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Posted: 15 years ago

Originally posted by: Ice-Thinker

Yes, there you are... its all on the foundation of majboori.... Sadhna's majboori.

Who is Sanket?... well he gave a good sanket anyways...

I know Alekh seems to be showing his love....what ONLY TO HIMSELF ... how can Sadhna know?

Why does Sadhna need to go through all this all the time? ... Why ??... uff its too much. All I wanted a few months back was a Saalekh love track ... and all this mess from jail to this and what not!... MALLIKA appeared from nowhere...

Why its all messed up when its about my Sadhna!



@ red - On the same token IT, Sadhana seems to be loving only herself. (Becuase Sharma parivar ki khushi hi uski khushi hai). How does Aalekh know Sadhana loves her? Sone pe suhaaga ki tharah, oopar se divorce bhi kardi... 😕
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Posted: 15 years ago

Originally posted by: Nepkanchhi

Unbelievable!!! I'm shaking my head in disbelief to see that how some of our bidaai friends are hell bent to portray Sadhna as golddigger. Wow!!!! Agar achhaiyon and sacrifices ka result yeh hai to who the heck wants to be achha. Perhaps never in my "Bidaai life" I felt this bad for Sadi, not even when Ragi misunderstood her, like now I am feeling. Sadhna, start being selfish....just think about yourself and your life..........yaha tumhari achhaiyon ko samajhne wala koi nahi.



That's right. Sharma family will never understand her achayiyaa... more than good reason to go back to Aalekh and take care of him away from Vasu, away from Rajvansh house, and TOTALLY AWAY from sharma clan. 😆😆😆😆😆
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Posted: 15 years ago

Originally posted by: --Anu--



Not the second time during Shlok track.

Sadhana is a very bright and amazing character but to elevate her goodness there is no need to put down other characters. Her goodness speaks for itself. All the characters have their strengths and weakness.



That's right. So does Sadhana. If everyone agreed on this, we wouldn't be having these discussions. 😆😆
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Posted: 15 years ago

Originally posted by: --Anu--



Thanks Bani. Even I am so shocked to see blunt lies in some posts.



Thanks Bani for appreciating my posts. But I am proud to be SHE 😃!!! not a HE.
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Posted: 15 years ago

Originally posted by: vishmewell



That's right. So does Sadhana. If everyone agreed on this, we wouldn't be having these discussions. 😆😆



Sadhana's weakness is Sharma parivaar ki khushiyan. 😆 Seriously this signing the divorce papers for money is too much to take. Its not a great act in my opinion and I fail to see any logic behind it. This Nritya Mahotsav and Kaushi's illness track is so illogical and unrealistic.
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Posted: 15 years ago

Originally posted by: --Anu--



Yes he has realized his love for her, only the trust part is missing.



@ Nu_Adu - Pyaar ke maamle mein Aalekh zyaada smajhdaar nikla. Not only he understood what love is, but also started transforming into action. If he did not love her her, he would not go after mystery guy, beat him up and almost chocked him to death (a true reaction of a husband), yelled at office manager, mallika, security guys, and also comforted her when she was shaken when the mystery guy attacked her. After the dance he went looking for her. What more proof you want? Hang himself to death or jump off a cliff??

If that's the solution that would be more appealing, then Aasta Lavista, Sayonara and Khudahafis... 😳
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Posted: 15 years ago

Originally posted by: suchitra_1

Alekh is a user. A worthless man who is a khudhgharz, Ehsaan faramosh person.

He let down Sadhna EVERY STEP after he became normal.

When Sadhana warned about the goons, he didn't believe her.

When Sadhana came back to him, He said I was "abnormal sadhana when I married you"

Like I mentioned before, That is an Emotional Divorce in my POV. He divorced her looong time.

She didn't have any conditions for herself thus the validation of , unconditional becoming unvalid and undermined becomes nulled. She did what ever she did for others and never for herself.

Btw, Marriage is NOT a joke to her if it was she would have left him ages ago.

No one who considers marriage as a joke would stay with a husband who is retarded cause they want their sister to have a good life and get yelled by their mother in law every other day and be treated as a servant and be subjugated to abuse every day.
She stayed every day when he needed her the most and the moment he turned normal and she needed him , he showed his BACK.

and when she returns and she returned ONLY for his sake he showed her the door.

And when his mother asked him to sign the divorce he said, when the relationship has no meaning then whats the point of this paper! he couldn't show his love then?

For a Man who dosen't know the meaning of marriage in his own words, HOW DARE he expects his "so called wife in his own words" to wait for him and expect to Kiss his Shoes? so that he can take her home and she can cook and clean for him?

Please ..

I Officially HATE Alekh until he redeems himself.

I did not dislike Ragini for her behavior towards sadhana because, the amount of love and care sadhana gave to ALEKH is NOTHING , NOTHING compared to what she gave to sharma family.

She saved Alekh from his miserable state when even his mother lost hope in him.

argh! I don't wanna go there..

I hate Alekh thats that until he Redeemssss and begs Sadhana On his FEET for forgivness and makes Sadhana a well deserved life partner that she is, in the eyes of everyone specially Vasu. !



Oh my God I LOVE YOU!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! ❤️😃 I seriously do!
And very very well said by some others here too (Bani, Kashif, Guddi...can't remember the rest, it's been 29 pages of long posts! )
I just want to say that Sadhna did NOT divorce anyone! Yes she signed a bunch of papers to save Kaushalya ji...but that wasn't a divorce! 😕 I think it's very unfair and unjust to consider it so! Sadhna never in her wildest dreams expected her beloved Alekh ji to come to her in an ugly rage and ask her HAAN ya NAAA and then leave her (ONCE AGAIN) in the streets and go off to marry Mallika 😆
She was sure he'd toss the papers, come to her, and they'd reunite! 😍 NO DIVORCE!
And as for the future, yes she might very well think of sacrificing again for her jiji or the life of her Mama or Mami...but as long as Alekh doesn't throw her out of the house and tell her to stay away and yell at her when she tries to talk....she will NOT give him up. Her decisions will always be mutual..it'll be THEIR decision, and THEY can help Ranvir/Ragini or the Sharmas at their best convenience. Sadhna will never make a sauda on anyone's life (NEVER EVER on her marriage to Alekh).
If things had been normal at the time of Vasu's 'divorce' deal...I am CERTAIN Sadhna would've discussed things with Alekh and then taken a decision. But here Alekh had already EMOTIONALLY DIVORCED her (like a couple of you here have said 😃). He had clearly left her for his MAMMA and then for another woman! So the question of discussion doesn't arise. 😊
Sadhna is more than 100% right in her every move. How one can think she's done WRONG to Alekh is beyond me!!!!! She has done more RIGHT to Alekh than any living being can do!
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Posted: 15 years ago

Originally posted by: vishmewell


Then she should not cry for Alekh and move on. But that's not the case...she loves him so much and is still waiting for him. If there was nothing left in the marriage then why didnt' she sign the papers before.

Alekh took his own time to realize his love for her and what she means to him.

Alekh was ready to accept Sadhana as his wife in front of Mallika but Sadhana stopped him. Why did she stop him ?

@Red - Alekh has not yet realized any of that yet!


Yes he has realized his love for her, only the trust part is missing.


@ Nu_Adu - Pyaar ke maamle mein Aalekh zyaada smajhdaar nikla. Not only he understood what love is, but also started transforming into action. If he did not love her her, he would not go after mystery guy, beat him up and almost chocked him to death (a true reaction of a husband), yelled at office manager, mallika, security guys, and also comforted her when she was shaken when the mystery guy attacked her. After the dance he went looking for her. What more proof you want? Hang himself to death or jump off a cliff??

If that's the solution that would be more appealing, then Aasta Lavista, Sayonara and Khudahafis... 😳
As proof he needs to go to Sadhna, free himself of his misdeeds by taking away her pain, bring her back and make sure she never cries again in her lifetime! He has no other option of proving it! 😊
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Posted: 15 years ago

Originally posted by: vishmewell



Thanks Bani for appreciating my posts. But I am proud to be SHE 😃!!! not a HE.



sorry ...
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Posted: 15 years ago

Originally posted by: vishmewell

Vishmewell - My response in red font.



@blue : close encounters...you cracked me up. 🤣

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