Is Alekh any less unfortunate????

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@Omshanti1111

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Posted: 15 years ago

I know most of us are tremendously upset with Alekh's character. We just cant digest Alekh's ignoring Sadhna, the person who was instrumental in bringing his normalcy to him. I read one person writing in the RS blog "sir, usse normal kyun banaya, woh pagal hi accha tha"

But I feel is Alekh any less unfortunate than Sadhna? He never had a proper childhood, he became a victim and lost half of his life-time because of enmity between mother and aunt. Despite being the waris of Rajvansh family, he never could enjoy anything...he could not have a proper education, proper growing up..his mate and sibling grew up to become succesful Shlok and Ranveer, he also had that quality...but he just became a victim and lost the golden years of his life...

God had mercy on him and sent Sadhna to his life...Sadhna, Shlok and Ranveer stood together to make him normal...but what he is getting at the end... his own mother is making him again a pawn for her ego. He has got a mother whose ego is more important than her son's happiness...a mother who cannot make out that her son is in pain from his face...when Ranveer, Indrajeet and even Ragini amidst her pain could make out that Alekh is feeling the absence of Sadhna....

what an unfortunate person he is.. He has to live with the label of being a "pagal" all life and at the same time away from a person whom he loves so much, just to make up for all the previous hatred he had shown towards his mother....

Yes Alekh ...you are indeed unfortunate...

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@*queenme*

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Posted: 15 years ago

well whatever u said is true.. however whatever happened to alekh or is happening with alekh does not justify his treatment towards sadhna.. the fact is that he is not totally normal and the proof of this is that he still does not know how to be a loving husband.. being good at a career doesnt make a man mature... it takes maturity to understand how to deal with all relations in his life... last time he said there are so many ppl unhappy so how can i think of my happiness welll a real man would still accept sadhna no matter what... the truth is that he loves her and by not being with his wife and not being able to see the game that his mother is playing shows that alekh is not totally normal yet.. and its not sadhnas fault tht alekh has had an unfortunate life....she actually took him out of his misery and he is still so ungrateful...jus sayin that he loves her to himself means absolutely nothing.. he doesnt have the guts to tell the world...

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Bani

@Omshanti1111

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Posted: 15 years ago

I am not supporting Alekh's action..but he is slowly learning one by one...but true, by the time he learns, it might be too late for him...but then also he is unfortunate that he is on the verge of losing his love, his luck..Sadhna

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Art_Art11

@Art_Art11

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Posted: 15 years ago

I think it is on alekh's hand you know it is his choice to bring sadi back ,he can do it ,but he steps back for vasu ,he can't upset his mother.

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Bani

@Omshanti1111

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Posted: 15 years ago

Originally posted by: salha876
I think it is on alekh's hand you know it is his choice to bring sadi back ,he can do it ,but he steps back for vasu ,he can't upset his mother.

actually, he does not want to hurt his mother or Ragini by bringing Sadhna in front of Ragini esp., but by the time things cool down, Alekh could lose Sadhna... nothing could compensate for Alekh's loss of Sadhna, because noone will be at such loss than Alekh...Ragini will be taken care of by Ranveer and she will stay happy, Vasu will be happy as her ego is satisfied, Ranveer will feel sad for Alekh, but Ranveer also has to move on in life...but the worst sufferer will be again Alekh and Sadhna...Sadhna is at least stable to endure this pain..but Alekh, I wonder to satisfy his mother's ego, he has to bear that Mallika too...but if Alekh falls for Mallika on his own, I'ld have no sympathy for him...

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@miss_choxz

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Posted: 15 years ago

all said and done...............he should not turn a blind eye towards sadhna......because as a husband he has some duties and responsibilities towards her

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Bani

@Omshanti1111

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Posted: 15 years ago

Originally posted by: miss_precious
all said and done...............he should not turn a blind eye towards sadhna......because as a husband he has some duties and responsibilities towards her

undeniable...he needs to learn to strike a balance...again look upto Ranveer as his mentor

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Taral

@taral83

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Posted: 15 years ago

Yes I agree that Alekh is also unfortunate............and a victim of situations........However, I also think its a big difference between the misfortune of Sadhna and Alekh.............Sadhna misfortune so far was due to her goodness...n to be honest its actually not even her misfortune because she has always been happy as long as the other person was happy... even if it meant injustice to her.............In Alekh's case he was the pawn for his aunt most of his life and now a pawn for his mother..............And even though he can take matters into his own hands he choose to help is mom and is causing the pain upon himself.........The difference here is that he is not happy trying to make others happy........where as Sadhna is happy trying to make others happy....why cause Sadhna supports whats right and Alekh has not.....In Sadhna case, no matter what she chooses to do......(yes she misses them and it hurts)....but she is strong inside.......again as long as the other person is happy she is also happy..........this was shown when she didn't speak to Ranvir because he didn't tell his Jiji...............Sadhna misfortunes are due to her sacrifice and unconditional love.......Alekh misfortunes are due to his desire to prove himself and conditional love.....................Also, Sadhna always sacrifices and does what she can for her loved ones, but it never hurts a third person........it usually only hurts her.. she righteously does what she has to..........in Alekh's case trying to make is mom happy he has also hurt Sadhna and did injustice to her.....he was not fair....he scarifices and caused himself misfortune wrongly..........Sadhna is the total opposite...........

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Posted: 15 years ago

Originally posted by: taral83
Yes I agree that Alekh is also unfortunate............and a victim of situations........However, I also think its a big difference between the misfortune of Sadhna and Alekh.............Sadhna misfortune so far was due to her goodness...n to be honest its actually not even her misfortune because she has always been happy as long as the other person was happy... even if it meant injustice to her.............In Alekh's case he was the pawn for his aunt most of his life and now a pawn for his mother..............And even though he can take matters into his own hands he choose to help is mom and is causing the pain upon himself.........The difference here is that he is not happy trying to make others happy........where as Sadhna is happy trying to make others happy....why cause Sadhna supports whats right and Alekh has not.....In Sadhna case, no matter what she chooses to do......(yes she misses them and it hurts)....but she is strong inside.......again as long as the other person is happy she is also happy..........this was shown when she didn't speak to Ranvir because he didn't tell his Jiji...............Sadhna misfortunes are due to her sacrifice and unconditional love.......Alekh misfortunes are due to his desire to prove himself and conditional love.....................Also, Sadhna always sacrifices and does what she can for her loved ones, but it never hurts a third person........it usually only hurts her.. she righteously does what she has to..........in Alekh's case trying to make is mom happy he has also hurt Sadhna and did injustice to her.....he was not fair....he scarifices and caused himself misfortune wrongly..........Sadhna is the total opposite...........

Wow...excellent analysis. I so agree with you.