Is Alekh doing justice to Mallika? - Page 5

Originally posted by: --Anu--

You are quoting me even before I edit my post. lol

May be I am not able to make myself clear to you. Anyways..

Mental Alekh stood-up for his "DOST" and cared for his "DOST" not for his wife. He was like another 10 year boy who would fight for his friend. Did he even know the real meaning of marriage ? Sadhana could not even share her true feelings with him, he was so much dependent on her. They need to revive their relationship at a grown-up level (the next level lol) and that doesn't mean just physical...its emotional, mental and spiritual as well.

thats why I said...its not that they didn't have a emotional connection...it was the complexity of Alekh's character that didn't allow them to be "real husband and wife".......but when Alekh did come to adult hood, he still never understood.......when his turn to be not a dost and a husband he fell short. So, the lack is not emotional its circumstances once again....

Originally posted by: serialjunkie

Friends - i just want to add here that everyone's entitled to their opinions. Some folks may feel strongly against Sadhna while others may feel like justifying her. In fact, there are plenty in the forum who STRONGLY support Aalekh and do not appreciate what Sadhna did.

So in a nutshell, beauty lies in the eyes of the beholder. To many of you, Sadhna is the icon of beauty while to others she is flawed. Its a matter of different perspective. So to everyone, lets agree to disagree and leave it at that. I dont think one opinion is better or worse than the other, just different.

Thanks Serialjunkie.

We are not arguing about a character at all... it's the actions. we differ that someone with a human body can be goddess or flawless. They may be better humans than an average person. But flawless? Impossible. If they are flawless then they are not human beings. Every human being has flaws but may vary in degree. Everyone makes mistakes intentional or unintentional. People make wrong judgments all the time, so did Aalekh in believing everything his mother told him. It is Vasu who broke her son's trust. And so did Sadhana by not considering how Aalekh is going to perceive when he sees the divorce papers. In both their cases, it is not intentional but rather a judgmental error on their part.

Originally posted by: taral83

thats why I said...its not that they didn't have a emotional connection...it was the complexity of Alekh's character that didn't allow them to be "real husband and wife".......but when Alekh did come to adult hood, he still never understood.......when his turn to be not a dost and a husband he fell short. So, the lack is not emotional its circumstances once again....

He is learning everything with time and experience and after he started becoming normal he was running away from "LOVE" and just wanted to prove himself first. He used to feel so much frustrated and helpless and then there were so many unfavorable circumstances and one thing lead to another...finally he is getting there. Once he realizes his follies, he will become a very good husband for Sadhana in true sense.

When RagVir went on their honeymoon, there was a scene in which both couples go for elephant riding, Ragini sits behind Ranveer and holds him....whereas Sadhana sits in the front and Alekh holds her from behind. It was such a meaningful scene and showed excellent contrast in their relationship.
In another incidence they go for shopping, Ranveer asks Ragini to buy something and he pays for it where as Alekh throws a tantrum and asks Sadhana to buy something for him and she pays for it.

So the emotional connection between them was different as Alekh was so much dependent on her for his basic needs. In both these incidences there was a clear sadness on Sadhana's face but she never shared with anyone.

Originally posted by: Sara99

I don't post much but i couldn't help but comment on this...

Alekh has literally woken up in a man's body and is still coming to terms with everything.

Yes it has been frustrating watching him kick Sadhna to the curb but i've come to the conclusion that he foremost was feeling so guilty about the way he treated his mum for all those years that he literally was out to prove that she would be first priority in his life and then going to work at Rajvansh industries was so that his parents could be proud of him (him being a good son).

But somewhere he still has to learn about being a husband so them having to go through all this is probably serving as a catalyst to work at his relationship with Sadhna and finally to actually start their married life together.

Thanks Sara. Some of have been saying the same thing. The man needs time to learn. And he should be given that time thaki woh samajh saken, parakh saken. One cannot expect magic to happen over night. As you said he literally woke up as a man from a 5 year old. And that's the fact. The very fact that he is guilty and always thinking about sadhana itself a proof he has come a long way and that now he should see his mom's real face.

Originally posted by: taral83

He is learning everything with time and experience and after he started becoming normal he was running away from "LOVE" and just wanted to prove himself first. He used to feel so much frustrated and helpless and then there were so many unfavorable circumstances and one thing lead to another...finally he is getting there. Once he realizes his follies, he will become a very good husband for Sadhana in true sense.I never said he wont be I am sure he will turn out to be a great husband once all the misunderstandings are cleared, but what he is doing at the moment is wrong. Him trying to learn and understand and experience doesn't make his current actions right.

When RagVir went on their honeymoon, there was a scene in which both couples go for elephant riding, Ragini sits behind Ranveer and holds him....whereas Sadhana sits in the front and Alekh holds her from behind. It was such a meaningful scene and showed excellent contrast in their relationship.
In another incidence they go for shopping, Ranveer asks Ragini to buy something and he pays for it where as Alekh throws a tantrum and asks Sadhana to buy something for him and she pays for it.

So the emotional connection between them was different as Alekh was so much dependent on her for his basic needs. In both these incidences there was a clear sadness on Sadhana's face but she never shared with anyone.

No one said he is right...but we can give him another chance. Right !! Its not entirely his fault. Bachaa bada ho raha hai.😆

Originally posted by: --Anu--

Sadhana is a noble character but that doesn't mean that she can't make mistakes, as no one is perfect. Sadhana is so pure and her intentions are always right but she does make some illogical decisions at times as she is very emotional character. When people write something against her (about divorce issue), they are basically criticizing the "act" not the character. There are so many loop-holes in this track, its very difficult to find any logic. I feel CVs are giving a wrong message to the audience by showing this.

As for Alekh, he is wrong but not everything is his fault, so putting all the blame on him is not right. Most of the time the circumstances are such that its very difficult to differentiate between right and wrong. Alekh is a very simple and emotional guy, its not like he is harming Sadhana intentionally, neither he is giving any false hopes to Mallika.

Mallika is falling for a guy who is married and his divorce is not even finalized. She is so much blinded in love and can't even notice that Alekh needs time to recover from his past relationship.

Sadhana-Alekh-Mallika are equally responsible for their own miseries...they are a victim of circumstances and of-course Vasu's master game plan.

Even in AA track, Ragini agreed to marry Shishir even though she was in love with Ranveer only for her parents happiness. Was she doing any justice to Shishir or was she true to herself ? People make sacrifices for their family. Shishir stopped the engagement when he found out that Ragini loves another guy.
The only difference here is that Alekh is married, but Saalekh are not a couple in real sense. They have not even expressed their love for each other. A husband-wife relationship is so unique and special...there should be intimacy between them, then only this relationship becomes so strong.

I absolutely agree with Anu. 👏👏👏👏👏👏. All your six paragraphs are very well put. Everything is not Aalekh's fault. If their marriage fell apart, both contributed towards it. They never had any sort of intimacy in that marriage. Aalekh doesn't even know what the feelings he has Sadhana; whether it is love or something else. He cannot explain the biological changes nor even can make sense to him. now he has to learn and feel that aspect for him to feel like a husband.

Mallika is educated business woman. She can make her decisions. And she has to take responsibility for her own decisions. Everyone's mistakes cannot become Aalekh's responsibility. He is the most straight forward human.

Originally posted by: vishmewell

I absolutely agree with Anu. 👏. All your six paragraphs are very well put. Everything is not Aalekh's fault. If their marriage fell apart, both contributed towards it. They never had any sort of intimacy in that marriage. Aalekh doesn't even know what the feelings he has Sadhana; whether it is love or something else. He cannot explain the biological changes nor even can make sense to him. now he has to learn and feel that aspect for him to feel like a husband.

Mallika is educated business woman. She can make her decisions. And she has to take responsibility for her own decisions. Everyone's mistakes cannot become Aalekh's responsibility. He is the most straight forward human.

Thanks. 🤗

Alekh will make us proud very soon. 😃

Originally posted by: --Anu--

No one said he is right...but we can give him another chance. Right !! Its not entirely his fault. Bachaa bada ho raha hai.😆

@ Taral - every man must prove himself first that he is something and he is laayak enough to feed his wife and able to take care of their minimum needs.

And besides, Aalekh doesn't know what LOVE is. He doesn't even know that his feelings for Sadhana are attributed as LOVE. from totally biological point of view, when Aalekh became normal, all she must be seeing is a handsome, hot, super hot, super duper hot husband. But unaware that Aalekh's biological clock is all whacked up and confused about these feelings or physical changes. Sadhana being normal and whose biological clock is doing it's routine job, and unaware of the man's biological whacked up problem, may have been feeling frustrated in the sub-conscience mind and could have let go of her rationale...

When we judge a person, it is also necessary to understand the human Physiology and Psychology.

I am being branded as a hater of Sadhana on this forum 😆😆, but I am not. I am just trying to see from every aspect of human life. 😳😳 I am not trying to offend anybody here.
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Originally posted by: svesum

I completely agree with you, Anu. I love and adore Sadhna myself, but in this track, we have gotten to see some of Sadhna's weaknesses. Sadhna's sacrifices are something that I appreciate and admire, but she could not prioritize her needs. At some level, she will be responsible for Mallika's heart-break....Like some others discussed, Alekh, Sadhna and Mallika are all responsible for what will happen on Monday. It is not fair to put all the blame on Alekh or Mallika. Sadhna has let down Alekh as much as Alekh has let down Sadhna and as much he will let down Mallika....
IMO

Yes, they are all adults and responsible for their own acts and now they must put their best foot forward to clean up their own acts.

Originally posted by: vishmewell

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@ Taral - every man must prove himself first that he is something and he is laayak enough to feed his wife and able to take care of their minimum needs.

And besides, Aalekh doesn't know what LOVE is. He doesn't even know that his feelings for Sadhana are attributed as LOVE. from totally biological point of view, when Aalekh became normal, all she must be seeing is a handsome, hot, super hot, super duper hot husband. But unaware that Aalekh's biological clock is all whacked up and confused about these feelings or physical changes. Sadhana being normal and whose biological clock is doing it's routine job, and unaware of the man's biological whacked up problem, may have been feeling frustrated in the sub-conscience mind and could have let go of her rationale...

When we judge a person, it is also necessary to understand the human Physiology and Psychology.

I am being branded as a hater of Sadhana on this forum 😆😆, but I am not. I am just trying to see from every aspect of human life. 😳😳 I am not trying to offend anybody here.
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@bold : Very well said...Alekh's life was in reverse gear...got married first...then realized that he is nobody and needs to prove himself first and become worthy for his lovely wife. He became so much involved in his work and presentations and Sadhana became insecure. Chalo, better late than never. He has become laayak in business and now he will become a great husband for his dear wife.

@blue : Are you sure ? I think its us (Alekh fans)...🤣