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^^^the fact that sadi signed the divorce papers ultimately cause she didn't want to see ragi lose, is a stupid, stupid decision, i agree. but alekh, from his point of view, has no right to yell at her for giving him a divorce. he has been a terrible pati. had it been any other girl, she would've left him LOOOOONG time ago, and rightfully so. i know i would. so he has no right to point fingers at sadi for doing that. yes, he is allowed to get hurt, as it is a hurtful thing, but he had no right to, no EXCUSE to act the way he acted today. he was being completely irrational. he clearly saw that sadi was crying and feeling guilty, and she was pleading with him to stop, to just listen to her for two minutes. yet, he didn't do either of those things cause he was soooooooo angry. arrey, alekh is the last person on earth to be angry at sadi, for all that he has put her through, for all the sufferings he has given her... furthermore, had he the will power to just stand there and listen to her for only two minutes, all his hurt would've been removed, all his misunderstandings would have been clear, and he would've gotten his love back to him. but he couldn't do a simple thing like that because his trust for sadi is CONDITIONAL. after all that she has done for him, he still has to be proven in order for him to believe in sadi's actions!!!! there's just no excuse, no excuse at all...so alekh deserves EVERY pain, every suffering he's going through right now. i don't feel sorry for that loser one bit!!!!

Originally posted by: pricey28

@vishmewell: no one had pointed a finger at alekh when he almost choked sadi to death, TWICE, when he'd constantly yell at sadi and be very, very unreasonable towards her, when he became very violent towards others, when his thinking was very irrational, when he couldn't protect sadi against goons and as a result sadi had to take a bullet for him...etc. etc. no one pointed a finger at alekh then for any of the incidents i mentioned above, cause then, he was "pagal". and it is understandable if someone like him acts that way cause they don't know any better. but it is not understandable anymore. it is not ok for him to act the way he's acting now.
alekh is practically handling an entire business empire by himself now. he is able to make deals, convince highly intelligent, highly reputable clients, he is able to both talk the talk and walk the walk with his business partners. he doesn't get scared of roses anymore, he doesn't get scared of police anymore (he even slapped one), he doesn't get lost in the road anymore, he doesn't act helpless anymore when he believes someone might be potentially threatening to his or his loved ones' lives (ie when he beat up the mystery guy), etc. etc. so because of all those things and more, we don't consider alekh a mentally unstable man anymore. therefore we expect him to act in a certain way. and when he doesn't act that way, we don't let it go anymore, and yes, we do point our fingers at him now. also, have you noticed, ever since his recovery alekh has been nice to every single person, even those who have been rude to him, EXCEPT sadi and sadi only, who btw, is someone who was never rude to him. even before the jail track, he would constantly yell at sadi and verbally abuse her. so why is it that he would be nice to everyone in the world EXCEPT sadi...? why is that he has constantly treated ONLY her like dirt ever since his recovery...? you know why, cause he takes sadi for granted, cause he doesn't know her value in his life!!!! and that is why so many are angry at him today.

I agree with everything you said 200%. But relationships and complexity of relationship is totally different from business issues... in relationships you have to actually learn from experience rather than mimic. He has not grown into relationships. Especially a seriou relationship like marriage. He is clueless. Unless Ranvir tells him he is not able to actually perceive things correctly and rationalize them. I only feel sorry his family is not of much help in his development but for Ranvir.

Sadhana could think of Ragini and not about Aalekhs disability to understand relationships? Since when did Ragini become more important than her husband?

Originally posted by: dunia

😍Alekh

Guys its not alekh's fault, he was mentally abnormal, when he became normal, he just wanted to Focus on other things, like business work, how to learn to talk to ppl, he wanted to be like Ranveer, to make his own decesions and work at their office......... meanwhile, Sadhna was feeling that Alekh is ignoring her........

but i think

Es mein alekh ki koi ghalti nahin hai os bechari ko kiya pata Sadhna os se itni jaldi juda hojaigy, so he thought he pehly apni app ko es society mein adjust kardo, per biwi to hamesha paas mein hai, per romance bhi karolnga..........

I would Blame Vasu for all this...........

Ab jab osi samajh mein araha hai to woh aisa react kiyon kar raha hai, yyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy

i don,t know it was unexpected, before todays epi i had a littel sympati with him but after todays epi, he going tooooooooo Farrrrrrrr

i am shocked😲

Hmmm... But why is he SO keen and perfect in ALL his other relationships except with Sadi? If u r saying, he wants to be settled down in his career first, then that's fine, but in that process, he should ignore everyone.. everyone's emotions, his responsibility towards everyone, and not only Sadi..

But unfortunately, he is good son, good brother, good JIJJAJI🤢, but he can never be a good husband nw, becoz shayad hi Sadi ke zindagi mei isse bada koi tufaan aayega, and at the most critical stage of her life, Aalekh ditched her👏..

That girl fought with everyone for Aalekh ji.. she never thought abt her own happiness when she used to live with that paagal.. She was with him when he needed her most.. and what abt Aalekh? Ok fine, he was abnormal, and it will take time for him fine, but why does he think that he can be loyal to ALL other relationship in the process of becoming good businessman and jz ignore Sadi? Who else except Sadi thought n prayed SO hard for him to become normal? Who else took care of him SO well so that he remains happy? And now this man is sacrificing only HER, for the same thing👏👏👏👏 This is the reward Sadi gets from her paagal husband..

He has no right to ignore Sadhna, Vasu also wanted badly that Aalekh becomes normal, but Sadi did that more than Vasu.. After business Aalekh's first responsibility should be towards Sadi, and not Vasu.. But he is becoming more useless day by day

Originally posted by: dunia

😍Alekh

Guys its not alekh's fault, he was mentally abnormal, when he became normal, he just wanted to Focus on other things, like business work, how to learn to talk to ppl, he wanted to be like Ranveer, to make his own decesions and work at their office......... meanwhile, Sadhna was feeling that Alekh is ignoring her........

but i think

Es mein alekh ki koi ghalti nahin hai os bechari ko kiya pata Sadhna os se itni jaldi juda hojaigy, so he thought he pehly apni app ko es society mein adjust kardo, per biwi to hamesha paas mein hai, per romance bhi karolnga..........

I would Blame Vasu for all this...........

Ab jab osi samajh mein araha hai to woh aisa react kiyon kar raha hai, yyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy

i don,t know it was unexpected, before todays epi i had a littel sympati with him but after todays epi, he going tooooooooo Farrrrrrrr

i am shocked😲

Totally weak...totally malleable...totally worthless..need I say more?? He doesn't understand the dynamics of the world..fine I can live with that...but I'm sure he understands the dynamics of how to treat others...what he did today was totally unforgivable...someone needs to stick a pacifier in his mouth and give him to his mother...cause what he did today was childish...Sadhna is not his material possession...and neither does she have to dance to his tunes...I'd be very glad if he gets trapped into a loveless marriage with Mallika

Yes, Alekh was wrong in that he didn't bother asking Sadhna why she signed the papers. He should have had more trust in Sadhna. But can Sadhna actually explain anything? No. What is she going to say: I signed the papers because I made myself majboor because I couldn't see my jiji's confidence being crushed. Is that answer going to make things better? Will that make Alekh happy? Will he stand by that decision? Would ANYBODY stand by such a decision?

chocolover89 i always like your comments

Originally posted by: chocolover89

Yes, Alekh was wrong in that he didn't bother asking Sadhna why she signed the papers. He should have had more trust in Sadhna. But can Sadhna actually explain anything? No. What is she going to say: I signed the papers because I made myself majboor because I couldn't see my jiji's confidence being crushed. Is that answer going to make things better? Will that make Alekh happy? Will he stand by that decision? Would ANYBODY stand by such a decision?

Salekh relationship is extremely weak from both sides. BOTH need to work really hard on it. Sadhna needs to understand that her relationship with Alekh is never truly going to flourish if she just keeps focusing on how to make Ragini happy. Ragini is a grown individual and it's time that Sadhna lets go of Ragini and lets her take care of her own life. Alekh needs to understand that more than love, trust is an integral part of a marriage-and without it, there's really no point to being married no matter how much you love each other because you'll never be happy.

I dont think the relationship is weak from both sides...specially Sadhana's. Actually Sadhana was overconfident that Alekh will surely understand her and not sign the papers. But this was a miscalculation on her part...thats why she was so heart-broken today. Most of the time Saalekh spent with each other, Alekh was mentally unstable person. So Alekh will learn the hard way about trust and understanding part of marriage.

Originally posted by: --Anu--

I dont think the relationship is weak from both sides...specially Sadhana's. Actually Sadhana was overconfident that Alekh will surely understand her and not sign the papers. But this was a miscalculation on her part...thats why she was so heart-broken today. Most of the time Saalekh spent with each other, Alekh was mentally unstable person. So Alekh will learn the hard way about trust and understanding part of marriage.

I think it's weak from Sadhna's side as well because I feel like she gives Ragini more importance than her marriage to Alekh. There's no doubt that she loves Alekh dearly, and trusts him (2 key factors in a marriage), but I feel as if she keeps placing Ragini's happiness over her marriage, then her marriage isn't a very strong one.

Now I really feel ... Naveen should take step ....