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Everyone,
This is no more a question of Sadhna and Ragini, it is indeed a matter of gravity, a matter of our conscience, whether we side with lie or truth. Let us put aside what already had been done...

Let us start from the beginning, when Ranveer hit the goon and DS asked Sadhna to lie.

First of all, I think worse to worst parents also try to instill the habit of speaking "truth" to kids. A thief also wants his/her kids to stay in the path of righteousness. What example did Ragini set as an elder sister and as a human being by advising Sadhna for her own reason to speak "lies". Is this an act of an elder sister to teach the younger sister to speak flat lies and that too by taking an oath in the name of GITA. Is this an example...Now she started to blame Sadhna, why? because Sadhna did not accept her teachings and preachings of "Lie" . What human example did Ragini set? Is she an ideal to follow?

I know my post will be closed in no time, because very few people will have answers. I had to open this post, because I felt in the pretext of Ragini, people are favouring "speaking lies" to "speaking truth". Is this what our parents and teachers have taugt us. We have not yet reached any crisis in our life, but still we are advocating "lies over truth" just for the sake of a show? will our parents be proud of us, will not they be pained just what pain Mamaji is facing?

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Posted: 15 years ago
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So many views! not a single reply to side with truth....
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Bani This is KALIYUG... truth will always die silently...


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I dont think so, I still have hope and quite optimistic that people will give it a second thought.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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I do agree! I am currenty hating ragini's behaviour! she has punished sadhna for doing the right thing simply for her own selfishness!
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I agree with u....truth is the best thing to say and follow cuz truth never stays hidden for long. we all understand how ragini feels but when someone like saadhna who can never lie, it is hard for her to lie especially when a holy book is in front of her. saadhna did what she thought was right and she was right...both saadhna and ragini are right in their places...we cant really blame raginifor how she is behaving because if that happens to anyone, they would act the same. therefore, both need time for recover from all the sufferings they are going through
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... what disturbs me is Ragini has failed to understand even her father... Ok Sadi can be wrong.... but has she ever thought that why her father who has always been an epitome of truth is supporting Sadi....It is for sure that mammajee has not given permission to Sadi to meet Ranveer...... Since so many days Ragini has been misbehaving with Sadi and still she hopes her to go and meet ranveer ... as he has put certain condition before his appeal... My only question is to Ragini.....you misbehave with her and still hope that sadi will run for your happiness( though she would do always). You don't even for once think of supporting herbut still wants her to do whatever you want......

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Posted: 15 years ago
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Bani, I agree with what you have said, but honestly where is truth these days? It takes a lot of courage to speak truth and follow the path of truth. In this selfish and fast paced world, who has time for this crap? Even though most parents encourage us to speak truth, how many do actually model the behavior? Why do witnesses in court cases in India change their testimonies zillion times? Why is there no clause for perjury?

Only a fearless person can speak truth but most of common people have tons of fears, that its convenient to lie and most people support lie to convince themselves that their behavior is justified. It needs a lot of soul searching for a person to understand the underlying causes of fear that prevents them from following the path of truth which unfortunately is not a easy thing to do.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: Omshanti1111

Everyone,
This is no more a question of Sadhna and Ragini, it is indeed a matter of gravity, a matter of our conscience, whether we side with lie or truth. Let us put aside what already had been done...

Let us start from the beginning, when Ranveer hit the goon and DS asked Sadhna to lie.

First of all, I think worse to worst parents also try to instill the habit of speaking "truth" to kids. A thief also wants his/her kids to stay in the path of righteousness. What example did Ragini set as an elder sister and as a human being by advising Sadhna for her own reason to speak "lies". Is this an act of an elder sister to teach the younger sister to speak flat lies and that too by taking an oath in the name of GITA. Is this an example...Now she started to blame Sadhna, why? because Sadhna did not accept her teachings and preachings of "Lie" . What human example did Ragini set? Is she an ideal to follow?

I know my post will be closed in no time, because very few people will have answers. I had to open this post, because I felt in the pretext of Ragini, people are favouring "speaking lies" to "speaking truth". Is this what our parents and teachers have taugt us. We have not yet reached any crisis in our life, but still we are advocating "lies over truth" just for the sake of a show? will our parents be proud of us, will not they be pained just what pain Mamaji is facing?

she was not setting an example of an older sister, the seriousness of the situation made her only think of her role as a wife. A wife that cannot see her husband punished. forget being a true sister, she couldn't even be a goodmother!, and was unable to take care of her child in her womb. All she wanted was her husband out, and yes she would do anything. Just like ranvir nearly killed a goon for his babhi, his BABHI? How about a wife for her husband?so in comparison a lie isn't much. Things are so much more easier said than done, i'm just trying to be practical about the situation...let's put all that angelic things to the side, afterall we are only human. How about the belief of ' a lie to save a person, is indeed not a lie'? I undestand that they are trying to potray sadhna as a pure soul above everyone else, but come on now...
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Sonya,people tend to compare the goon and Ranvir.Saving Ranvir means putting an innocent man behind bars!Is chandu really innocent?If he is a sharif insaan he wouldn't be doing what he is doing,right?The world minus one bad person is def a better place.But as everyone keeps saying there was Gita,so she couldn't lie.As I keep on saying Ragini's anger is justified.And again she is always considered as average by many people here and she reacted like that.One angel is enough,rest of the characters can be normal humans like you,me or any other!
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