Sadhna Too Emotional-Mods Note Pg 4

Hey Guys, dont know why, when ever Sadhna comes on screen i get emotional, i get tears in my eyes.. Are all feeling the same?? Sadhna is sooooo sweeeeet, but she has never got happiness, and now Alekh is being the biggest happiness of her life. But she also takes very good care of him.. And she also loves Ragini alot.. Why cant mamiji see that???

yeh she is really sweet...mami is blind and whatever sadhna does she will not see that because shes just hates her.

mami is being very selfish and thinkng that ragini will always be compared to sadhna. she thinks because she is not her blood and will never be a part of the family

That is so true. Ragini is the one with darker skin, but the one I have seen suffering most in this show has been Sadhna. She has made so many sacrifices for her sister, from dropping that pot on her feet till bearing all Mamis taunts. She is actually the unlucky one. Ragi has been pampered by her mother her entire life... forget pampered, Sadhna never even got the chance to feel a mothers love.

You know, I absolutely love Ragini, but seriously, when you think about it, what has SHE done for Sadhna? What sacrifice has she made, what has she given up to make Sadhna's life better? She has never had an opportunity to do anything for Sadhna, but she has never tried to stop her mother, or told her that she, Ragini, wont tolerate her mother's constant insults and cruelty to Sadhna.

If Ragini put her foot down, I think things would have been different. I understand respecting your elders, but surely not when they are consistently wrong and cruel to your own sister! If Ragini told her mother once, that Kaushi was wrong, cruel and unfair to Sadhna, and that Ragini did not support her mean behaviour and constant insults and pettiness towards Sadhna, Kaushi would have been embarassed into admitting that she is a terrible person to Sadhna, and perhaps not had the guts to constantly attack an orphan girl who thinks of her as the only mother she has ever known. Im not saying Ragini joins Kaushi in her evil atitude, but I am saying staying quiet when you see cruelty is just as wrong as being actively cruel.

I think that now that Ragini is in the Rajvansh household, she needs to stop thinking of herself and Ranvir and try to help Sadhna and Alekh. Alekh and Sadhna have done everything for them, they got together because of Alekh convincing Vasu, and Sadhna has paid a heavy price for Ragini's happiness till now.

If the track does not show Ragini and Ranvir doing everything in their power to cure Alekh and help Sadhna get happiness, I think they will be labelled selfish and lose their impact as a jodi we support and think well off. Sadhna will be constantly victimized, and at some point, I think realistically, she will start to resent Ragini and how she herself is so unhappy. . I feel that we have seen Sadhna being the strong self sacrificing one throughout, and her happiness now lies in Alekh's full recovery. The only fair thing is for Ragini to be very helpful in that.

napmonster@ watch today's episode before talking about how ragi is selfish and has never tried to make her mother understand...........Never having the opportunity to sacrifice is not equal to not having the heart to sacrifice...don't confuse yourself over the difference..........and anyone who thinks of ragini and ranveer as selfish obviously don't get the point of bidaai or understand the charachter sketch, in which case, all arguments are pointless......

When everyone thought that Sadhana married Aalekh for money, it was Ragini who refused to believe it and found out the truth and told Mamaji and them the truth! Ragini also stopped people from blaming Sadhana when her marriage broke off and whatnot.

Whenever Ragini was in any position to do something for Sadhana, she did it and I'm sure in the future, Ragini will be helping Saalekh out. We all know that Ragvir take Saalekh on their honeymoon.

somebody please gift ragini lots of flower pots as a wedding gift.......so that she can 'prove' how much she loves sadhna......