Just one last attempt... - Page 2

Originally posted by: smitha80

Sonya,people tend to compare the goon and Ranvir.Saving Ranvir means putting an innocent man behind bars!Is chandu really innocent?If he is a sharif insaan he wouldn't be doing what he is doing,right?The world minus one bad person is def a better place.But as everyone keeps saying there was Gita,so she couldn't lie.As I keep on saying Ragini's anger is justified.And again she is always considered as average by many people here and she reacted like that.One angel is enough,rest of the characters can be normal humans like you,me or any other!

Originally posted by: sonya85

she was not setting an example of an older sister, the seriousness of the situation made her only think of her role as a wife. A wife that cannot see her husband punished. forget being a true sister, she couldn't even be a goodmother!, and was unable to take care of her child in her womb. All she wanted was her husband out, and yes she would do anything. Just like ranvir nearly killed a goon for his babhi, his BABHI? How about a wife for her husband?so in comparison a lie isn't much. Things are so much more easier said than done, i'm just trying to be practical about the situation...let's put all that angelic things to the side, afterall we are only human. How about the belief of ' a lie to save a person, is indeed not a lie'? I undestand that they are trying to potray sadhna as a pure soul above everyone else, but come on now...

Originally posted by: smitha80

Sonya,people tend to compare the goon and Ranvir.Saving Ranvir means putting an innocent man behind bars!Is chandu really innocent?If he is a sharif insaan he wouldn't be doing what he is doing,right?The world minus one bad person is def a better place.But as everyone keeps saying there was Gita,so she couldn't lie.As I keep on saying Ragini's anger is justified.And again she is always considered as average by many people here and she reacted like that.One angel is enough,rest of the characters can be normal humans like you,me or any other!

Originally posted by: smitha80

Ragini was blinded by pain when Ranvir was arrested and it was supposed to be the best time of her life with a baby on the way that would complete them.So yes,she expected her sister to help him out.I don't think she really was giving that much attention to truth or lies at that time.All she thought was to have her husband back at any cost.And when she didn't she was disappointed and angry.I thought and still think its a natural reaction to that situation.People who lose their loved ones try any means to get them back.That is also natural.I don't think that makes them less moral.She never was an ideal character anyway and Bani you yourself say that she is an ave girl,may be that's how an ave girl would react.I can't say for myself cos I never faced those problems.Even Sadhana kept saying right that everything will be alright?WIth what confidence as she herself knew that she was not comfortable lying?

Ragini's actions were justifiable until the miscarriage point.After that,anything that came or still coming out of her mouth are more and more damning.

As for Ranvir,let's see if he does have it in him to become a best pati along with best devar and bhai.He has yet to prove that.If he is going to blame Ragini without being sympathetic(though her fault)then hopefully Ragini might continue this attitude and show him the door!

There seems to be a confusion. Sadhana never told Ragini that everything will be alright after she was asked to lie in the courtroom. It all happened within a day. She was asked to lie by DS in the morning...the same night she went to meet Mamaji and next morning was the final hearing. In between there was no such assurance scene ...just emotional blackmailing...confusion...more confusion etc.

Originally posted by: sonya85

she was not setting an example of an older sister, the seriousness of the situation made her only think of her role as a wife. A wife that cannot see her husband punished. forget being a true sister, she couldn't even be a goodmother!, and was unable to take care of her child in her womb. All she wanted was her husband out, and yes she would do anything. Just like ranvir nearly killed a goon for his babhi, his BABHI? How about a wife for her husband?so in comparison a lie isn't much. Things are so much more easier said than done, i'm just trying to be practical about the situation...let's put all that angelic things to the side, afterall we are only human.How about the belief of' a lie to save a person, is indeednot a lie'? I undestand that they are trying to potray sadhna as a pure soul above everyone else, but come onnow...

Well Ragini trying to save her husband at any cost is not wrong. But she never bothered to notice how uncomfortable or nervous Sadhana was with this lying thing. She was overconfident that Sadhana can do anything for her happiness. Sadhana did even remind Ragini how Mamaji told them never to lie. It was so obvious after Sadhana fainted in the witness-box but Ragini kept her hopes high.