Sadhana MUST learn a lesson:Mod's note on PG42 - Page 24

lol at Bani, I made is CLEAR that Vish is a SHE rofl. I deserve credit for that information!

@Nu_ADu AWWWWW Thanks I am glad that you agree with me.

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Originally posted by: suchitra_1

lol at Bani, I made is CLEAR that Vish is a SHE rofl. I deserve credit for that information!

@Nu_ADu AWWWWW Thanks I am glad that you agree with me.

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Originally posted by: Nu_Adu

Oh my God I LOVE YOU!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! ❤️😃 I seriously do!

And very very well said by some others here too (Bani, Kashif, Guddi...can't remember the rest, it's been 29 pages of long posts! )

I just want to say that Sadhna did NOT divorce anyone! Yes she signed a bunch of papers to save Kaushalya ji...but that wasn't a divorce! 😕 I think it's very unfair and unjust to consider it so! Sadhna never in her wildest dreams expected her beloved Alekh ji to come to her in an ugly rage and ask her HAAN ya NAAA and then leave her (ONCE AGAIN) in the streets and go off to marry Mallika 😆

She was sure he'd toss the papers, come to her, and they'd reunite! 😍 NO DIVORCE!

And as for the future, yes she might very well think of sacrificing again for her jiji or the life of her Mama or Mami...but as long as Alekh doesn't throw her out of the house and tell her to stay away and yell at her when she tries to talk....she will NOT give him up. Her decisions will always be mutual..it'll be THEIR decision, and THEY can help Ranvir/Ragini or the Sharmas at their best convenience. Sadhna will never make a sauda on anyone's life (NEVER EVER on her marriage to Alekh).

If things had been normal at the time of Vasu's 'divorce' deal...I am CERTAIN Sadhna would've discussed things with Alekh and then taken a decision. But here Alekh had already EMOTIONALLY DIVORCED her (like a couple of you here have said 😃). He had clearly left her for his MAMMA and then for another woman! So the question of discussion doesn't arise. 😊

Sadhna is more than 100% right in her every move. How one can think she's done WRONG to Alekh is beyond me!!!!! She has done more RIGHT to Alekh than any living being can do!

She made a deal out of her marriage and that's so wrong. If she wants to divorce Alekh, then do it with dignity and respect. There were other options for money...Ragini won the competition, Ranveer could have helped, Vinu could have taken a loan. But no...she doesn't want anyone to even move a finger...she is there na for the Sharma parivaar. She didnt' even let Mamaji know about his wife's health.

What was she planning to do...kidnap Kaushi in the middle of the night and get her operated, then bring her back home before everyone wakes up. This is the most unrealistic track. When there is such crisis in the family that is a life and death situation, this is not how its handled. No one even informed Ragini about this.

Now whats important is ,

How Alekh will make this situation proper and earn enough respect from me (like it matters)

But I really want Alekh to realize that Sadhana probably had some majboori. We saw today that he was thinking of Sadhana and probably is worried about the engagement tomorrow.

I hope Ranvir talks to Alekh and tries to make him see things. And upon hearing this Alekh joins hands with Ranvir to make Vasu accept her own fault.

I am confused as to how that will happen. Now that Indrajeet knows about it and the outburst of Vasu had already happened, how will Vasu accept her own doings?

As Ranvir stopped Ragini from exposing her deeds in a closed room rather than he said she will do an open confrontation in front of everyone.

So Ideal would be Alekh is convinced by Ranvir and somehow makes Vasu realize and accept her fault.

Originally posted by: --Anu--

She made a deal out of her marriage and that's so wrong. If she wants to divorce Alekh, then do it with dignity and respect. There were other options for money...Ragini won the competition, Ranveer could have helped, Vinu could have taken a loan. But no...she doesn't want anyone to even move a finger...she is there na for the Sharma parivaar. She didnt' even let Mamaji know about his wife's health.

What was she planning to do...kidnap Kaushi in the middle of the night and get her operated, then bring her back home before everyone wakes up. This is the most unrealistic track. When there is such crisis in the family that is a life and death situation, this is not how its handled. No one even informed Ragini about this.

That proves that Sadhana didn't take the marriage as a deal.
Cause creatives, geniuses they are, forgot how real life is and made this unrealistic nritya utsav thing and for that they made kaushi get brain clot so that Ragi and Kaushi can start liking Sadhana again.

Soo, what we Sadhanaians have been saying for past 29 pages holds true that Sadi NEVER considered her marriage as a joke this whole stupid divorce track was Creatives fault and sooo out of character. Thus the entire 29 pages argument just went vain!

Alekh will not understand anything till the last minute...till the engagement rings are out! There will be a big mess at the party...I am sure of it! And Vasu will not exactly expose herself..Ranvir-Ragini will MAKE HER! 😛

Originally posted by: suchitra_1

That proves that Sadhana didn't take the marriage as a deal.
Cause creatives, geniuses they are, forgot how real life is and made this unrealistic nritya utsav thing and for that they made kaushi get brain clot so that Ragi and Kaushi can start liking Sadhana again.

Soo, what we Sadhanaians have been saying for past 29 pages holds true that Sadi NEVER considered her marriage as a joke this whole stupid divorce track was Creatives fault and sooo out of character. Thus the entire 29 pages argument just went vain!

She made a deal the moment she decided that she has to lose. If Vasu is buying her son's happiness then Sadhana bought her sisters happiness by signing the papers.

Why do you think Sadhana is not telling anyone about this ? Its because she also knows that she has committed a blunder this time.

CVs are trying make us feel for Sadhana by making Alekh agree to marry Mallika. But its not working for me at all. This time Sadhana is responsible for her own misery.

That she always said, that she is responsible for all what she is going through.

Unlike Alekh who is not blaming himself EVER for throwing her out. Did he even apologize once? Ok for argument sake I agree Sadhana committed a mistake by divorcing (that no good of a person) Alekh.

What now?

What is Alekh going to do? Next step marry Malika. Even if I do agree that Sadhana committed a mistake, even if its a mistake good for her.

Cause , if Alekh was a person who would realize that he cannot cheat his own feelings, his own love for Sadhana , even though according to him "she did" then I would be like ok Sadhana should have made things clear to him.

If Alekh was a person who would listen to his heart ( like the abnormal Alekh whom I adored) then I would say , Sadhana socho kya ker rahi ho...

Alekh apnay dimaag sey kaam le raha hai, ( kiyunki its a new machine, abhi abhi chalni shuru hui hai, bhaav tho khayega) So he is listening to his brain... and doing "tyaag of his love? for his mother?"
NO

As I mentioned before, If we left Alekh and even agreed Sadhana did a mistake, then , Alekh would be married to Malika and just be sad that Oh I loved a girl once but she is history now. My Aaj is Malika and have a happy dappy life.. atleast have a life...

What about Sadhana? for all the good she has done, if this mistake will get her rid of this NO GOOD USER Alekh.

Then Mistake hi sahi, atleast she will be free from him.

Originally posted by: --Anu--

She made a deal the moment she decided that she has to lose. If Vasu is buying her son's happiness then Sadhana bought her sisters happiness by signing the papers.

Why do you think Sadhana is not telling anyone about this ? Its because she also knows that she has committed a blunder this time.

CVs are trying make us feel for Sadhana by making Alekh agree to marry Mallika. But its not working for me at all. This time Sadhana is responsible for her own misery.

Originally posted by: suchitra_1

That she always said, that she is responsible for all what she is going through.

Unlike Alekh who is not blaming himself EVER for throwing her out. Did he even apologize once? Ok for argument sake I agree Sadhana committed a mistake by divorcing (that no good of a person) Alekh.

What now?

What is Alekh going to do? Next step marry Malika. Even if I do agree that Sadhana committed a mistake, even if its a mistake good for her.

Cause , if Alekh was a person who would realize that he cannot cheat his own feelings, his own love for Sadhana , even though according to him "she did" then I would be like ok Sadhana should have made things clear to him.

If Alekh was a person who would listen to his heart ( like the abnormal Alekh whom I adored) then I would say , Sadhana socho kya ker rahi ho...

Alekh apnay dimaag sey kaam le raha hai, ( kiyunki its a new machine, abhi abhi chalni shuru hui hai, bhaav tho khayega) So he is listening to his brain... and doing "tyaag of his love? for his mother?"
NO

As I mentioned before, If we left Alekh and even agreed Sadhana did a mistake, then , Alekh would be married to Malika and just be sad that Oh I loved a girl once but she is history now. My Aaj is Malika and have a happy dappy life.. atleast have a life...

What about Sadhana? for all the good she has done, if this mistake will get her rid of this NO GOOD USER Alekh.

Then Mistake hi sahi, atleast she will be free from him.

Alekh can marry any Mallika, Sallika if he wants...he is not the one who ended this marriage. He is not a puppet...jab chaha deal kar li. He might have not supported his wife but he has never used her. Sadhana married him for her sister's happiness, divorced him for her sisters happiness. He had no say then and he has no say now. But yes...he is supposed to understand her...but what can he understand that his wife had confidence in him but failed to confide in him.