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One dont have to MEASURE how sarcifising the other person has been...... Both sisters way of expressing their sarcifises and support has been different...

well sadhna n ragini..both r such amazingly positive characters... how can anyone of them be selfish?

ok sadhna has done a lot for ragi... but ragi really never got a chance to do something for sadhna...what shud she do actually to cure alekh? maybe now we'll get to see...cuz she has moved in into the same house...

love is not always abt "how much i did for u" small things also matter a lot...like how much ragini trusts sadhna...when everyone had doubts on sadi...it was ragi who stood by her...so thats also very imp... when mamiji told ragi abt vasu-ambika relationship before marriage... ragi just lookd at sadhna once... n she understood... even when sadhna tried to explain..she said she doesnt want to hear... that shows how much ragini loves sadhna! even today she tried her best to normalize things b/w sadi n mamiji.. im sure we'll get to see more such scenes in the future...ragini's love for sadi is no less! they both love n trust each other equally!

i love both the sisters...n their beautiful bond is one of the main reasons why i watch this show... so for me both r wonderful n amazing!

ragini has always thanked sadhna for whatever she has done..whether it was her engagement or her first day in rajvansh house!

infact sadhna is so imp to her that she was talking abt her on her SR too!! how can anyone say she doesnt love her sister...n its only sadhna who cares...thats just ridiculous! :S

Well we all have our own opinions, and thats the best thing about IF, that we get the opportunity to hear all these diff views. Sadhna has definitely done so much for Ragini, and I guess from today's episode Ragini has definitely spoken to Mami... possibly being the beginning of Ragi paying back all the sacrifices Sadi has made for her. So as of now, it might be too early to deem anyone selfish. All we can do is wait and watch!

well......ragini has been in the RV household for one night and one morning.......thats it.....lets give her sometime.....ragvir have never forgotten sadhana.....they always mention their gratitude to sadhana and the amount she has done for them......i mean they even talked about sadhana during their suhagraat......how many couples would even think of theirsister/bhabhi in such a situation......lets just give ragini some time....she hasnt as yet had the opportunity to help sadhana.....sadhana has problems with kaushi and the other problem in her life is that her husband is mentally unstable.....ragini has and is and wil be working towards helping sadhana in the case of her relation with kaushi.....but what can ragini do in the case of alekh.......she cant make him all right ...can she???.....and salekh have even gone on their honeymoon with ragvir......so ragivir have and will continue to do their fair share of what they can for sadhana and/or salekh......lets just give them some time......

I think personally, I feel quite protective of Sadhna, because there is no one to protect her. Sara plays a character that is inherently very gentle, but who has put herself into many situations where her love for her family has overcome her fears and her pain.

She does not stand up to people because thats not in her nature, so she cannot scream and yell at Vasu for putting down her family any more than she can decide, okay, Kaushaliya will never be a real mother to me, so I wont care what she thinks or does with me. While a more "mahabharat" type character might do both of those things, for Sadhna, its just not in character. I dont expect that, so dont presume thats what Im saying.

Sadhna gave everything for her family, the very house they live in is a gift from her, not to mention the happiness in Ragini's life. Obviously Sadhna sacrificed herself without anyone' knowledge or consent.

That is admirable, not because Ragini ever asked her to dump a flower pot on her foot, or marry a crazy guy, or pretty much sell her future for their house.Naturally Ragini would not want her to do any of this had she known. But the root of love here is sacrifice, more so because she gets nothing in return, and ASKS for nothing in return.

Im not saying there is a quid pro quo, that to get love you must do this and that, or that there is a balance sheet between the sisters. That doesnt mean, though, that Sadhna should always be the one giving and sacrificing, right? Id like her to have more, and Alekh, NOT cured magically by Ragini, but brought back slowly to normalcy would give her happiness.

She is admirable, Thats why we, in the audience, feel that she shouat least get a chance at happiness, and those who care the most for her, Ragini and Ranvir, should try and help make that happen.

Didn't mean to be rude or sarcastic to anyone from my end.........but it does hurt to see people coming down on a beautiful and gentle character like ragini.........anyways, let's move on...

Originally posted by: napstermonster

I think personally, I feel quite protective of Sadhna, because there is no one to protect her. Sara plays a character that is inherently very gentle, but who has put herself into many situations where her love for her family has overcome her fears and her pain.

She does not stand up to people because thats not in her nature, so she cannot scream and yell at Vasu for putting down her family any more than she can decide, okay, Kaushaliya will never be a real mother to me, so I wont care what she thinks or does with me. While a more "mahabharat" type character might do both of those things, for Sadhna, its just not in character. I dont expect that, so dont presume thats what Im saying.

Sadhna gave everything for her family, the very house they live in is a gift from her, not to mention the happiness in Ragini's life. Obviously Sadhna sacrificed herself without anyone' knowledge or consent.

That is admirable, not because Ragini ever asked her to dump a flower pot on her foot, or marry a crazy guy, or pretty much sell her future for their house.Naturally Ragini would not want her to do any of this had she known. But the root of love here is sacrifice, more so because she gets nothing in return, and ASKS for nothing in return.

Im not saying there is a quid pro quo, that to get love you must do this and that, or that there is a balance sheet between the sisters. That doesnt mean, though, that Sadhna should always be the one giving and sacrificing, right? Id like her to have more, and Alekh, NOT cured magically by Ragini, but brought back slowly to normalcy would give her happiness.

She is admirable, Thats why we, in the audience, feel that she shouat least get a chance at happiness, and those who care the most for her, Ragini and Ranvir, should try and help make that happen.

Apologies to everyone from my end as well. I am sorry I said anything.