, as no one is perfect. Sadhana is so pure and her intentions are always right but she does make some illogical decisions at times. When people write something against her (about divorce issue), they are basically criticizing the "act" not the character. There are so many loop-holes in this track, its very difficult to find any logic. If it is the act that your criticizing then it is Alekh's act the many are criticizing also. Just like Sadhna it isn't the character of Alekh that we do not agree with, it is what he is doing that is wrong. He is indeed a very soft hearted good individual.

As for Alekh, he is wrong but not everything is his fault, so putting all the blame on him is not right. Most of the time the circumstances are such that its very difficult to differentiate between right and wrong. Alekh is a very simple and emotional guy, its not like he is harming Sadhana intentionally, neither he is giving any false hopes to Mallika. Just like we can not blame Alekh for everthing because of time and circumstances that have made it difficult to differentiate between right and wrong, then the same can go for Sadhna, the situations that revolved around her were so complex that she could not differentiate what was right and what was wrong. She knew that signing for money was wrong, hence she refused strongly the first time Vasu asked and took her chances on her naseeb. Two, when she finally saw Ragini in the dance and over heard her lecture to Ranveer, she also got emotional and didn't know what to do, to win and to lose. She refused to on stage the final time at the push of Guru maa, because once again she reminded her of her Laksh....however still fighting a battel inside her whether to let Ragini win or for herself to win. Three, she tried to explain to Ranveer right before goin on stage but was pushed away by the show people. Four, she put her very best in until that last minute, when her "emotions" came in the way, she feel to the ground. Five, she kept getting the phone calls from Venu to hurry up making her even more confused on what to do. Six, when she lost, she faced Vasu once again, her last hope. The choice was NOT between Alekh and Mamiji, it was between LIFE and DEATH. Seven, she didn't want to sign even then, she flashed back to everything that happened, her hand shaked, but she signed, still confused if she did that right thing or not. But at that moment it was the right thing because if she lost Mamiji then she would never be able to get her back, while Alekh she had a chance to explain (which he didn't let her). So, if Alekh's mistakes can be blamed on circumstances, then so can Sadhna's. If he gets a clear way out by saying its not his fault then so should Sadhna. As for him not giving false hope to Malika. Well he is indeed, hence he puts her picture down in yesterdays episode, he DOES NOT LOVE nor LIKE HER. and she should have all the right to know that. That is indeed giving false hope. If he told her his true feelings then yes he isn't but by covering up is feeling for Sadhna, and trying to move on with Malika when he doesn't want to his not fair.

Mallika is falling for a guy who is married and his divorce is not even finalized. She is so much blinded in love and can't even notice that Alekh needs time to recover from his past relationship.

Sadhana-Alekh-Mallika are equally responsible for their own miseries...they are a victim of circumstances and of-course Vasu's master game plan. Couldn't agree more!

Even in AA track, Ragini agreed to marry Shishir even though she was in love with Ranveer only for her parents happiness. Was she doing any justice to Shishir or was she true to herself ? People make sacrifices for their family. Shishir broke the engagement when he found out that Ragini loves another guy.

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Shwe

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Posted: 15 years ago

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Originally posted by: --Anu--

Sadhana is a noble character but that doesn't mean that she can't make mistakes, as no one is perfect. Sadhana is so pure and her intentions are always right but she does make some illogical decisions at times as she is very emotional character. When people write something against her (about divorce issue), they are basically criticizing the "act" not the character. There are so many loop-holes in this track, its very difficult to find any logic. I feel CVs are giving a wrong message to the audience by showing this.

As for Alekh, he is wrong but not everything is his fault, so putting all the blame on him is not right. Most of the time the circumstances are such that its very difficult to differentiate between right and wrong. Alekh is a very simple and emotional guy, its not like he is harming Sadhana intentionally, neither he is giving any false hopes to Mallika.

Mallika is falling for a guy who is married and his divorce is not even finalized. She is so much blinded in love and can't even notice that Alekh needs time to recover from his past relationship.

Sadhana-Alekh-Mallika are equally responsible for their own miseries...they are a victim of circumstances and of-course Vasu's master game plan.

Even in AA track, Ragini agreed to marry Shishir even though she was in love with Ranveer only for her parents happiness. Was she doing any justice to Shishir or was she true to herself ? People make sacrifices for their family. Shishir stopped the engagement when he found out that Ragini loves another guy.
The only difference here is that Alekh is married, but Saalekh are not a couple in real sense. They have not even expressed their love for each other. A husband-wife relationship is so unique and special...there should be intimacy between them, then only this
relationship becomes so strong.

I completely agree with you, Anu. I love and adore Sadhna myself, but in this track, we have gotten to see some of Sadhna's weaknesses. Sadhna's sacrifices are something that I appreciate and admire, but she could not prioritize her needs. At some level, she will be responsible for Mallika's heart-break....Like some others discussed, Alekh, Sadhna and Mallika are all responsible for what will happen on Monday. It is not fair to put all the blame on Alekh or Mallika. Sadhna has let down Alekh as much as Alekh has let down Sadhna and as much he will let down Mallika....
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