Originally posted by: suchitra_1
Alekh is a user. A worthless man who is a khudhgharz, Ehsaan faramosh person.
He let down Sadhna EVERY STEP after he became normal.
When Sadhana warned about the goons, he didn't believe her.
When Sadhana came back to him, He said I was "abnormal sadhana when I married you"
Like I mentioned before, That is an Emotional Divorce in my POV. He divorced her looong time.
She didn't have any conditions for herself thus the validation of , unconditional becoming unvalid and undermined becomes nulled. She did what ever she did for others and never for herself.
Btw, Marriage is NOT a joke to her if it was she would have left him ages ago.
No one who considers marriage as a joke would stay with a husband who is retarded cause they want their sister to have a good life and get yelled by their mother in law every other day and be treated as a servant and be subjugated to abuse every day.
She stayed every day when he needed her the most and the moment he turned normal and she needed him , he showed his BACK.
and when she returns and she returned ONLY for his sake he showed her the door.
And when his mother asked him to sign the divorce he said, when the relationship has no meaning then whats the point of this paper! he couldn't show his love then?
For a Man who dosen't know the meaning of marriage in his own words, HOW DARE he expects his "so called wife in his own words" to wait for him and expect to Kiss his Shoes? so that he can take her home and she can cook and clean for him?
Please ..
I Officially HATE Alekh until he redeems himself.
I did not dislike Ragini for her behavior towards sadhana because, the amount of love and care sadhana gave to ALEKH is NOTHING , NOTHING compared to what she gave to sharma family.
She saved Alekh from his miserable state when even his mother lost hope in him.
argh! I don't wanna go there..
I hate Alekh thats that until he Redeemssss and begs Sadhana On his FEET for forgivness and makes Sadhana a well deserved life partner that she is, in the eyes of everyone specially Vasu. !
Oh my God I LOVE YOU!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! ❤️😃 I seriously do!
And very very well said by some others here too (Bani, Kashif, Guddi...can't remember the rest, it's been 29 pages of long posts! )
I just want to say that Sadhna did NOT divorce anyone! Yes she signed a bunch of papers to save Kaushalya ji...but that wasn't a divorce! 😕 I think it's very unfair and unjust to consider it so! Sadhna never in her wildest dreams expected her beloved Alekh ji to come to her in an ugly rage and ask her HAAN ya NAAA and then leave her (ONCE AGAIN) in the streets and go off to marry Mallika 😆
She was sure he'd toss the papers, come to her, and they'd reunite! 😍 NO DIVORCE!
And as for the future, yes she might very well think of sacrificing again for her jiji or the life of her Mama or Mami...but as long as Alekh doesn't throw her out of the house and tell her to stay away and yell at her when she tries to talk....she will NOT give him up. Her decisions will always be mutual..it'll be THEIR decision, and THEY can help Ranvir/Ragini or the Sharmas at their best convenience. Sadhna will never make a sauda on anyone's life (NEVER EVER on her marriage to Alekh).
If things had been normal at the time of Vasu's 'divorce' deal...I am CERTAIN Sadhna would've discussed things with Alekh and then taken a decision. But here Alekh had already EMOTIONALLY DIVORCED her (like a couple of you here have said 😃). He had clearly left her for his MAMMA and then for another woman! So the question of discussion doesn't arise. 😊
Sadhna is more than 100% right in her every move. How one can think she's done WRONG to Alekh is beyond me!!!!! She has done more RIGHT to Alekh than any living being can do!