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I am disappointed with Alekh. He needs serious redemption. I think he is the weakest character in the show. I did not understand that y did he start yelling at Sadhna for no reason??/😡😡😡 I think that when Ranvir will come to know, he will put some sense into Alekh. But till when Ranvir is gonna hold Alekh's finger. Doesnt he has his own brains?😡😡

No offence. Just my POV

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Originally posted by: prerna4rishav

Hmmm... But why is he SO keen and perfect in ALL his other relationships except with Sadi? If u r saying, he wants to be settled down in his career first, then that's fine, but in that process, he should ignore everyone.. everyone's emotions, his responsibility towards everyone, and not only Sadi..

But unfortunately, he is good son, good brother, good JIJJAJI🤢, but he can never be a good husband nw, becoz shayad hi Sadi ke zindagi mei isse bada koi tufaan aayega, and at the most critical stage of her life, Aalekh ditched her👏..

That girl fought with everyone for Aalekh ji.. she never thought abt her own happiness when she used to live with that paagal.. She was with him when he needed her most.. and what abt Aalekh? Ok fine, he was abnormal, and it will take time for him fine, but why does he think that he can be loyal to ALL other relationship in the process of becoming good businessman and jz ignore Sadi? Who else except Sadi thought n prayed SO hard for him to become normal? Who else took care of him SO well so that he remains happy? And now this man is sacrificing only HER, for the same thing👏👏👏👏 This is the reward Sadi gets from her paagal husband..

He has no right to ignore Sadhna, Vasu also wanted badly that Aalekh becomes normal, but Sadi did that more than Vasu.. After business Aalekh's first responsibility should be towards Sadi, and not Vasu.. But he is becoming more useless day by day

hi

disappointed with alekh yet again

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Originally posted by: chocolover89

I think it's weak from Sadhna's side as well because I feel like she gives Ragini more importance than her marriage to Alekh. There's no doubt that she loves Alekh dearly, and trusts him (2 key factors in a marriage), but I feel as if she keeps placing Ragini's happiness over her marriage, then her marriage isn't a very strong one.

Sadhna was definately overconfident that Alekh will understand her but I don't understand what exactly she was planning on explaining to him when she expected him to ask her why signed the papers. Alekh never really understood what marriage is all about because he was mentally unstable for the majority of his marriage. And, now he's going to learn the hard way for sure.

I understand your point completely. But I wont call this....a weak marriage from Sadhana's side.
Her decision of losing the competition on purpose has more to do with her character sketch. Sadhana always has good intentions but they are sometimes misguided. She became emotionally weak for a split second and didn't realize at that very moment that things would go this far. If she is having hopes from Alekh then it clearly shows that she considers her marriage bond very strong which a piece of paper can never break. But Alekh is different...this is where she made a huge mistake.

At the end of the day THE Conclusion is: Alekh doesn't deserve Sadhna..........let him marry whoever he wants.....ooopppppppppsssssssssss....whoever his mom wants him to marry....

what is up with this "mummy complex" that seems to ail practically all the so-called heroes of indian television!
Freud would freak out!

Originally posted by: vishmewell

I agree with everything you said 200%. But relationships and complexity of relationship is totally different from business issues... in relationships you have to actually learn from experience rather than mimic. He has not grown into relationships. Especially a seriou relationship like marriage. He is clueless. Unless Ranvir tells him he is not able to actually perceive things correctly and rationalize them. I only feel sorry his family is not of much help in his development but for Ranvir.

Sadhana could think of Ragini and not about Aalekhs disability to understand relationships? Since when did Ragini become more important than her husband?

so if i understood you correctly, what you're ultimately saying is, alekh's actions were at least somewhat justifiable cause of his mental state, right...? i'm sorry hun, but i don't think i can agree with you there. alekh ki mental halaat itni bhi buri nahin ki he doesn't have the mental capability to just stay and listen to sadi for a couple of mins, to let her share her side of the story...i don't think his mental state has anything to do with how he reacted, its just his nature. he's a short-tempered, irrational person, and that's just who he is. and its sad to say, but many people, who are not considered mentally ill, are like this...and i think that's what the case is with alekh.
he had no RIGHT, no RIGHT to yell at sadi like that. he very well knows what he put her through, so the least he could've done is just give her a chance to explain herself. but sadly, he didn't do that. cause like i said, his trust, his patience with sadi, is very limited...

Originally posted by: chocolover89

Yes, Alekh was wrong in that he didn't bother asking Sadhna why she signed the papers. He should have had more trust in Sadhna. But can Sadhna actually explain anything? No. What is she going to say: I signed the papers because I made myself majboor because I couldn't see my jiji's confidence being crushed. Is that answer going to make things better? Will that make Alekh happy? Will he stand by that decision? Would ANYBODY stand by such a decision?

Salekh relationship is extremely weak from both sides. BOTH need to work really hard on it. Sadhna needs to understand that her relationship with Alekh is never truly going to flourish if she just keeps focusing on how to make Ragini happy. Ragini is a grown individual and it's time that Sadhna lets go of Ragini and lets her take care of her own life. Alekh needs to understand that more than love, trust is an integral part of a marriage-and without it, there's really no point to being married no matter how much you love each other because you'll never be happy.

i agree with pretty much everything you said there. anyone who knows me here, will know that i was PISSSSEEED at sadi for signing the papers. yes, alekh deserved it, and believe me i would've had no problem with it had she signed them cause she WANTED to leave him for all that he had done to her; but that is NOT why she did it and THAT is where my problem lies with her. sadi ultimately signed the papers so ragi could win a stupid dance competition!!!! WTF????!!!!!! i mean, WHAT RIGHT-MINDED PERSON DOES THAT???!!!! and what's even crazier is that she asked vasu, VASU of all people for help, when ranvir, ragini, alekh would've definitely helped her, WITHOUT any conditions; but she goes and asks vasu, who not only could care less about kaushi, but is also trying to ruin her marriage!!!! its absolutely INSANEEEE that she did that!!!!! so i agree, salekh marriage is therefore weak from sadi's part as well. i wouldn't call it "extremely" weak, but it is weak nonetheless. however, i do think it IS extremely weak from alekh's part though. i think he's pretty much the WORST pati i've ever seen on television!!!!

btw, even though i had read somewhere that alekh would agree to forget sadi and marry mallika BEFORE watching today's (march 4th) episode (where he ultimately does that), i still didn't wanna believe it until i saw it for myself. so as i was watching today's episode (march 4th), i was hoping against all hope that what i had read would not come true. and whaddya know...it DID!!!!!! you know, what shocked me about it is not that he agreed to marry malli, but HOW QUICKLY he agreed to do it. i mean, it took him what, like a whole 8 hours to forget sadi altogether, get over his divorce, and agree to marry someone else!!!!!! wah alekh, wah...i didn't think it was possible, but you proved to be even MORE pricklier than you already were with your actions today. SHABBASH beta, SHABBASH...!!!! even most unfaithful husbands, the prickliest of the prickliest, don't go forgetting their past relationship and agree to marry someone else only 8 HOURS after their divorce!!!!!!! seriously, i have no words for alekh's actions. *shakes head with EXTREME disappointment*

@pricey: sadi ultimately signed the papers so ragi could win a stupid dance competition!!!! WTF????!!!!!! i mean, WHAT RIGHT-MINDED PERSON DOES THAT???!!!!

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I feel your pain!!!! Its madness....

Like you I am pissed as hell with Aalekh. His behavior makes no sense at all. All he is good for is to imagine dancing with Sadhna, imagine taking saat phere with her....but he doesn't seem to able to deal with real situations....my impression of his "breakdown" on the roadside= zippadydoodah....

Since this whole track of the dance competition was meant to echo the previous track, I (loser that I am) spent some time catching up with those old episodes -
I saw the episode when Ranvir walks out of the Taj Mahotsav when he realizes that Anamika=Ragini. But they show him going through a period of self-reflection...yes, he initially succumbs to vasu's manipulations that Ragini and Sadhna were trying to "trap" him. But then he seems to listen to his heart and make his own choices...
Am I right? I didn't watch all the episodes....so I am drawing my conclusions from the fact that he apologizes to Ragini in a garden....was that after several agonizing torturous months???!!!

Anyway, maybe its too early to say, but the creatives (every time I use this word, I have to mentally throw up) seem to be denying this agency to Aalekh. They've made him a weak mamma's boy, vulnerable to all kinds of manipulation. To agree to get engaged to Mallika is beyond insane....thats not how you forget your past! by entering into a re-bound relationship! How mature!!!