Sadhana MUST learn a lesson:Mod's note on PG42 - Page 33

Originally posted by: vishmewell

After she signed the paper and not go looking for Aalekh to explain, did it for me. She lost my sympathy. If she nursed him, she signed up for it. Had she not signed the divorce, then all her acts would have been considered Mahan. But now, she just contracted to offer those services.

She did want to explain Alekh.

Limit of bashing and use of sarcasm - No need to use 'Mahaan'. Sadhna is not doing anything to be so called 'Mahaan'. Enough. This word has been used to BASH Sadhna immorally a million times. Did not expect this from you. Well its clear now.

Originally posted by: Rarewatcher

I have been following this thread form the day one, maybe did not have the patience to read thro' complete 38 pages when I did not see any point in this discussion.
Out of mountains of good deeds if we are digging this one controversial issue.
When you are in a tight spot (whether you got their by intention Or not) there bound to happen some judgment like this one.If I was in Sadhana's place I would probably not opted it that way.
So it was Sadhana's decision and I feel like in real life if this had happened, this decision is highly personal.There is no right or wrong here, it is relative if there is one.
Whether you see it scientifically, pathologically or legally it is not wrong in Sadhana's view point according to what she feels.So lets leave it there and stop demeaning the character.Otherwise Vasu and Mamiji will have to end up in jail with the amount of sins they have committed and Alekh will need to go to special school to learn how to judge people, and Ranveer and Mamji end up getting punished for supporting their wives resp.,
I am out of here before I get burried!!!😆😉

Yes, Aalekh needs to go to prolonged therapy sessions which I suggested in first few pages of the discussion.

This is exactly what I want to hear. Everyone has some or other problem. So the radar should not be just on Aalekh and make him a whipping boy. If you want fairness to your favorite character, then the favor needs to be returned in the same token. 😛 There is mountain of goodness in Sadhana and so does Aalekh. People should be willing to call a spade a spade. 😉

Originally posted by: Ice-Thinker

She did want to explain Alekh.

Limit of bashing and use of sarcasm - No need to use 'Mahaan'. Sadhna is not doing anything to be so called 'Mahaan'. Enough. This word has been used to BASH Sadhna immorally a million times. Did not expect this from you. Well its clear now.

IT, the meaning completely changes, when you use only few words from a sentence. In order for the meaning not to be changed, I underlined the whole sentence. Now it reads differently and you will be pleased. 😊

Vishmewell,

Aren't you sort of forgetting Alekh's behaviour towards Saadhna after he turned well? Ignoring her, yelling at her for slightest reason, being cold and distant to her while all the time being polite, joyful and courteous to everyone else. Do you remember the scene where he screamed at her while she accidently dropped some dahi on his shirt? Or once when she was lost in a pleasant reverie and didn't pay enough attention to Alekh's ramblings about office work? How many instance do you need to show that if Alekh loved Sadhna after he turned normal then no one except God could have got an inkling of it.

But, of course I know you'll say that he is a recovering mental patient who is allowed to be rude and hurtful to only his wife, but be a model son, brother and brother-in-law to the rest of the family. Great logic.

Mod's note

Girls already a note was given on Page 17 by Eva that please don't engage into personal attacks or fights..keep it a healthy debate..but now I can see slowly members r starting to attack each other on very minor issues which can b dealt in a rather constructive way..